M4_Mischief: So now we have to predict what might happen to us and where we can go so that it wont happen to us or we are at least partly responsible for what someone else chooses to do?...nope...im not buyin it.....im not that good and neither are a lot of others out there....that is one place where victim blaming got its start....attributing these magic to powers to everybody to know what might go on every second around every corner so that we can avoid it and because we didn't...we are some how to blame for our own fate....nope...the only one to blame is the person who makes the choice to commit the crime...period...
M4_Mischief: So now we have to predict what might happen to us and where we can go so that it wont happen to us or we are at least partly responsible for what someone else chooses to do?...nope...im not buyin it.....im not that good and neither are a lot of others out there....that is one place where victim blaming got its start....attributing these magic to powers to everybody to know what might go on every second around every corner so that we can avoid it and because we didn't...we are some how to blame for our own fate....nope...the only one to blame is the person who makes the choice to commit the crime...period...
M4_Mischief: So now we have to predict what might happen to us and where we can go so that it wont happen to us or we are at least partly responsible for what someone else chooses to do?...nope...im not buyin it.....im not that good and neither are a lot of others out there....that is one place where victim blaming got its start....attributing these magic to powers to everybody to know what might go on every second around every corner so that we can avoid it and because we didn't...we are some how to blame for our own fate....nope...the only one to blame is the person who makes the choice to commit the crime...period...
Let's try that again. You're a fool if you don't try to protect yourself in all situations.
I believe for better of worse we are responsible for every decision we make. As are criminals. There is always (to a varying degree) some crossover in our responsibilities when it comes to the outcomes of our decisions. Sometime those decisions result in things happening that nobody in their right mind would have seen coming. Never the less one or more decisions were made that directly resulted in something unexpected to happen. So in conclusion we can't get away from fact that every decision we make has consequences and we have no one to blame but us for our own decisions..
M4_Mischief: You deserve to walk with your head held high g/f.....that girls blouse didn't deserve you.....
Yep
I would put my two cents worth on here but you do that then people think your damaged goods so it's hard for me to post on a thread that people can use and twist you've spoken for me love thank you
rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
Mercedes_00: I had no idea he was a drug user or an alcoholic my friends knew but kept silent they presumed I knew they said we always wondered why someone so good looking as you feel for that.
They knew him I didn't know him I remember one day ringing his mum screaming for her to help me I had a busted lip my torso was smashed from his steel cap work boots my hair that was to my waist he used blunt scissors blunt knives to hack at my hair.
She said I can't interfere in your business she hung up I rang the police once when he sobered up they let him out it was worse and yes he cried a zillion times bringing me a teddy bear or flowers and yep me always thinking it's going to change.
Thank you rainbow it's a chapter that's closed I could write a book doubt I would be believed I reckon it's those woman who succumbed to death who need to be thought of
Mercedes_00: I had no idea he was a drug user or an alcoholic my friends knew but kept silent they presumed I knew they said we always wondered why someone so good looking as you feel for that.
They knew him I didn't know him I remember one day ringing his mum screaming for her to help me I had a busted lip my torso was smashed from his steel cap work boots my hair that was to my waist he used blunt scissors blunt knives to hack at my hair.
She said I can't interfere in your business she hung up I rang the police once when he sobered up they let him out it was worse and yes he cried a zillion times bringing me a teddy bear or flowers and yep me always thinking it's going to change.
Track16: Yeah but still. I can easily say though I have never touched or mistreated anyone at any point ever. Not going to either.
He's father was the same as well as one of his brothers.
Look I drink Xmas day Boxing day New Years I drink like a camel those occasions I party hard I'm definitely not against people drinking in a fun spirited way of course there are guys who are able to drink who are full of kindness & tenderness.
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