Have u ever been jealous ? ( Archived) (24)

BerrySmoothie: Are you suggesting there are people who may be jealous of you?

BerrySmoothie: Was just trying to clarify your thread header.....I'll let someone else deal with this

I'm off to bed....

BerrySmoothie: Snooks,

I was just trying to get the gist.

No need to stamp your feet.

Unfortunately your threads tend to take a sinister turn with your manipulative, abrasive style of chat, ir someone is lucky enough to work out what the hell you're on about in the first place.

Most people have learned to stay well away, which is a shame, because you come up with some interesting topics, at times.

Tanqueray: So if I say no I am not a jealous person, you will refute it?

I doubt very much she is in denial.

You can’t have everyone on your side all the time. Give people room to participate without constantly having a go at them when their input does not suit your frame of mind.

What you write on your threads in my view is easy to comprehend. Okay you have experienced a period in your life that has left you incredibly vulnerable, that is clearly evident.

Making rash judgements about others, it does not suit you, hence why you will receive a variety of responses. Some might say you are trying to provoke people, some might say you are an idiot, some might say you are okay, it goes on and on to a point one day, you will get it and change, before you completely lose yourself on here and become just another deleted profile in cyber space.

Tanqueray: So if I say no I am not a jealous person, you will refute it? I doubt very much she is in denial.

You can’t have everyone on your side all the time. Give people room to participate without constantly having a go at them when their input does not suit your frame of mind. What you write on your threads in my view is easy to comprehend. Okay you have experienced a period in your life that has left you incredibly vulnerable, that is clearly evident. Making rash judgements about others, it does not suit you, hence why you will receive a variety of responses. Some might say you are trying to provoke people, some might say you are an idiot, some might say you are okay, it goes on and on to a point one day, you will get it and change, before you completely lose yourself on here and become just another deleted profile in cyber space.

Tanqueray: See that is exactly what I mean in relation to your response above. Drop the hard act, you are better than what you have written above.

Perhaps you also need to drop the stubborn act too. Take the advice of others you can’t do it all on your own, although you are trying very hard.

No need to say sorry to me, what for?

Tanqueray: It is part of human nature to help out others and participate in change. You see it as selfish when perhaps a raw nerve is touched.

People change the minds of others everyday for good reason, take a less cynical look at what I am saying here.

So when you get the chance to go to Italy, without a shadow of a doubt you will change, part of that chcange will be facilitated by the people you interact with. Change occurs at times without us being wholly are of it.

If I accepted every human being in this life for who they are it would be detrimental to my health and yours if you applied the same.