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Feb 13, 2018 5:52 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia21 Threads 2 Polls 5,978 Posts
Harbal: Hi, rainbow.
Hi.
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Feb 13, 2018 6:13 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland28 Threads 1,773 Posts
To be mindful....
Oversharing as a trend is in its element; so many people are insisting that everyone must know everything about our wonderful us. Oversharing they believe is so haute couture

High levels of narcissism are rewarded in one’s head. We believe that everyone is so interested in us and our opinions and fake lifestyle. The self-conscious are looking at the beautiful lives that their peers choose to display without filters. This can leave them feeling inadequate and like they don’t quite measure up.

Rather than creating a community of like-minded people it further pits us against one another to be king of the Castle. It is a competition about who has the best opinions, the best ideas, the best values, the most likes or even the best life. However, what is on display is very little genuine insight. Instead it is fanciful thoughts invented by the owner to upset the unsuspecting and measured in views and engagements: to demean the unsuspecting. We are so busy inventing our own fake lives online; an avatar of the person that we wish we were, rather than who we are, in reality, and not having to venture from no further than ours living-rooms to do so. Perhaps, we even start to believe it about ourselves; we are being sucked in unconsciously.

It is a symptom of communities offline being unable to challenge the out of control juggernaut that is social media coupled with the remarkable rise in narcissism. If this narcissistic sharing overload is ever done with, perhaps we will all stop needing the constant validation of others.
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Feb 13, 2018 6:17 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
MsContessa: To be mindful....
Oversharing as a trend is in its element; so many people are insisting that everyone must know everything about our wonderful us. Oversharing they believe is so haute couture

High levels of narcissism are rewarded in one’s head. We believe that everyone is so interested in us and our opinions and fake lifestyle. The self-conscious are looking at the beautiful lives that their peers choose to display without filters. This can leave them feeling inadequate and like they don’t quite measure up.

Rather than creating a community of like-minded people it further pits us against one another to be king of the Castle. It is a competition about who has the best opinions, the best ideas, the best values, the most likes or even the best life. However, what is on display is very little genuine insight. Instead it is fanciful thoughts invented by the owner to upset the unsuspecting and measured in views and engagements: to demean the unsuspecting. We are so busy inventing our own fake lives online; an avatar of the person that we wish we were, rather than who we are, in reality, and not having to venture from no further than ours living-rooms to do so. Perhaps, we even start to believe it about ourselves; we are being sucked in unconsciously.

It is a symptom of communities offline being unable to challenge the out of control juggernaut that is social media coupled with the remarkable rise in narcissism. If this narcissistic sharing overload is ever done with, perhaps we will all stop needing the constant validation of others.


I blame my parents for 99% of my problems!
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Feb 13, 2018 6:20 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland28 Threads 1,773 Posts
One2note: I blame my parents for 99% of my problems!


What about the 1%confused
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Feb 13, 2018 6:29 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
MsContessa: What about the 1%


Circumstances & stuff !
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Feb 13, 2018 6:35 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
LeeCharmingonline today!
LeeCharmingonline today!LeeCharmingCardiff, Clwyd, Wales UK122 Threads 39 Polls 3,090 Posts
don't forget to use you caps/locklaugh
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Feb 13, 2018 6:37 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada32 Threads 2,912 Posts
LeeCharming: don't forget to use you caps/lock


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Feb 13, 2018 8:10 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia21 Threads 2 Polls 5,978 Posts
Bearwoman: I agree.
bouquet
I am dwelling over thoughts of Christian writer Mary E. DeMuth who said; "Our task shouldn't be punishing the villains in our lives, but enlarging the God who heals us from all wounds." - As much I admire this Noble and Divine healing thought and offten giving people the benefit of the doubt, yet thought I am not a villain, that doesn't make me immune to villainy - when I have no where to run to from villains scorpion sting and I am sorry that I am not that good christian and that when I see determinated, commited snakes in persistence to bite in giving constant venom, I am only a human, which surviving instict say; "Hit snake back in the head by stone" and later think of christian Noble thoughts lol.

Holly Villain or wholly Angel doesn't exist. Nobody is all good or all bad but I believe that determined Villains who wish to give a hell to people who they don't like, those Villains will only stay villains until someone stopped them.....then that moment there's a chance for Villain to rethink and realized that they're so far over the line that they can't remember where it was the line...and that may be the point for Villain to make different choices....to drain venoum in smaller dosage.
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As much I agree with Anna that not every given poison bite deserves to be dignified with respond, I would suggest that standing up to bullies is neccessery and requers brave heart, that not all sensitive people can handle to feel it's worth dealing with it....and as much I am sensitive myself, I think this bullies in a way helps me to be stronger.laugh Cheers.cheers
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Feb 13, 2018 8:26 PM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia21 Threads 2 Polls 5,978 Posts
rainbowdream2017: I am dwelling over thoughts of Christian writer Mary E. DeMuth who said; "Our task shouldn't be punishing the villains in our lives, but enlarging the God who heals us from all wounds." - As much I admire this Noble and Divine healing thought and offten giving people the benefit of the doubt, yet thought I am not a villain, that doesn't make me immune to villainy - when I have no where to run to from villains scorpion sting and I am sorry that I am not that good christian and that when I see determinated, commited snakes in persistence to bite in giving constant venom, I am only a human, which surviving instict say; "Hit snake back in the head by stone" and later think of christian Noble thoughts lol.

