How to prevent yourself from contacting your ex? (53)
Maya74: We all had those kinds of situations when we are lonely and bored and when we start to remember our ex and some nice things we shared... And the idea of sending a message to him starts to seem so appealing... Of course, we know we shouldn't do it, because there's a reason why an ex is an ex and we know that even if we get together again - it will end the same way. So, that's a forbidden road. But, sometimes the desire gets too strong and nothing you do seems to have any effect. Neither a rational explanation to yourself nor all sorts of distractions - nothing! What do you do in these situations? How do you prevent yourself from doing something silly you will regret afterwards?
I wander if there's more to this obsession with ex, like issue with self esteem that needs some work...
Instead of focusing on your ex, how about focusing on yourself pleasure in what ever hobby you like to do, find a new enterntainment with a playful approach.
Imagine ex in the most ugly behaviour and hurtful moment for you and desire may disappier without a trace.
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rainbowdream2017: Oh, I am a bit surprised with your half Polish background....
Do you ever use Polish slang as you use Aussie slang ?
Happy New Year.
Do you ever use Polish slang as you use Aussie slang ?
Happy New Year.
I can't speak Polish only .."spunkydoopa"
HNY
where is Airebum? Hope not in your freezer 
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Lookin4missright: I can't speak Polish only .."spunkydoopa"
HNY where is Airebum? Hope not in your freezer
I don't know any 'bum' HNY where is Airebum? Hope not in your freezer
and I only put fresh meat in my freezer .
I wander if you drive track with a big freezer as freezer is always on your mind....possibly as proffesional deformation.
P.S.I think a dear friend of my that your referring too become a bit bored with forums and taking a brake.
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Lookin4missright: Go to Dedovix's house and have a few brandy's
mollybaby: She already lives in Fairyland
Anyway, she has left CS to sort out something from her past, maybe her ex
Anyway, she has left CS to sort out something from her past, maybe her ex
I'm back.
But, just for a chat on forums and blogs.
Almaty25: being occupate with somebody else and use the comparison why there was bad with ex
in case if still alone, be busy with some hobby, communications with different personalities....
in case if still alone, be busy with some hobby, communications with different personalities....
I tried that here, but it had the opposite effect.
I didn't even think about contacting my ex before spending some time on CS. I think this place is not good for our love life.
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rainbowdream2017: I don't know any 'bum'
and I only put fresh meat in my freezer .
I wander if you drive track with a big freezer as freezer is always on your mind....possibly as proffesional deformation.
P.S.I think a dear friend of my that your referring too become a bit bored with forums and taking a brake.
Few others missing to , along with two threads that went about the same time . Moderators might have a few in the cooler on ice .and I only put fresh meat in my freezer .
I wander if you drive track with a big freezer as freezer is always on your mind....possibly as proffesional deformation.
P.S.I think a dear friend of my that your referring too become a bit bored with forums and taking a brake.
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Maya74: We all had those kinds of situations when we are lonely and bored and when we start to remember our ex and some nice things we shared... And the idea of sending a message to him starts to seem so appealing... Of course, we know we shouldn't do it, because there's a reason why an ex is an ex and we know that even if we get together again - it will end the same way. So, that's a forbidden road. But, sometimes the desire gets too strong and nothing you do seems to have any effect. Neither a rational explanation to yourself nor all sorts of distractions - nothing! What do you do in these situations? How do you prevent yourself from doing something silly you will regret afterwards?
duct tape
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Build a new concrete patio, out in the woods.
It covers a multitude of sins.
Any self-respecting woods wants a concrete patio.
If you live in a place with only a few woods try ditches.
Not many woods around here but we have many ditches and many many patios.
Marvellous one's, we have the best patios in the world.
Ex's, lets make patios Great again
It covers a multitude of sins.
Any self-respecting woods wants a concrete patio.
If you live in a place with only a few woods try ditches.
Not many woods around here but we have many ditches and many many patios.
Marvellous one's, we have the best patios in the world.
Ex's, lets make patios Great again
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Might be difficult if you have kids together. If your the one who dumped your mate it shouldn't be all that hard.
If not just join a support group for scorned women. I don't think this is much of a problem for men.
If not just join a support group for scorned women. I don't think this is much of a problem for men.
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Maya74: We all had those kinds of situations when we are lonely and bored and when we start to remember our ex and some nice things we shared... And the idea of sending a message to him starts to seem so appealing... Of course, we know we shouldn't do it, because there's a reason why an ex is an ex and we know that even if we get together again - it will end the same way. So, that's a forbidden road. But, sometimes the desire gets too strong and nothing you do seems to have any effect. Neither a rational explanation to yourself nor all sorts of distractions - nothing! What do you do in these situations? How do you prevent yourself from doing something silly you will regret afterwards?
Block him from your phone..facebook...viber watsapp etc.
Keep yourself busy.
Round your friends up and head out for a night or away for a weekend.
Realise there is more fish in the sea.
Good luck
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A ex is a Ex for a reason, so for me they are gone for good and I won't look back....
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Send him message that we are really thanksfull for being his ex, coz we found the life so beautifull n colourfull without him beside us. we are more happy n success, its will not happen if we still with him
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Rig the phone to explode if any attempt is made to contact the ex
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Do you ever use Polish slang as you use Aussie slang ?
Happy New Year.