Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ? ( Archived) (35)

Dec 30, 2017 11:52 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Your a bit far for a cafe rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 30, 2017 12:01 PM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
emmy1: Your a bit far for a cafe


Yes thatswhy I asked you to know whether you are lying or telling the truth...grin
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Dec 30, 2017 1:35 PM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChrist: There was one girl, daughter of the Brazilian mafia, and she paid for everything. Drinks, meals, holidays, my new shoes and the train to go see her all bought and paid for by South American drug money. In my defence I was penniless at the time for a good reason and what would she have spent that money on? Botox and dresses; botox she didn't need and dresses she never wore.


That's made me nostalgic now for the good old days of poverty and malnutrition, surviving through force of sheer audacity and sponging off my girlfriend... They say that to grow bored of luxury is the worst thing that can happen to a person, but isn't life more exciting when you've nothing to lose?
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Dec 31, 2017 2:25 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
guysimple: Ok.
I dont date anyone I had Gf in past I never said to pay any even I never know how much she carry with her when she is with me. I always pay Its not just I am guy Its something else which is not pride...

I am single now a days ...I have friends most of them are guys I never let pay them when I am with them....

May be I am stupid


U r what I call very decent !
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Dec 31, 2017 2:30 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
papakurt
papakurtpapakurtGrand Forks, North Dakota USA1 Posts
I have always wondered how men can not pay for their date. I was raised that is how it is done, and for me it would just be assumed that is how it would be.
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Dec 31, 2017 2:39 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
papakurt: I have always wondered how men can not pay for their date. I was raised that is how it is done, and for me it would just be assumed that is how it would be.


Yes, that's the old school I originate from.
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Dec 31, 2017 3:42 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Depends on a few things really... Who asked who, where it is, everybodies circumstances etc...

If I asked a random out for a meal, I'd expect to pay for it. I'd find it tiresome if she wanted to go through the whole bill and work out who ate how much garlic bread. Its nice if she offers to help pay, I usually suggest she can get the ice creams later or something.
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Dec 31, 2017 3:49 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
pat8lanips: Depends on a few things really... Who asked who, where it is, everybodies circumstances etc...

If I asked a random out for a meal, I'd expect to pay for it. I'd find it tiresome if she wanted to go through the whole bill and work out who ate how much garlic bread. Its nice if she offers to help pay, I usually suggest she can get the ice creams later or something.


And at last

A proper person with real values and morals !!!
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Dec 31, 2017 4:08 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
I think it is a mans privilege to pay on the first date..
it is showing his masculine side...
I would pay on a second date!
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Dec 31, 2017 4:12 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
MsContessa: I think it is a mans privilege to pay on the first date..
it is showing his masculine side...
I would pay on a second date!


If it is

No strings attached, yes ?
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Dec 31, 2017 6:38 PM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
chris27292729: Then half of the white population have origin from Dutch,
its natural to have adopted the Dutch line


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Going Dutch means:-

- 50/50

Or

- Each pay for their own food consumption E.g finding out who ate how much of the garlic loaf ? It is a lengthy and painful and an embarrassing situation after a generally pleasant meal, which make for no repeat performance.

Thus:- its better if just one person pays and to later in the comfort of wherever sort out who owes who. If ur scared u ll not get ur money back, don't take someone out that can't afford the whole bill ?
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Dec 31, 2017 9:53 PM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
I always thought going Dutch involved smoking heaps of weed at coffee shops.
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Jan 1, 2018 12:08 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
pat8lanips: I always thought going Dutch involved smoking heaps of weed at coffee shops.



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And not paying for it
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Feb 17, 2018 7:07 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
SweetnFunnyChic
SweetnFunnyChicSweetnFunnyChicSharjah, United Arab Emirates10 Threads 5 Polls 374 Posts
Depends. If he asks me out he pays. Next time I do the same etc. If we both want to go somewhere dinner/movie etc I offer to go dutch. I don't like a guy paying all the time, but that's just me.
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Feb 23, 2018 2:21 AM CST Do u mind paying for ur date (or) Do u go Dutch ?
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,428 Posts
I've never dated but if I did I would pay for myself that way he's not expecting my Hoo Haa for desert
and because I eat huge I wouldn't want to choose a salad and pretend I'm not that hungry so as to
not cost him a fortune laugh

but in saying the above going out to eat as a date would bore me plenty
of other fun interesting things to do than sit opposite each other chewing
food.
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