Wholly Villain or wholly Angel doesn't exist. Nobody is all good or all bad but I believe that determined Villains who wish to give a hell to people who they don't like, those Villains will only stay villains until someone stopped them.....then that moment there's a chance for Villain to rethink and realized that they're so far over the line that they can't remember where it was the line...and that may be the point for Villain to make different choices....to drain venoum in smaller dosage.

As much I agree with Anna that not every given poison bite deserves to be dignified with respond, I would suggest that standing up to bullies is neccessery and requers brave heart, that not all sensitive people can handle to feel it's worth dealing with it....and as much I am sensitive myself, I think this bullies in a way helps me to be stronger. Cheers.
Ive corrected 1 word of mistake.uh oh laugh
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Feb 14, 2018 1:40 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia569 Threads 14 Polls 34,332 Posts
Bearwoman: If you should ever get a pm from someone telling you to stay away from any particular member(s) I wouldn't let on that you received that particular message.I would just delete that message.



I've seen this comment on here before


How pathetic that so-called adults resort to this doh
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Feb 14, 2018 2:02 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia21 Threads 2 Polls 5,978 Posts
Is never pathetic to state the fact ! ! !
Only pathetic bullies find truth pathetic.
I wander does been wicked for a long time, get tiresome after a while. grin
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Feb 14, 2018 2:07 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia569 Threads 14 Polls 34,332 Posts
rainbowdream2017: Is never pathetic to state the fact ! ! !
Only pathetic bullies find truth pathetic.
I wander does been wicked for a long time, get tiresome after a while.



I was referring to Bear's comment about pathetic people going behind the scenes to gossip.

Quit looking for a way to attack me you bully crying
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Feb 14, 2018 2:28 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia21 Threads 2 Polls 5,978 Posts
serene56: I was referring to Bear's comment about pathetic people going behind the scenes to gossip.

Quit looking for a way to attack me you bully
Why would you feel that's addressed directly to you, when you're comment might of just inspired me to get enlightened with another thought.
Come on, don't cry crocodile tears ...I appreciate when you openly stub me in the front or in the back ....publicly, and not just like some villains who sends private messages whispering in a sneaky way that people should stay away from me and at the same time this villains know how to play at being sensitive human.
teddybear
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Feb 14, 2018 2:31 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
MsContessa: What about the 1%

That was the afterbirth laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Feb 14, 2018 2:39 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia569 Threads 14 Polls 34,332 Posts
rainbowdream2017: Why would you feel that's addressed directly to you, when you're comment might of just inspired me to get enlightened with another thought.
Come on, don't cry crocodile tears ...I appreciate when you openly stub me in the front or in the back ....publicly, and not just like some villains who sends private messages whispering in a sneaky way that people should stay away from me and at the same time this villains know how to play at being sensitive human.



The fact that you spelled 'pathetic' correctly was a tip-off conversing


I know you enjoy me stubbing you publicly grin

And I suspect you're kidding yourself if you believe anyone could be bothered mentioning you in PMs grin
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Feb 14, 2018 3:02 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia21 Threads 2 Polls 5,978 Posts
serene56: The fact that you spelled 'pathetic' correctly was a tip-off


I know you enjoy me stubbing you publicly

And I suspect you're kidding yourself if you believe anyone could be bothered mentioning you in PMs
I am humble and that's why I am amassed that some Villains gives me a way too much credit to be bothered mentioning me and a few others (who they dont like) in PM's as if the Kingdom would be lost if friendship is made with any of us who are less than likeable to your wicked gangs...wine
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Feb 14, 2018 3:15 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia569 Threads 14 Polls 34,332 Posts
rainbowdream2017: I am humble and that's why I am amassed that some Villains gives me a way too much credit to be bothered mentioning me and a few others (who they dont like) in PM's as if the Kingdom would be lost if friendship is made with any of us who are less than likeable to your wicked gangs...



Gosh you're so mellow these days, have you been sniffing incense or something uh oh
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Feb 14, 2018 3:36 AM CST What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia21 Threads 2 Polls 5,978 Posts
serene56: Gosh you're so mellow these days, have you been sniffing incense or something
laugh kiss
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