Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ? ( Archived) (22)

Jan 13, 2018 2:33 PM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Just accept urself as is. Voetstoots. Do not change for others benefit, u only have to please urself.

When u get constructive criticism from a loved one consider it. If it does not suit u as a person, just don't do it !

When someone does not like something about u, tell them to find the person they want elsewhere then.
E.g.
They don' like ur hair, body, voice, and many more ?

Tell them to go fly a kite !


help
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Jan 13, 2018 3:11 PM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
TokyoRogue
TokyoRogueTokyoRoguePerth, Western Australia Australia2 Threads 242 Posts
Depends if it's one of those self loathing days.
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Jan 13, 2018 3:12 PM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
galrads: I like myself super duper


Ok, super duper, ur just fine as is.
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Jan 13, 2018 3:16 PM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
TokyoRogue: Depends if it's one of those self loathing days.


R u serious.

Check ur self esteem, ego.

If that is where it should be, u should have no bad days about urself, just

About others giving u grief.
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Jan 13, 2018 7:49 PM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Yes. I accept the frailties and the strengths when it come to myself. I hope I like myself. we spend an awful lot of time togetherlaugh laugh hug
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Jan 14, 2018 12:47 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
diova
diovadiovaMy Valley, Gauteng South Africa733 Posts
Hell no...
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Jan 14, 2018 6:35 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
diova: Hell no...


If u don't love urself first,
U cannot love anyone else either !!!
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Jan 14, 2018 7:20 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
The way you perceive yourself reflects on the way others perceive you...
If you don't love yourself you'll attract more pity than love...
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Jan 14, 2018 7:25 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
KremaP: The way you perceive yourself reflects on the way others perceive you...
If you don't love yourself you'll attract more pity than love...


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Some like it like that Krema and post hundreds of threads here only to throw sheet at posters when they do not fall in line with its thinking.
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Jan 14, 2018 7:34 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
yubba: .
Some like it like that Krema and post hundreds of threads here only to throw sheet at posters when they do not fall in line with its thinking.





I agree Yubba, I usually try to ignore the reason behind and answer to what I believe the question should be...
When we put on a side the extremes and the sickening trends forced on us, our opinions can be understood pretty easily I believe...
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Jan 14, 2018 8:03 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Tanqueray: Why ?


I'm not the most eloquent person, but will try to explain, in my way:-

If u love urself, u have high self-esteem, and u accept love and attention, not wonder why ur getting it.
If u don't love urself, u don't expect people to love u, and thus do not believe it someone tells u that they love u as u doubt it, and r always querying ur self-worthiness.

U have to make peace with urself, and learn to love urself !!!

I'm sure u can follow the thoughts from here ?
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Jan 14, 2018 8:10 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
TokyoRogue: Depends if it's one of those self loathing days.



Loathing others seems to be the best remedy on my self loathing days. I'm just a little ray of sunshine.


Immediately what comes to my mind is the post on the 'Ego on wheels' and u used ur shoes and feet. That told me that ur a realy great person !
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Jan 14, 2018 8:23 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
KremaP: To love yourself should not be understood like having a high self esteem...
The way you treat others speaks louder than what you think of yourself...
If you have love you give love, if you have high self esteem you walk over others...
We should be ready to not expect anything in return when we give...actually the more we give the more we have to give...


U automatically have a high self esteem, if u love urself:-
and No, u do not walk over others, u just make ur point known, and not keep quiet, else they then walk over u.

I give a lot out of my heart, to all that I feel need it, and expect nothing back.
and No u don't end up giving more and more, as they r then using U.
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Jan 14, 2018 8:28 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
Tanqueray: Thanks for explaining what you think and feel.


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That was lucky, she never slagged you off on that post.
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Jan 14, 2018 8:38 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
KremaP: The way you perceive yourself reflects on the way others perceive you...
If you don't love yourself you'll attract more pity than love...

Beautiful as usual, Darling K lips
And when I say I love a beautiful woman I mean it heart beating
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Jan 14, 2018 9:07 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Love myself you ask? There are days when I can't even stand myself.
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Jan 14, 2018 10:18 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
KremaP: No, Snooks, you don't automatically love yourself when having high self esteem and vice versa, you may not even like yourself...


"“U automatically have a high self esteem, if u love urself:-"

NOT VISA VERSA

THINK LOGICALLY ?
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Jan 14, 2018 10:57 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
You'll hunt down and punish others for breaking your own rules, but forgive yourself for doing the same. All your relationships with others will be based on hypocrisy and fear because of self-cherishment and who is to say you gain the upper hand every time and do not instead become victim to an abusive tyrant oblivious to anything they do wrong?
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Jan 14, 2018 11:05 AM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
ChesneyChrist: You'll hunt down and punish others for breaking your own rules, but forgive yourself for doing the same. All your relationships with others will be based on hypocrisy and fear because of self-cherishment and who is to say you gain the upper hand every time and do not instead become victim to an abusive tyrant oblivious to anything they do wrong?


I'm just not mixing with some people.

Simple
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Jan 14, 2018 12:51 PM CST Do u love urself - unconditionally - No critique ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
KremaP: If we allow logic to rule over our heart we would never be capable of feeling love...


Most women and men approach logic as an enigma, reserved for males only.

Wrong, I'm very logical, quote a few people have said I think like a computer no shades of grey.

Is it that different from women a take her to his cave, first clubbing her.p

If logic and some caring did not rule the world, it would be chaos, indeed !!!
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