LeeCharming: What you describe is pure vanity and credit to you for admitting, that women do spend a fortune on makeup, wear makeup to get attention from men and to cover-up their in-perfections
Well, that's a public secret... We are not discovering the hot water, men do spend quite a lot on body and facial care products too, gym, hair removal, perfumes... You judge us by our pictures, not very wise, may be Berry wears only lipstick on this photo...and I only have mascara, believe it or not, I don't even own lipstick...go figure...
KremaP: Men and women are judged by their looks, like it or not... Can you imagine how many great personalities one misses because of that...if we don't like what we see it's very unlikely to try and find out what's within...
...Why can't other women just admit what you said and stop complaining about men not noticing the inner woman? clearly women want to be judged on their looks above all else and always have
KremaP: Well, that's a public secret... We are not discovering the hot water, men do spend quite a lot on body and facial care products too, gym, hair removal, perfumes... You judge us by our pictures, not very wise, may be Berry wears only lipstick on this photo...and I only have mascara, believe it or not, I don't even own lipstick...go figure...
Darling K - Don't change that - You are gorgeous and I love you as you are
Just to be clear I don't wear face cream, I don't get pedicures, I don't get my legs waxed, I don't wear any cosmetic products at all and never will. Women will judge me and I don't care at all, because I am letting them see the true me and not hiding behind a clown mask
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
LeeCharming: I hate to point out the obvious, but in your photo you are wearing lipstick, your face is covered by foundation and face cream, your cheeks are covered by blusher and your eyebrows have been pencilled on, so what part of your face is uncovered? If this is making minimum effort, then I can’t imagine how much effort you make, when you leave your house.
I think women have got into such a habit of wearing makeup, they don’t even know they are applying it and deny it, but they do it every single day and I think it has something to do with low self-esteem and fear of people seeing how they really look under the mask of the clown
Makeup is promoted to girls at a young age and becoming a princess has been the dream of many, because of Disney movies brainwashing and claiming the prince will save them. Stop talking about the inner you, if you are too afraid to reveal the outer you and abandon makeup completely, because from the start you are deceiving men with your fake faces and why should men take you seriously?
Mr judgeMENTAL LeeCharming
Charming you most definitely are not.....
Ta for the positive critique..... although a tad exaggerated, I must say.
I am a woman. Despite what you think, we do like to enhance our features, particularly on a dating site such as this. Yes, we do like to be noticed, and yes, I've applied some make-up to do just that. Men, in general, judging by the number of messages I receive, don't appear to share your view(which btw is a bit rich coming from a faceless profile such as yours)
I'm 56. I look after myself, and as I stated previously, I wear minimal make-up in real life. I think I look OK actually, considering my age, and haven't gone OTT with cosmetics in my profile pic.
It is only your view, and you're welcome to it.
...but why am I justifying myself to you? Beats me
Ta for the positive critique..... although a tad exaggerated, I must say.
I am a woman. Despite what you think, we do like to enhance our features, particularly on a dating site such as this. Yes, we do like to be noticed, and yes, I've applied some make-up to do just that. Men, in general, judging by the number of messages I receive, don't appear to share your view(which btw is a bit rich coming from a faceless profile such as yours)
I'm 56. I look after myself, and as I stated previously, I wear minimal make-up in real life. I think I look OK actually, considering my age, and haven't gone OTT with cosmetics in my profile pic.
It is only your view, and you're welcome to it.
...but why am I justifying myself to you? Beats me
rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
LeeCharming: Just to be clear I don't wear face cream, I don't get pedicures, I don't get my legs waxed, I don't wear any cosmetic products at all and never will. Women will judge me and I don't care at all, because I am letting them see the true me and not hiding behind a clown mask
It's highly hipocritical to be judgmental in picking faults of people with photo's, while your hiding your face behind a ghost photo and what's that but empty mask to hide true self.
Ta for the positive critique..... although a tad exaggerated, I must say.
I am a woman. Despite what you think, we do like to enhance our features, particularly on a dating site such as this. Yes, we do like to be noticed, and yes, I've applied some make-up to do just that. Men, in general, judging by the number of messages I receive, don't appear to share your view(which btw is a bit rich coming from a faceless profile such as yours)
I'm 56. I look after myself, and as I stated previously, I wear minimal make-up in real life. I think I look OK actually, considering my age, and haven't gone OTT with cosmetics in my profile pic.
It is only your view, and you're welcome to it.
...but why am I justifying myself to you? Beats me
Cheer up
Have a nice day.
I was simply pointing out the make-up you smothered your face with to get men’s attention. You can’t claim you don’t wear much make-up, when we can all clearly see you do and you women claim you don’t want to be judged by the way you look, but go out of your way to get noticed
If you don’t want to be judged by the way you look with war paint on, then don’t wear any in public and prove you can get ahead in life without it.
A large number of men and women don’t have profile photos, because it is not mandatory to do so and we will still comment, as much as anyone else about anything we want, because we all have that right to.
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Well, that's a public secret...
We are not discovering the hot water, men do spend quite a lot on body and facial care products too, gym, hair removal, perfumes...
You judge us by our pictures, not very wise, may be Berry wears only lipstick on this photo...and I only have mascara, believe it or not, I don't even own lipstick...go figure...