…Do women want to be judged on their looks? (306)

Jan 7, 2018 12:54 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
jac_the_gripper: Can we agree that you want to be judged by your narrow minded, arrogant, misogynistic thread?

Whether you want to be, or not, you are going to be.

What's that? Your thread isn't the whole of you? There's more to you than just your thread? There's a complex, intelligent, feeling human being behind this thread?

So, you're just trying to get a discussion going; you're trying to interact, learn, grow, make friends maybe?

You want us to see the real you behind your thread...but how are you going to do that without creating more posts, or threads by which you'll be judged?

Certainly, no one's going to know you even exist if you just sit there at home and read the forums.

You've got to play the game with the rules made up by someone else if you want opportunity, interaction, learning, growth, a relationship, friendship...whatever it is you're here for.

And when you do the right thing, the socially acceptable thing of grasping opportunity rather than sit at home accepting nothingness, you'll be judged for it.

Do I want to be judged by my looks?


...My threads are created to discuss subjects and if you are a snow flake, then you can always ignore my threads, because you clearly have trouble accepting the truth and are attempting shaming tacticsrolling on the floor laughing
Jan 7, 2018 1:02 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
LeeCharming: ...My threads are created to discuss subjects and if you are a snow flake, then you can always ignore my threads, because you clearly have trouble accepting the truth and are attempting shaming tactics



Jac a snowflake?? rolling on the floor laughing


She could eat you for breakfast and then sit down to a Full English laugh
Jan 7, 2018 1:15 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
mollybaby: Jac a snowflake??


She could eat you for breakfast and then sit down to a Full English


...Maybe she is your hero and idol or is she just another man haterdunno
Jan 7, 2018 1:18 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Tribute to the SJW Feminazi rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 7, 2018 1:21 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Jan 7, 2018 1:23 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Tanqueray
TanquerayTanquerayLondon, Inner London, England UK294 Posts
LeeCharming: ...How often do you seek for compliments on your looks and how often do you need validation from a man for your looks?


Why, do you think I need someone to validate what I already know about myself?wine

I just send a compliment slip in the post with 2TB hard drive inside so the recipient can write/draw/design all their compliments about me, then return it by special delivery. After that, well does it really matter?
Jan 7, 2018 1:23 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Jan 7, 2018 1:24 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Maya74
Maya74Maya74Atlanta, Georgia USA8 Threads 197 Posts
LeeCharming: ...Well yes I agree and women want to make themselves more beautiful, so they can snag a man and get validation for the way they look with the mask on


That's a simplified way of thinking. :)

For example, we all know that men don't care about nails or nail polish and things like that. Still many women invest a lot of their time and money in making their nails beautiful. They do that for their own pleasure and fun. It has nothing to do with men. :)
Jan 7, 2018 1:35 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
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Look you just want us to validate that all wonen are out to 'snag' men using whatever method they can.


Some women wear make-up because they feel better in it. Others wear it because they have to put on a certain look at work etc.

It all boils down to the fact that a man can only get 'snared' by a woman wearing make-up if he chooses to.
Men know whether the woman he is chatting up is wearing make-up or not. He can choose tp disregard them if he wishes. Free will comes into play here.
She chooses whether to wear it or not, he chooses whether he likes it or not.
Jan 7, 2018 1:37 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia19 Threads 1 Polls 4,967 Posts
LeeCharming: …When you think about it they do in general and that is why they were makeup to enhance their looks, spend a fortune on clothing, haircuts, manicures, pedicures, hair waxing, breast implants, facelifts etc.

…Why do a number of women contradict themselves, by claiming they don’t want to be judged by their looks, when they go so far out of their way to not only grab the attention of men, but also compete to look better, than other women?

Can we all admit that, Makeup was invented for women to attract men and cover up their imperfections? Can we admit, that women do want to be judged on their looks? Can we admit that women feel the need to wear makeup to make themselves look better and attract men? Can we admit that attractive looking women can get away with just about anything?


No, liquor was invented for that purpose

Unfortunately we think that we have achieved a significant progress compared to people from back 200-400,or 900 years ago ... and yeah, technological we did, but spiritually, emotionally or even mentally...decreases
We have lost our primal direction and sense , atavistic needs and rooths ... so we tend to wander off from one trend to another ,finding a new ``deep meaning`` in different philosophical movements and religions ...and of cause they are designed and created to keep us confused and dull
Jan 7, 2018 1:42 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Shaming you hadn't crossed my mind. In fact, quite the opposite.

My post was allegorical.

If you felt shame, it came from yourself.
Jan 7, 2018 1:59 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia19 Threads 1 Polls 4,967 Posts
Maya74: That's a simplified way of thinking. :)

For example, we all know that men don't care about nails or nail polish and things like that. Still many women invest a lot of their time and money in making their nails beautiful. They do that for their own pleasure and fun. It has nothing to do with men. :)



oh my dear neighbor ...trust me , we do notice , and Women are aware of it laugh
Jan 7, 2018 3:28 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland72 Threads 6,050 Posts
LeeCharming: …When you think about it they do in general and that is why they were makeup to enhance their looks, spend a fortune on clothing, haircuts, manicures, pedicures, hair waxing, breast implants, facelifts etc.

…Why do a number of women contradict themselves, by claiming they don’t want to be judged by their looks, when they go so far out of their way to not only grab the attention of men, but also compete to look better, than other women?

…Can we all admit that, Makeup was invented for women to attract men and cover up their imperfections? Can we admit, that women do want to be judged on their looks? Can we admit that women feel the need to wear makeup to make themselves look better and attract men? Can we admit that attractive looking women can get away with just about anything?


I look after my appearance for me and nobody else.

I dont think its the women who should worry about how they are seen.
Men should really start taking more pride in their appearance themselves instead of leaving the house looking like stevie wonder dressed and cleaned them.
Jan 7, 2018 3:37 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
LeeCharming: ...I don't buy what you are selling and women do dress up, wear makeup etc to get attention from men and feel good about themselves


A recent experiment (Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 36, 493-504) revealed that women pictured wearing cosmetics were evaluated as healthier, more confident, and even having greater earning potential than the same women wearing no makeup.
Jan 7, 2018 3:40 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
MsContessa: A recent experiment (Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 36, 493-504) revealed that women pictured wearing cosmetics were evaluated as healthier, more confident, and even having greater earning potential than the same women wearing no makeup.


They are usually slim as well!
Jan 7, 2018 3:42 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
KremaP: Very often by "Open mind" people mean "I can't be arsed to make an effort and that's why I expect you to put up with all my shite"...


thumbs up
Nicely said.
Jan 7, 2018 3:48 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
Being slim is a cultural thing.
In some cultures it is status to have extra weight, meaning you can afford to eat plenty.
Why is western culture so obsessed with weight?
Jan 7, 2018 3:48 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
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Tanqueray: Why, do you think I need someone to validate what I already know about myself?

I just send a compliment slip in the post with 2TB hard drive inside so the recipient can write/draw/design all their compliments about me, then return it by special delivery. After that, well does it really matter?


You must be a female max headroom. Look identical!rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 7, 2018 4:00 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
MsContessa: A recent experiment (Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 36, 493-504) revealed that women pictured wearing cosmetics were evaluated as healthier, more confident, and even having greater earning potential than the same women wearing no makeup.


Och I think that's a whole different thread right there.
Jan 7, 2018 4:02 PM CST …Do women want to be judged on their looks?
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