Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ? ( Archived) (58)

Jan 20, 2018 3:46 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
pat8lanips: I have pretty weird dreams, especially when I eat cheese before bed time.


That happens me too.
They r so weird....one was of a baldy aussie on roller skates and hotpants singing Kylies spinning around.

Then lo and behold i wake up n log onto CS and "meet" u!!

dunno confused
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Jan 20, 2018 4:02 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Because the phrases 'he's a scammer' and 'he chose me!' are somewhat incongruous.

Scammers don't chose, they target. One of the ways they target is by leading naive people to believe they are choosing them, not targeting them.

If you can't tell the difference, you're a potential target.

I think both KB and I got the impression from your posts that you can't tell the difference. That's why I asked if you'd read the scammer warnings.

I wanted to ask you how this fella had scammed you over the last 3 1/2 years, but didn't know how to do it without you getting stroppy.

Before I thought of a way, KB had asked the question...and you got stroppy with her.


He was very nice at the beginning sending me pm's eventually to marry him. Then he publicly played the field with like Jazz and Daniella and I got angry and reported him where he got banned from Cs for life.

He had all my personal details and we corresponded on Skype for 3 1/2 years. All that I know about him is his Skype address, supposedly an architect with his own business, and sleeps with anything, men and women.
I stopped believing the promises, even tho I wanted to, it was just too smooth as if staged. He showed off physically countless times, jerking off on Skype. I did not show any nakedness, as I always had something, even shorts and a top on. I suspected he was taping all the Skype video calls.

This week an internet account was tried to be hacked by someone in Milano, Italy, where he is currently building another fictitious hotel, while according to him, living in Turkey. I don't know anyone else there. We have hardly any contact left, except sometimes exchanging a hello on Skype. I never met him, after countless promises. This past Christmas he was also supposed to come visit. I hate flying long distance, so never went there.

There is a scammer and troll for u !!!
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Jan 20, 2018 4:20 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Lookin4missright: I just knew i should have had breakfast when i was supposed to


Lol Lookin
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Jan 20, 2018 4:38 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
No, he's not a scammer, nor have you suggested anything which would imply trolling.

He might not have been very nice, he might have been a player, he might have taken advantage of your nativity, but he wasn't a scammer.

Y'know, if people want to lie, cheat, mess people around, they are at liberty to do so.

You need to be able to tell the difference between nice people and not so nice people. If it took you 3 1/2 years to work out he wasn't a nice person, you missed the signals you could have probably started picking up in the first few mails.

Maybe you could let a trusted friend read your mail if you're getting emotionally attached to someone and give you some feedback.
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Jan 20, 2018 4:41 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
jac_the_gripper: No, he's not a scammer, nor have you suggested anything which would imply trolling.

He might not have been very nice, he might have been a player, he might have taken advantage of your nativity, but he wasn't a scammer.

Y'know, if people want to lie, cheat, mess people around, they are at liberty to do so.

You need to be able to tell the difference between nice people and not so nice people. If it took you 3 1/2 years to work out he wasn't a nice person, you missed the signals you could have probably started picking up in the first few mails.

Maybe you could let a trusted friend read your mail if you're getting emotionally attached to someone and give you some feedback.
ah, and that's what I was going to say, but jac did it more succinctly.
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Jan 20, 2018 4:46 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
jac_the_gripper: No, he's not a scammer, nor have you suggested anything which would imply trolling.

He might not have been very nice, he might have been a player, he might have taken advantage of your nativity, but he wasn't a scammer.

Y'know, if people want to lie, cheat, mess people around, they are at liberty to do so.

You need to be able to tell the difference between nice people and not so nice people. If it took you 3 1/2 years to work out he wasn't a nice person, you missed the signals you could have probably started picking up in the first few mails.

Maybe you could let a trusted friend read your mail if you're getting emotionally attached to someone and give you some feedback.


So, what was he using me for ?

Some INNOCENT FUN ?

He was definitely a scammer (fraud) and a troll.

I'm not giving more info. That was just to give u some idea, and obviously not the private details in too much colour !

How can u make such a judgement without knowing the finer details ?

U knew him as well !
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Jan 20, 2018 4:56 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Me?

Succinct...?

Now there's a first! laugh
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Jan 20, 2018 5:00 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
The question was: Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?

Was expecting some great romantic stories moping
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Jan 20, 2018 5:10 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Unless he was cleaning out your bank account, or getting you to cash dodgy checks, or selling your personal details to certain companies, he wasn't a scammer.

If you find someone's activities on Skype disgusting, you don't have to politely sit there and humour them. Close the Skype the moment you feel uncomfortable, or intruded upon and then block them.

You don't need to explain. You don't need to worry about hurting their feelings. If it's something you haven't both agreed upon, if it's not mutual, if you haven't consented, then just leave and don't bother communicating with them again.
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Jan 20, 2018 5:11 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
MsContessa: The question was: Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?

Was expecting some great romantic stories


Refer earlier in the thread:-

U will notice, that the story was a request by 2 Cs regulars from years back, they were alleady here when I joined.
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Jan 20, 2018 6:12 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Dd. Thanx for the vote of confidence.

The new Cs man is great. Decent, Kind, Proper, etc
Everything the previous one wasn't.

We learn from experience, or r supposed to at least.

An LDR can be good, if both parties wants it to succeed.
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Jan 20, 2018 6:21 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Lookin4missright: Hope i get to see someone succ something i'm h*rny


Ok, i'm good

Embedded image from another site
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Jan 20, 2018 6:28 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Lookin4missright: I'm hoping DeeDee has skype, butt i'm not gonna tell


Im too upset with u just yet.

Im going to kentucky with Llaarrii....

Ill be back soon...maybe

sad flower
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Jan 20, 2018 6:46 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Deedee123x: Im too upset with u just yet.

Im going to kentucky with Llaarrii....

Ill be back soon...maybe



Ok lub, bring back some chicken mmm mmm mmm nom nom
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Jan 20, 2018 6:56 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Lookin4missright: Ok lub, bring back some chicken mmm mmm mmm nom nom


Im sorry, me and llaarrii plan on eating it all.

Then we are gonna .............lick....our ...fingers after it.


devil devil
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Jan 20, 2018 6:59 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
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Jan 20, 2018 7:06 PM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
I met my dream match here but heard through the grapevine that the ad robot got a virus so I'm not touching it help
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Feb 14, 2018 9:16 AM CST Have u met the person of ur dreams on Cs ?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Not yet, and I doubt I will soon either, by the looks of it ?
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