Principle of the least concerned ( Archived) (10)

you need to apply the other rule , the law of diminishing returns . No jump on Sunday morning = being single sooner or later as another important principle apples , that a relationship is like a pair of scissors , it needs a good screw to keep it together .

In America treat them mean keep them keen applies more than anywhere else. You must take great care never to over-respect the Americans and you get them to do things they don't want to do simply by challenging them into it. Objectively you can be nothing, but if it's subjectively challenging they will dance to your tune all the same. It's all about making them feel on the backfoot and all the things they then do to prove themselves worthy. It's all self-love; these people entirely motivated by how they feel about themselves as opposed to love for anyone else. You not loving them makes them feel like a failure and feeling like a failure facilitates their tireless efforts to please you. Their love for you as something separate and distinct from their own self-consciousness does not exist.

Women seem to get worse in love. In general men are the servile yes-men where women are more the other way - indifferent and entitled with an unjustified sense of high self-esteem. Women are the boss in social relations but my god does this high self-esteem very easily become low self-esteem when she enters into a relationship. The cocky independent woman strives to be a doormat in less than a week, thats where bad boy comes in.