what has been the stages of falling in love including time and later the stages of falling out of love.. Not taking things like lust, control, abandonment or outside variables into account… just pure love….
MsContessa: what has been the stages of falling in love including time and later the stages of falling out of love.. Not taking things like lust, control, abandonment or outside variables into account… just pure love….
a person can fall in love at first sight (literally), or u suddenly see ur best friend differently, or it can take the general route of dating, etc.
I fell in love at first look with my ex, and see what happened.
MsContessa: what has been the stages of falling in love including time and later the stages of falling out of love.. Not taking things like lust, control, abandonment or outside variables into account… just pure love….
. It has all been infatuation, l have never loved anyone except my Mother and Grandmother as l posted a while ago on another thread, however loving them may not be the same as a love of a woman. I doubt that many sane people could explain in words what actually being in love means.
My 'term' of loving someone is simply showing them that you are a good person, being kind and caring, respectful. I any of you think the same then we indeed know what love is.
yubba: . It has all been infatuation, l have never loved anyone except my Mother and Grandmother as l posted a while ago on another thread, however loving them may not be the same as a love of a woman. I doubt that many sane people could explain in words what actually being in love means.
My 'term' of loving someone is simply showing them that you are a good person, being kind and caring, respectful. If any of you think the same then we indeed know what love is.
yubba: . It has all been infatuation, l have never loved anyone except my Mother and Grandmother as l posted a while ago on another thread, however loving them may not be the same as a love of a woman. I doubt that many sane people could explain in words what actually being in love means.
My 'term' of loving someone is simply showing them that you are a good person, being kind and caring, respectful. I any of you think the same then we indeed know what love is.
So everyone must have their own concept of what being in love is..
MsContessa: How did you know you were in love? what evidence?
When you are in love, everything changes. You become your better self - nicer, kinder, more patient, more tolerant... All problems aren't that big any more and difficult things are easier to endure. Somehow, everything becomes more beautiful and - shiny. You are inspired and motivated. You feel joy and want to share it. Just being with the person you are in love with is - enough.
It's a wonderful feeling. Too bad it doesn't last for a long time...
Maya74: When you are in love, everything changes. You become your better self - nicer, kinder, more patient, more tolerant... All problems aren't that big any more and difficult things are easier to endure. Somehow, everything becomes more beautiful and - shiny. You are inspired and motivated. You feel joy and want to share it. Just being with the person you are in love with is - enough.
It's a wonderful feeling. Too bad it doesn't last for a long time...
Yeah... you sum up... being in love, beautifully... Someone told me that 'true loves does not die'
MsContessa: what has been the stages of falling in love including time and later the stages of falling out of love.. Not taking things like lust, control, abandonment or outside variables into account… just pure love….
The first six months are a dream, then you love them less than your dog or favourite sandwich for about a year whilst pretending not to like anybody else. If you take to this behaviour it turns into a wedding.
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ChesneyChrist: The first six months are a dream, then you love them less than your dog or favourite sandwich for about a year whilst pretending not to like anybody else. If you take to this behaviour it turns into a wedding.
...and that's probably the reason WHY I never got married....
ChesneyChrist: The first six months are a dream, then you love them less than your dog or favourite sandwich for about a year whilst pretending not to like anybody else. If you take to this behaviour it turns into a wedding.
Surely, that is just being in lust... Why stay with someone you don't love, even for one day!
MsContessa: what has been the stages of falling in love including time and later the stages of falling out of love.. Not taking things like lust, control, abandonment or outside variables into account… just pure love….
Love is something that grows over time. You don't really notice it until oe day you realise that you are in love. It's a lovely feeling once that realisation hits.
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Not taking things like lust, control, abandonment or outside variables into account… just pure love….