I keep it in my dreams. Sweet memories will soothe the soul But a bad memories will eat the soul Theres a mark inside the heart. Becos we are human. How hard we try to forget it will always comeback
whitelily1: I keep it in my dreams. Sweet memories will soothe the soul But a bad memories will eat the soul Theres a mark inside the heart. Becos we are human. How hard we try to forget it will always comeback
Everybody has a past. some distance,some others short one. Past is past for both in a relationship. therefore is best to cherish a new relationship, and forget past ones.
Maya74: Do you keep photos, letters (or e-mails), cards, poems, small gifts from previous relationships? Or do you throw everything away once the relationship is over?
I used to keep everything. Then, a year ago, I decided to take a look at all those memories and the whole idea started to seem absurd. For example, I caught myself reading a love poem written by a boyfriend I was in a relationship with 20 years ago, I haven't seen for more than 10 years and who is now happily married with two children! So, I decided to throw away (and delete) everything from previous relationships, except photos (because they were my photos, too, as well as the photos of some friends, places we visited, etc.) and some gifts that I thought shouldn't be thrown away just because the one who gifted them was an ex-boyfriend (like books, etc.).
What do you do with your old memories? Those of you who threw them away - did you ever regret it? And those of you who keep them - do you ever worry that your future partner might see them and wouldn't like it?
staying stuck in the past is a really good way to keep oneself from moving forward me thinks..
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with his father,it is a great reward to hear him saying,
"""Whatever i have achieve in my life,i own it to my father."""