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Snookums33online now! Snookums33

Joburg, Johannesburg South Africa

What do u think of a psychologist ?
My ex husband and me went to see a psychologist:-

They gave me a clean bill of health and he had a severe violent streak and thus wasn't given a clear.

He abused me and my 2 sons, behind closed doors, but in public butter could not melt in his mouth.

I wish that he goes for therapy and be the person he can be.

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Demeter123

Sundsvall, Vasternorrland Sweden

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
Snookums33: My ex husband and me went to see a psychologist:-

They gave me a clean bill of health and he had a severe violent streak and thus wasn't given a clear.

He abused me and my 2 sons, behind closed doors, but in public butter could not melt in his mouth.

I wish that he goes for therapy and be the person he can be.


Ahhh, but what do YOU think?moping
Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
You don't need a Psychologist to tell you to stay well away from anyone that has been violent to you and your children.. Psychopaths like the way they are so no amount of therapy will cure them.
Forget about him and let positivity flow into your lives.. conversing
Snookums33online now! Snookums33

Joburg, Johannesburg South Africa

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
Demeter123: Ahhh, but what do YOU think?


I studied quite a diverse range of subjects / degrees, of which one was psychology.

Not my style, but I was just told today that according the questions I ask and do the evaluation, I act like a psychologist.

But my ex looses control, have blackouts during and then cannot remember any of the kids.

I believe it's a cop out.
Snookums33online now! Snookums33

Joburg, Johannesburg South Africa

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
MsContessa: You don't need a Psychologist to tell you to stay well away from anyone that has been violent to you and your children.. Psychopaths like the way they are so no amount of therapy will cure them.
Forget about him and let positivity flow into your lives..


We last saw him Feb 2010, on his way back to the UK, and we sighed with relief, out of our lives.

Now he's trying to contact us via the internet, and we're all ducking. We don't exist for him anymore, no more contact of any kind.
Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
Block him and remove every emotion you have in relation to him..
love yourself and your sons..
He is just trying to emotionally abuse you now, he will never change.
Well done since 2010.. teddybear
Snookums33online now! Snookums33

Joburg, Johannesburg South Africa

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
MsContessa: Block him and remove every emotion you have in relation to him..
love yourself and your sons..
He is just trying to emotionally abuse you now, he will never change.
Well done since 2010..


U know typing this here now made me realize that I did not notice its been that long. That's great.

Thanx for the support.
Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
No problem.. You have done well...
We all need to keep negative stuff out of our life.
We all have choices.... hug
Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
Tel your X that lookin is in you life and I bet he won’t bother you any more. wave
fifitrixibelle

galway, Galway Ireland

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
galrads: Tel your X that lookin is in you life and I bet he won’t bother you any more.
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Snookums33online now! Snookums33

Joburg, Johannesburg South Africa

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
galrads: Tel your X that lookin is in you life and I bet he won’t bother you any more.


Lookin won't scare him off but someone else will.
BerrySmoothieonline today! BerrySmoothie

My Retreat, Auckland New Zealand

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
Snooks,

You mention your ex a lot, a sure sign you're not actually over what occurred between the two of you.

It's time you put it behind you.

Block all his current attempts to contact you and your sons.

When your sons are older, they may wish to contact their father on their own bat.....which will be out of your control. The meeting may be beneficial for them.

....but for now....move on with your life, busy yourself and look ahead, not back.
Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
BerrySmoothie: Snooks,

You mention your ex a lot, a sure sign you're not actually over what occurred between the two of you.

It's time you put it behind you.

Block all his current attempts to contact you and your sons.

When your sons are older, they may wish to contact their father on their own bat.....which will be out of your control. The meeting may be beneficial for them.

....but for now....move on with your life, busy yourself and look ahead, not back.




What BerrySmoothie says thumbs up
Dedovixonline today! Dedovix

Big Place, Central Serbia Serbia

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
Snookums33: My ex husband and me went to see a:-psychologist

They gave me a clean bill of health and he had a severe violent streak and thus wasn't given a clear.

He abused me and my 2 sons, behind closed doors, but in public butter could not melt in his mouth.

I wish that he goes for therapy and be the person he can be.


Well fist of all, why did you need a psychologist to tell you something that you already know - like a verification ,you wasn't sure that there is something wrong?

Why didn't the two of you go to several psychologist, maybe their `` analysis `` would differ

And then, there is always the biased opinion we form about our failed marriage

what provoked his violent streak ...
ChesneyChristonline today! ChesneyChrist

Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
They're necessary and I see society going insane in two extremely different ways along the lines of dull workaholics and train-wrecked left-behinds.

We should all be having that 3-4 day working week, but the current setup in the welfare state and the man in marketing would never allow it; Every fifth person in the office exists to offset the aggressive sales techniques of the fifth person in another office, the fifth person in all offices could be sacked without loss to the goods and services provided by any office... or everyone in the office could have a 4-day week, same difference.
ChesneyChristonline today! ChesneyChrist

Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
ChesneyChrist: They're necessary and I see society going insane in two extremely different ways along the lines of dull workaholics and train-wrecked left-behinds.

We should all be having that 3-4 day working week, but the current setup in the welfare state and the man in marketing would never allow it; Every fifth person in the office exists to offset the aggressive sales techniques of the fifth person in another office, the fifth person in all offices could be sacked without loss to the goods and services provided by any office... or everyone in the office could have a 4-day week, same difference.


Or maybe I'm saying they're not truly necessary. Cutthroat capitalism increases the demand for psychotherapists and anti-psychotic drugs, the lunacy comes from the rat race. Through capitalism we've become like Sisyphus the master in thief punished in Hades to repeatedly roll a boulder up a hill only to have it roll back down again as soon as he reaches the top. Einstein said insanity is to do same thing over and over again and expecting a different result and Dostoevsky said the best way to break a man was to make him repeat the same pointless task.
Snookums33online now! Snookums33

Joburg, Johannesburg South Africa

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
galrads: What BerrySmoothie says


Why don't u have ur own opinion ?
Lookin4missrightonline today! Lookin4missright

melbourne, Victoria Australia

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
galrads: Tel your X that lookin is in you life and I bet he won’t bother you any more.



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Snookums33online now! Snookums33

Joburg, Johannesburg South Africa

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
Dedovix: Well fist of all, why did you need a psychologist to tell you something that you already know - like a verification ,you wasn't sure that there is something wrong?

Why didn't the two of you go to several psychologist, maybe their `` analysis `` would differ

And then, there is always the biased opinion we form about our failed marriage

what provoked his violent streak ...
Snookums33online now! Snookums33

Joburg, Johannesburg South Africa

Re: What do u think of a psychologist ?
Violent streaks r natural to the person.

It does not require reason its inherent.

Anything can trigger it.

The blame cannot be given to someone else.
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