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Feb 27, 2018 7:24 AM CST Apologies
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Mercedes_00: Yes I've been in that situation I knew if I wasn't going to get a very huge sincere apology within that week I was never ever going to get one.

Best revenge is to hold your head high keep on smiling and never look back why torture yourself whilst they sleep like a baby as dwelling on the past keeps you in the past.

I wrote poetry I wrote a few notes had a barbecue with fab mates then I tossed those notes/poetry in a fire it felt good.then we all celebrated


Thanks Mer handshake
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Feb 27, 2018 7:26 AM CST Apologies
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
chris27292729: In most cases appropriate is the saying ,

"Forgive and forget""


Ive eventually let it go.
Will work on the forgiveness
Thanks, Chris hug
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Feb 27, 2018 7:26 AM CST Apologies
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Mercedes_00: Yes I've been in that situation I knew if I wasn't going to get a very huge sincere apology within that week I was never ever going to get one.

Best revenge is to hold your head high keep on smiling and never look back why torture yourself whilst they sleep like a baby as dwelling on the past keeps you in the past.

I wrote poetry I wrote a few notes had a barbecue with fab mates then I tossed those notes/poetry in a fire it felt good.then we all celebrated
thumbs up I only feel sorry for the poetry to be lost.cheers
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Feb 27, 2018 7:27 AM CST Apologies
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
chris27292729: In most cases appropriate is the saying ,

"Forgive and forget""
Forgive yes, forget never.
cheers
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Feb 27, 2018 7:29 AM CST Apologies
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
rainbowdream2017: I think deep down we all know, if discussion with another person can make any difference to overcome problem or if is a waist of time to find ourselves in argument that only lead to upset us more...which in such case is better to let go ....and most importantly let go of any strong feelings that are toxic for our own well being.We can't change people, we can only do best in our abilities to make our life better.
After all,our life happiness matters more, than looking always back in the past on thing that went wrong ...


Very true.
Thanks hun bouquet
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Feb 27, 2018 7:29 AM CST Apologies
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
I just let their own Karma deal with it cause it works in mysterious ways I've been told.giggle

As I posted before I just write them off like a bad debit and allow them to drown in their own drama.grin
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Feb 27, 2018 7:31 AM CST Apologies
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
marlindap: you cannot expect an apology from anyone, i always apologize to someone i have wronged, but sorry cannot always make things right


I do too Marlind.
I do it too often and ehen its not nrcessary sometimes...but wud rather be that way than an ignoramus who cant apologise at all
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Feb 27, 2018 7:34 AM CST Apologies
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Bearwoman: I just let their own Karma deal with it cause it works in mysterious ways I've been told.

As I posted before I just write them off like a bad debit and allow them to drown in their own drama.


Funnily enough this man has had his own fair share of bad luck over the years...gambling debts ..drink problems.
I dont wish misfortune on anyone though..i really dont.
But just an ownership of a horrible situation you caused is enough for me.

Anyways theres nothing that can or will be done now...so ill take ur advice and write it off.
Thanks honey hug
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Feb 27, 2018 7:44 AM CST Apologies
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Deedee123x: Funnily enough this man has had his own fair share of bad luck over the years...gambling debts ..drink problems.
I dont wish misfortune on anyone though..i really dont.
But just an ownership of a horrible situation you caused is enough for me.

Anyways theres nothing that can or will be done now...so ill take ur advice and write it off.
Thanks honey


Deedee It's not in my nature to be an evil person and I don't wish anyone misfortune either.But there comes a time when their unhealthy drama tends to wear a little thin and takes it toll on us.Just like there isn't anything I can do with the neighbor situation but write it off and move on.

You're Welcome Sweety.
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Feb 27, 2018 7:52 AM CST Apologies
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
In lieu of an apology I fitted two vertical radiators the other month for a lad I used to pick on at school. An actual apology would be awkward after all this time and that's my way of making amends.
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Feb 27, 2018 7:57 AM CST Apologies
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChrist: In lieu of an apology I fitted two vertical radiators the other month for a lad I used to pick on at school. An actual apology would be awkward after all this time and that's my way of making amends.


I know this wasn't the question but I wanted to break up five pages of moaning from people who apparently never did anything wrong in their life.
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Feb 27, 2018 8:05 AM CST Apologies
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Bearwoman: I just let their own Karma deal with it cause it works in mysterious ways I've been told.

As I posted before I just write them off like a bad debit and allow them to drown in their own drama.
thumbs up I know someone that never payed me more from a few buck's for the car given away in advence on word of trust , the car was worth seven thousend, and person sold my car before giving me any $
Gamblers are not to be trusted and yet after some years loosing touch - (writting things off as a bad debit), the same person remembers to call me in emergency to give a lift to hospital and I can't say 'no' doh There's was never any word of apology but who cares for the appology, now I just wish not to be waken up to play ambulance car.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 27, 2018 8:27 AM CST Apologies
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
rainbowdream2017: I know someone that never payed me more from a few buck's for the car given away in advence on word of trust , the car was worth seven thousend, and person sold my car before giving me any $
Gamblers are not to be trusted and yet after some years loosing touch - (writting things off as a bad debit), the same person remembers to call me in emergency to give a lift to hospital and I can't say 'no' There's was never any word of apology but who cares for the appology, now I just wish not to be waken up to play ambulance car.



rainbow it doesn't pay to stress yourself out over an apology that obviously will never come.

Some things just aren't worth all the stress anyway.Let Karma get them that'll teach them.grin
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Feb 27, 2018 8:31 AM CST Apologies
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
ChesneyChrist: I know this wasn't the question but I wanted to break up five pages of moaning from people who apparently never did anything wrong in their life.


Chesney,

I havnt said that ive never done anythin wrong.
Maybe your over sensitive on this subject for some reason.
I did after all only ever ask about an apology not received...thats the topic of discussion....

If that hurts ur sensitive heart in anyway then feel free to ignore this thread.
Thanks for ur own comment before that and i agree that sometimes making amends in other ways is better than an apology after a long time.
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Feb 27, 2018 8:32 AM CST Apologies
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Bearwoman: Deedee It's not in my nature to be an evil person and I don't wish anyone misfortune either.But there comes a time when their unhealthy drama tends to wear a little thin and takes it toll on us.Just like there isn't anything I can do with the neighbor situation but write it off and move on.

You're Welcome Sweety.


No sign of Otis still then??
blues
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Feb 27, 2018 8:40 AM CST Apologies
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Deedee123x: No sign of Otis still then??


Nope and I've pretty much given up.Hopefully they will get no more pets.
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Feb 27, 2018 8:47 AM CST Apologies
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Bearwoman: Nope and I've pretty much given up.Hopefully they will get no more pets.


Maybe he wandered into someone elses home and they have taken him in.
Ya i agree, hope they dont sigh
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Feb 27, 2018 8:51 AM CST Apologies
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Deedee123x: Maybe he wandered into someone elses home and they have taken him in.
Ya i agree, hope they dont



I thought about the wandering into someone else's home too and taken in.I need to put all of it aside and just concentrate on my own dog.
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Feb 27, 2018 9:07 AM CST Apologies
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Bearwoman: I thought about the wandering into someone else's home too and taken in.I need to put all of it aside and just concentrate on my own dog.


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