…Do women want to be judged on their looks? ( Archived) (306)

I knew I could rely on you....

You're a honey...really, you are...

You make it easy for me..

I should probably go watch some UFC now.. grrrr...

Oh im not in the position to look Berry...just trying to make Lee see that looks account for nothing.


Hope all is well with you

Just reading ur other posts i can empathise with hair and humidity mix lol

Er....off the beaten track a little, but...

my son was upset over the final episode of "Sons of Anarchy"

I don't watch it myself, but I know you're a fan.

Yep.. the final episode was upsetting but it was poetic justice.. had a bit of irony too.. I remember the first time I watched it I felt exactly like your son. Now I agree with it.

Such is life I suppose.

Hi Dee...

All good here, thanks....

Yep, had to rush straight to the hairdressers to sort out the nest....

Just my view Dee....sometimes a gal....has to use a little bait. It's a competitive world. I don't see anything wrong with a man or woman presenting themselves to the best of their ability....but you and I both know....it IS about what is underneath, that counts in the long term.

Yep....he was retelling me snippets of it.

Sounded sad.

Time for my bed again...it's cooler now.

Nite...

Good night

You like natural look and there's nothing wrong about it. My grandfather had the same taste as you and my grandmother never wore any make-up or dyed her hair. He actually shared your opinion and always told my mom and me that natural women are the most beautiful. You just need to find the woman who thinks the same as you. There are many women like that.

I do love my make up like any woman...but dont lile too much and certainly know the joys of dating world for sure Berry.!!

But yes for sure whats on the inside counts.

Oh...btw Lee,

I don't mind a good debate....but when you personally ridicule/mock someone's profile pic when you are unwilling/unable to provide a pic of your own.....you lose the argument.

You crossed the line.

IMO.

Im in for a service atm....lol

We are all individuals with different habits ! It's not a regular habit to me and some times I wish that it is. I don't think that you really understand nature of women. Women using make up, not only to impress men but also to feel good about themselves, maybe for self confidence and may also be self sufficient intent.
Don't tell me that you don't feel any different if you shave your face or if you don't look after yourself ?
I think the best make up on women face is presented discretely that looks close to natural but that's a personal choice and preference of taste...just like food. Some man criticise women who doesn't wear make up, while others can't wait to express strong dislikness towards women make up.
Who can ever please ALL man taste and who cares to please all man ? Lol
Anyway,person should be accepted in a whole package, with make up or without make up and as someone pointed out, the most important part is ' if you can count on that person in a bad time and not just in a good time', if person is reliable, trustworthy, affectionate, caring, emotionally mature, respectful, good listener and a best friend ...but that could be only description of an friendship if person also doesn't wake up sensual appetite in us ...with visual effect as well as with pleasent acceptable behaviour.... as if you look at the sweetest decorated cake that makes your saliva dribbling from desire.

I like your made point, that a good looking man or a women can be both a**hole, regardless of gender but that's not a rule in general. I am not certain but I do have a sligh doubt if you hinted on my person with this comment that I might be a prick lol. Funny.

I'll never forget one very attractive female aquintence that many man chased but she always thought of herself being 'ugly and not good enough' because in all her childhood her mother always come with a bad undermining comments...and yet i also know really 'ugly' ones that walks with a sense of pride like beauty Queens.
It is really all in one's mind, what we lived/ experienced, individual ego complexity and capability to overcome our weekness, simple how we deal with our inner 'devil's or shadows' ...You know, some man use dominatory controling way to tell women how to dress up,what style of make up or not to use and how to be in every particular way ..maybe for the reason that makes their man matcho ego feels bigger as something is missing in room of self improvement, admitting and accepting that all this has really nothing to do with make up but seeking power . Cheers.

I am too fare from UK to discovere if he turned into a sweet English Vampire.