Deedee123x: Ur missing the point. This isnt about a persons own preference. This is about name calling and using derogatory words to purposfully hurt those that are in a minority and who are deemed social outcasts by the people who call them such.
Its not about personal preferences so ur argument is for a different topic. We all have out preferences. We also dont come on here spouting names at the people qe choose or choose not to date.
Its called having a little decorum and class ..some people on here are lacking in same and funnily enough the same ones are the ones who make out they are holier than thou.
Some should simply grow up. Some probably have kids whose parents r acting like this on this forum and tske no heed to how their kids act on their own age appropriate forums and so the cycle continues of ill mannered people who have limited vocabluary and not one bit caring towards others.
Shame on them!!
It seems to me that I've been at least as inclusive as you.
mykingdomforanam: It seems to me that I've been at least as inclusive as you.
Maybe you're missing the point.
Yes ur being inclusive to the extent of the age thing which i also dont agree with.
What im talking about is the name calling.
Lets say yes a person sits around all day a d eats watever they want and is scrounging off the government because they cant/wont get work. What in all honesty is the point in calling them.every name under the sun. Calling the the F word or the L word. Seriously what does it solve? Will they suddenly come on here. See u say these things and suddenly decide they should change their lives. Hell no hey wont of anything u will drive them to go further into theor own spiral.
I dont see the poit in he name calling...it shows u or anyone elae up for the lack of decency than it does anything to them. If u want to be proactive about it...go to a person u feel is like this...shake their hand.
Be their friend..help them out...because more often than not these people have underlying mental health conditions that has them as they are.
Go help he homeless who are on the side of the street by taking them for lunch or dinner and talk to them. Instead of calling them the B word.
Go visit sick people in hospital and see what they go through before one goes calling them Bed hoggers and clogging up he system.
Took many yackers on here and not enough doers in my opinion. Everyone "knows" how to change the world from the comfort of their sittig rooms and not enough get up and goers who are willing to at least make someone as close as a next door neighbour lives better.
Deedee123x: Yes ur being inclusive to the extent of the age thing which i also dont agree with.
What im talking about is the name calling.
Lets say yes a person sits around all day a d eats watever they want and is scrounging off the government because they cant/wont get work. What in all honesty is the point in calling them.every name under the sun. Calling the the F word or the L word. Seriously what does it solve? Will they suddenly come on here. See u say these things and suddenly decide they should change their lives. Hell no hey wont of anything u will drive them to go further into theor own spiral.
I dont see the poit in he name calling...it shows u or anyone elae up for the lack of decency than it does anything to them. If u want to be proactive about it...go to a person u feel is like this...shake their hand.
Be their friend..help them out...because more often than not these people have underlying mental health conditions that has them as they are.
Go help he homeless who are on the side of the street by taking them for lunch or dinner and talk to them. Instead of calling them the B word.
Go visit sick people in hospital and see what they go through before one goes calling them Bed hoggers and clogging up he system.
Took many yackers on here and not enough doers in my opinion. Everyone "knows" how to change the world from the comfort of their sittig rooms and not enough get up and goers who are willing to at least make someone as close as a next door neighbour lives better.
Yeah, I noticed how upset you were by name calling; and the way you objected to t words, f words, c words, and n words.
I also noticed that you didn't respond to my post asking you how many overweight, black and Chinese transvestites do your site parameters allow to contact you?
It doesn't matter what you call people, as long as they don't feel welcome in your life...
mykingdomforanam: Yeah, I noticed how upset you were by name calling; and the way you objected to t words, f words, c words, and n words.
I also noticed that you didn't respond to my post asking you how many overweight, black and Chinese transvestites do your site parameters allow to contact you?
It doesn't matter what you call people, as long as they don't feel welcome in your life...
U didnt ask me that. You asked LouLou that.
I have black gay men friends I have white gay women friends. I have friends from various parts of the world. I am friends with straight white men and women I am friends with men of an age older than my dad and mam. I actually know some transvestites but unfortunately we havnt become so aquainted that i can call them friends..
And if u care to take a second to see my profile u will see it says that i am currently not looking to meet anyone no matter race or creed or colour.
So where can u say im being prejudice ..if thats what ur implying by ur response above to me??
Deedee123x: U didnt ask me that. You asked LouLou that.
I have black gay men friends I have white gay women friends. I have friends from various parts of the world. I am friends with straight white men and women I am friends with men of an age older than my dad and mam. I actually know some transvestites but unfortunately we havnt become so aquainted that i can call them friends..
And if u care to take a second to see my profile u will see it says that i am currently not looking to meet anyone no matter race or creed or colour.
So where can u say im being prejudice ..if thats what ur implying by ur response above to me??
I thought I asked you that question, and Lou Lou answered it.
I also noticed that you still didn't answer my question...
My profile says, I'm not interested in meeting someone either; but I also welcome anybody to contact me.
mykingdomforanam: I thought I asked you that question, and Lou Lou answered it.
I also noticed that you still didn't answer my question...
My profile says, I'm not interested in meeting someone either; but I also welcome anybody to contact me.
I do not have any barriers on my profile ..is that what u are asking. Men do still message me and i still chat to them but let them know im not looking.
Deedee123x: I do not have any barriers on my profile ..is that what u are asking. Men do still message me and i still chat to them but let them know im not looking.
One2note: Than a fat one.. after all, men are visual creatures!
i think there's a lid for every pot.
i find healthy attractive. and i believe most men probably are attracted to healthy as well. healthy comes in lots of sizes...lol. so back to....every pot has a lid.
regarding...men are visual creatures...and do slim women have a better chance of dating? i dunno... it's been my impression that as long as one has some body parts, and a bit of self love..they will get noticed.
Deedee123x: I do not have any barriers on my profile ..is that what u are asking. Men do still message me and i still chat to them but let them know im not looking.
So have i all ur questions answered
Then can you atleast lift the boom gate so i can get in
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The discrimination continues.
Whatever...lol...