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rainbowdream2017: I think if all of us help a bit with our own imdividual experience, it's great if you can take some of that and make your own wisdom - suitable for your unique situation, as well, we probably also help ourselves to share with others in finding some relief & comfort, learning there's more of us, each to their own, looking from so many different and similar angles ...
Thanks Rainbow, your a doll
We r tough cookies...will take alot to take us down
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rainbowdream2017: I feel for all who come to similar personal deeply painful situation that's challenging on so many levels...
It takes spiritual Hercules to patiently deal with injustice and to overcome it, if pain of being betrayed can ever vanish in the thick air...
My father was sick when siblings made a tremendous pressure on him & manipulated him to change a will and over the phone he complained to me but I couldn't do nothing, although I've worrned siblings to not make his end of life harder, which foll on the deft ears.
What one meant to do, it will do it anyway !
When old people become sick, it's most vulnerable state to be manipulated. I can't fully blame my father to piss on his headstone but maybe I could do it on siblings headstone if they leave this Earth before me...but by that time I wouldn't care any more, Karma caches up eventually.
It takes spiritual Hercules to patiently deal with injustice and to overcome it, if pain of being betrayed can ever vanish in the thick air...
My father was sick when siblings made a tremendous pressure on him & manipulated him to change a will and over the phone he complained to me but I couldn't do nothing, although I've worrned siblings to not make his end of life harder, which foll on the deft ears.
What one meant to do, it will do it anyway !
When old people become sick, it's most vulnerable state to be manipulated. I can't fully blame my father to piss on his headstone but maybe I could do it on siblings headstone if they leave this Earth before me...but by that time I wouldn't care any more, Karma caches up eventually.
Opps I think I worded the headstone bit wrong (apologies)
I would not dare disrespect our father in that way. Although I did bleat on about him not leaving a will, the headstone quip was meant to be my headstone. If I did that to our fathers stone I would be buried immediately next to our brothers and sisters and my stone would be the one absolutely everyone would piss on.
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stephenbadger: Flushing the miscreants ashes down the toilet works for me, ggrrr ...have a dump before you pull the chain, give it a try, you will feel better, l guarantee it.
Which ashes ?
All my relatives are oversease.
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You may need to flush twice then.
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Deedee123x: Thanks Rainbow, your a doll
We r tough cookies...will take alot to take us down
You're sunshine that deserves the best.We r tough cookies...will take alot to take us down
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Expectations aren't in my DNA.
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Mercedes_00: Expectations aren't in my DNA.
You're the luckiest or maybe there isn't anything to expect from nothing if parents didn't had anything ? 
Most of us expect or hope for fairness in family relations.
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Howdy--I sure wish I was your friend in real life (!!) You are grounded, firm, yet patient and considerate. So cool....
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rohaan: Howdy--I sure wish I was your friend in real life (!!) You are grounded, firm, yet patient and considerate. So cool....
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online today!you cannot expect an apology from anyone, i always apologize to someone i have wronged, but sorry cannot always make things right
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marlindap: you cannot expect an apology from anyone, i always apologize to someone i have wronged, but sorry cannot always make things right
unfortunately true. I guess the trick in life is to be so dang careful you never need to apologize. Three things returneth not: the sped arrow, the lost opportunity, the spoken word.
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rohaan: oops--this was for DeeDee!!
Well
thanks for that Rohaan.Not all too sure i believe it.but thanks for thinking and saying it.
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......I wish to apologize to you dee/dee......sitting there,all all alone.....looking out the window......with tears running down your cheeks....your lips tremberling.../hands clenched together......wondering.......*will his be the night when TRU.....will ring me*.......has he forsaken....me....
......to be honest......i purely forgot.....while washing my hair.......
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truheart1941: ......I wish to apologize to you dee/dee......sitting there,all all alone.....looking out the window......with tears running down your cheeks....your lips tremberling.../hands clenched together......wondering.......*will his be the night when TRU.....will ring me*.......has he forsaken....me.... ......to be honest......i purely forgot.....while washing my hair....... .......................................
Well its a good job i didnt give you my real number then
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Deedee123x: Well its a good job i didnt give you my real number then
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truheart1941: .......WHA......????????
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I think deep down we all know, if discussion with another person can make any difference to overcome problem or if is a waist of time to find ourselves in argument that only lead to upset us more...which in such case is better to let go ....and most importantly let go of any strong feelings that are toxic for our own well being.We can't change people, we can only do best in our abilities to make our life better.
After all,our life happiness matters more, than looking always back in the past on thing that went wrong ...
After all,our life happiness matters more, than looking always back in the past on thing that went wrong ...
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Yes I've been in that situation I knew if I wasn't going to get a very huge sincere apology within that week I was never ever going to get one.
Best revenge is to hold your head high keep on smiling and never look back why torture yourself whilst they sleep like a baby as dwelling on the past keeps you in the past.
I wrote poetry I wrote a few notes had a barbecue with fab mates then I tossed those notes/poetry in a fire it felt good.then we all celebrated
Best revenge is to hold your head high keep on smiling and never look back why torture yourself whilst they sleep like a baby as dwelling on the past keeps you in the past.
I wrote poetry I wrote a few notes had a barbecue with fab mates then I tossed those notes/poetry in a fire it felt good.then we all celebrated
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Deedee123x: This is just an advice thread.
Have u ever had to deal with a situation where you were wrongeasesd in a big way.
For years you are hoping for a sincere apology that you know is never going to come.
Its fine if you never have to see this person again, you can learn to let go and move on, but if it is someone who you have to deal with everyday knowing what they did, how have any of you overcome this.
Have u ever had to deal with a situation where you were wrongeasesd in a big way.
For years you are hoping for a sincere apology that you know is never going to come.
Its fine if you never have to see this person again, you can learn to let go and move on, but if it is someone who you have to deal with everyday knowing what they did, how have any of you overcome this.
In most cases appropriate is the saying ,
"Forgive and forget""
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It takes spiritual Hercules to patiently deal with injustice and to overcome it, if pain of being betrayed can ever vanish in the thick air...
My father was sick when siblings made a tremendous pressure on him & manipulated him to change a will and over the phone he complained to me but I couldn't do nothing, although I've worrned siblings to not make his end of life harder, which foll on the deft ears.
What one meant to do, it will do it anyway !
When old people become sick, it's most vulnerable state to be manipulated. I can't fully blame my father to piss on his headstone but maybe I could do it on siblings headstone if they leave this Earth before me...but by that time I wouldn't care any more, Karma caches up eventually.