If they are, I am sure they are aware, especially if they are a woman. So I would be tactful. I would say, 'Darling, I have booked a luxury cruise holiday for us in 7 months time. I am going to start working off this belly of mine on time for it, so I will feel and look good lounging by the pool. I will need to eat healthily and go walking every evening to achieve that. But you know I am not very disciplined, so I am hoping that you will be there with me to keep me on track.
mollybaby: If they are, I am sure they are aware, especially if they are a woman. So I would be tactful. I would say, 'Darling, I have booked a luxury cruise holiday for us in 7 months time. I am going to start working off this belly of mine on time for it, so I will feel and look good lounging by the pool. I will need to eat healthily and go walking every evening to achieve that. But you know I am not very disciplined, so I am hoping that you will be there with me to keep me on track.
CruniaVolcano Island, Canary Islands Spain252 posts
Because I care for my partner I would try to talk about that (as if it was any other thing not favorable for him) and let him realize about what is happening and I also noticed. He would have to do the rest, I do not pamper and/ or change people, I´m a partner not a mother either a therapist. It means he would have to take actions or not, once it´s done I´ll accept or reject whatever he decided to do ....
Best not to say anything,, she will do it in her own time if she really wants to. It's like giving up drink or cigarettes, people have to want to do it , otherwise it won't happen
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