Yes, there are decent guys out here but most women are not after a good guy, well they are but that isn't what they are attracted too. Decent and good maybe what women want in a lasting relationship but they are initially,more attracted the bad boy that has the appearance of being able to handle anything and always protect them but not necessarily that open in the heart department. That has been my experience anyway. Showing kindness, consideration, behaving as a gentleman and paying a meant compliment just seems to attract a negative response all to often and the suspicion that there must be something wrong or that I am just interested in getting into their pants and can't be genuine. It is a sad place when people show suspicions towards a genuinely nice guy yet the in your face bad boy who is only after the fun, gets most of the attention.
sure there is.........I,M one.....constanly over looked......by thos who can,t see further then their nose......their lose....................not mine............. ..................
Dedovix: Well lets see I dont drink, I dont gamble, Im not a womanizer,I have never used drugs ...and it only takes you 48 hours by plane to meet me in person
really..with all of thos qulifications.....you may make POPE.....
Well lets see I dont drink, I dont gamble, Im not a womanizer,I have never used drugs ...and it only takes you 48 hours by plane to meet me in person[/quote Well sir your profile begs to differ
The problem is wanting a thing because you can't have it which leads to believing a thing is better than you because it treats you bad. Now you can either grow out envy and vanity or you can join us here longterm where nothing is what it seems.
"Out there" is probably pretty similar to here, on this forum. There are some decent guys but they are vastly outnumbered by the ones putting a great deal of effort into being indecent.
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