Did your ex ever start arguments for no apparent reason? (182)
LeeCharming: …Yes – I used to respond by laughing, because I knew she expected me to be a mind reader and would not tell me, why she was really starting a fight…why do women create such unavoidable drama? Why can’t they say what they are really thinking and be direct? If you talk about the real reason for the fight, then it can be resolved, but if you don’t, then nothing gets resolved…communication is the key…
Anyone else notice this behaviour in their exes?
Anyone else notice this behaviour in their exes?
I agree with you 100%, communication is the glue of any relationship. some women and men do create drama. in everything they do. even here.
We all make mistakes, and there are no perfect person: Regarding genre, I prefer the imperfections of a female, with all their faults.
btw, "ex"s are easily blamed as everyone's ex is a sociopath..
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Yes she is a Misandrist 
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Bogart_1960: I agree with you 100%, communication is the glue of any relationship. some women and men do create drama. in everything they do. even here.
We all make mistakes, and there are no perfect person: Regarding genre, I prefer the imperfections of a female, with all their faults.
btw, "ex"s are easily blamed as everyone's ex is a sociopath.. do they blame you, or are you a sociopath.?.
We all make mistakes, and there are no perfect person: Regarding genre, I prefer the imperfections of a female, with all their faults.
btw, "ex"s are easily blamed as everyone's ex is a sociopath.. do they blame you, or are you a sociopath.?.
Great diplomatic reply... I also prefer the imperfections of men, with all their faults.
What a strange and boring world it would be if we were all perfect!
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MsContessa: Great diplomatic reply... I also prefer the imperfections of men, with all their faults.
What a strange and boring world it would be if we were all perfect!
What a strange and boring world it would be if we were all perfect!
diplomatic?.. oh noooooo, i am getting "normal ".
Totally agree with you, no robots, For me a person with flaws/issues is the #1 reason why I love my friends. They are real.
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Bogart_1960: diplomatic?.. oh noooooo, i am getting "normal ".
Totally agree with you, no robots, For me a person with flaws/issues is the #1 reason why I love my friends. They are real.
Totally agree with you, no robots, For me a person with flaws/issues is the #1 reason why I love my friends. They are real.
It is why i love my friends too.
Two in particular are as brazen and bold and are straight out with it to ur face...and i happen to love that about them because they are as u say REAL.
I also love the flaws of men and their quirks and what makes them who they r.
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She was heavily into soaps and I thought she had her drama fix, but like the saying goes "women love drama" and always need attention...
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LeeCharming: She was heavily into soaps and I thought she had her drama fix, but like the saying goes "women love drama" and always need attention...
I know, sure we are desperate altogether arnt we
How have u survived so long inhabiting this earth with us cretons!!
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Deedee123x: It is why i love my friends too.
Two in particular are as brazen and bold and are straight out with it to ur face...and i happen to love that about them because they are as u say REAL.
I also love the flaws of men and their quirks and what makes them who they r.
Two in particular are as brazen and bold and are straight out with it to ur face...and i happen to love that about them because they are as u say REAL.
I also love the flaws of men and their quirks and what makes them who they r.
ist great to have friends who call us out on our own bs. they are very special and not "normal", as most people just want to fit.
likewise, i love real women, difficult to find, as everyone is "extraordinaire". they are rare, Very rare
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...Think this is the reason why many women pick the 6ft plus jerk with the one brain cell and muscles, because they like the drama he creates and how powerless he makes them feel...
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I really think people carry too much baggage. We like to blame the ex always. Human nature I guess. We tend to forget like dancing it takes two. Revisionist history makes it seem we all were the put upon one in the relationship. No sense remembering every snide comment or disparaging remark we made just before the fireworks erupted.
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Bogart_1960: ist great to have friends who call us out on our own bs. they are very special and not "normal", as most people just want to fit.
likewise, i love real women, difficult to find, as everyone is "extraordinaire". they are rare, Very rare
likewise, i love real women, difficult to find, as everyone is "extraordinaire". they are rare, Very rare
Absolutely, they make me a better person the more im around them...very special.
Ur looking for ur Lauren Bacall, Bogie.
She is out there.
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Deedee123x: Absolutely, they make me a better person the more im around them...very special.
Ur looking for ur Lauren Bacall, Bogie.
She is out there.
Ur looking for ur Lauren Bacall, Bogie.
She is out there.
right now just looking to finish "paperwork". ready to get to bedwe all have someone out there. for sure. ....sometimes.... we re dumb.
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UncleAl1953: I really think people carry too much baggage. We like to blame the ex always. Human nature I guess. We tend to forget like dancing it takes two. Revisionist history makes it seem we all were the put upon one in the relationship. No sense remembering every snide comment or disparaging remark we made just before the fireworks erupted.
Its true...was certainly like that in my younger years.
But i see things for as they are now...it helps in the healing of the break if u see it for how it really was instead of blaming the ex...makes moving on alot easier and quicker..
Still feels crappy though doesnt it..
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Bogart_1960: right now just looking to finish "paperwork". ready to get to bed
we all have someone out there. for sure. ....sometimes.... we re dumb.
we all have someone out there. for sure. ....sometimes.... we re dumb.
Night night Bogart
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...AS we all know women test men and play mind games, because they want drama and they want to test us...why can't women be more direct? men don't think the same way as women and can't read minds...men don't lead with our emotions and women do....some women can be very spiteful and hateful...Hell have no fury like a woman scorned...Women do have a wicked side and it can get out of control....women are meant to be better communicators, than men, but some can't be honest and lash out...
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Deedee123x: Its true...was certainly like that in my younger years.
But i see things for as they are now...it helps in the healing of the break if u see it for how it really was instead of blaming the ex...makes moving on alot easier and quicker..
Still feels crappy though doesnt it..
But i see things for as they are now...it helps in the healing of the break if u see it for how it really was instead of blaming the ex...makes moving on alot easier and quicker..
Still feels crappy though doesnt it..
Yup always a tough go when we take responsibility for ourselves and actions. Original sin was not the eating of the apple.
God comes to Adam, you eat the apple? Adam Eve made me do it. Eve you eat the apple? That snake made me do it. The sin was not accepting the responsibility.
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UncleAl1953: I really think people carry too much baggage. We like to blame the ex always. Human nature I guess. We tend to forget like dancing it takes two. Revisionist history makes it seem we all were the put upon one in the relationship. No sense remembering every snide comment or disparaging remark we made just before the fireworks erupted.
UncleA you are a smart man.
They also carry that excess baggage on into a new relationship and make it toxic.
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All the time, that's why hes my ex!
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UncleAl1953: I really think people carry too much baggage. We like to blame the ex always. Human nature I guess. We tend to forget like dancing it takes two. Revisionist history makes it seem we all were the put upon one in the relationship. No sense remembering every snide comment or disparaging remark we made just before the fireworks erupted.
Well, what would you say for Prince Charles and Princess Diana, she was innocent virgin, hungry for husbuned love and affection, while he didn't plan to give up relation with misstress Cammilla....and Diana was probably killed so that this two udulters could be free to marry. I really do not know can victim of unloving circumstance like Diana, could be blamed too. She said, in her marriage it was three of them and crowded. What could she do but to go her way or being in loveless marriage. Some times it's two to make tango but if he heavily stap on my foot, he can make all dance on his own.------ This thread is Archived ------
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Anyone else notice this behaviour in their exes?