I gave up my share of our house ( 50% ) when my ex and I divorced. My family and friends were aghast but I think my happiness with Art is more important than having a house in my name.
My ex and I still remain friends and I wish he'd meet a lovely woman who can cook really well......unlike me
Lookin4missright: Did you give up something that you regret when your marriage went sour????
Did you win or lose in dividing your assets ????
Did you do anything shifty to get back at your EX????
Have you got your EX chopped up and in your freezer or buried in your back yard
There's an awful lot of talk about freezers and bodies from the men lately
No marriage; no division of assets; no problems.
I have remained friendly with my exes. I don't see any advantage of blaming them for my lot in life. I have to take responsibility for that Everybody makes mistakes, everybody is human. We learn from it and move on.
My ex and I were guilty of exposing our kids to our bickering, fighting, name-calling, etc....etc....etc...
That all happened when we were living abroad. As soon as we came back to Malaysia, I requested him to move out of the house in order to create a better environment for the kids and I. He did just that but occasionally came back to visit his kids and spent a couple of days with them.
He became 100% sober 2 1/2 years ago and his relationship with his kids has improved tremendously. I'm happy for us!
Jan 22, 2018 11:28 AM CST UNTYING THE KNOT.................
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I found it best to just let everything go, to seek any kind of revenge is to end up still attached to the person. I have not been in a relationship for many years, but the last one i left, I gave everything to. I got him a house to live in a car to drive and gave him the business, that way I would not have to talk to him ever again. I even gave money to his girlfriend when he was still living with me.
Lookin4missright: Did you give up something that you regret when your marriage went sour????
Did you win or lose in dividing your assets ????
Did you do anything shifty to get back at your EX????
Have you got your EX chopped up and in your freezer or buried in your back yard
My ex and I had an applicable divorce. He gave me and my daughter almost everything and we stayed friendly and still are after being divorced over 20 years. We decided not to be enimies for our daughter's sake.
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Did you win or lose in dividing your assets ????
Did you do anything shifty to get back at your EX????
Have you got your EX chopped up and in your freezer or buried in your back yard