Do you think you're better of alone...? ( Archived) (88)

Feb 18, 2018 8:10 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Harbal: Is that why you never correct anyone, rainbow?
To ask me a vague question, you shell expect a vague answer.
Some people on CS are very busy in constantly trying to correct me in many ways .... which doesn't give me enough time to think of correcting others.laugh
Everybody has flaws, to err is human but if you have the guts to become virtue in making mistakes (like me), you may find is more useful in moving forward.

Try to dress yourself with any sense of fun and find if you can find joy from a position of correctness?

Given ATTITUDE in correction is what marks the distinction between Vengeance and Noble impulse in constractive reasonable criticism (with courteous approach that doesn't cause resentment ).
In my humble view, it's Noble to promote correction of imbalances in terms of correction of social ill.

Communication should be a bridge, it's about connecting, not correcting.
Compassion and not contention, respect and not ridicule, consel and not criticism, flexibility and not rigidity, pragmaticism and not doctrinaire .....and not condemnation.
I kindly suggest, try self-correction, it's the best kick in the pants that must come from your own foot and you'll see how you learn faster.rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 18, 2018 8:18 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
rainbowdream2017: To ask me a vague question, you shell expect a vague answer.
Some people on CS are very busy in constantly trying to correct me in many ways .... which doesn't give me enough time to think of correcting others.
Everybody has flaws, to err is human but if you have the guts to become virtue in making mistakes (like me), you may find is more useful in moving forward.

Try to dress yourself with any sense of fun and find if you can find joy from a position of correctness?

Given ATTITUDE in correction is what marks the distinction between Vengeance and Noble impulse in constractive reasonable criticism (with courteous approach that doesn't cause resentment ).
In my humble view, it's Noble to promote correction of imbalances in terms of correction of social ill.

Communication should be a bridge, it's about connecting, not correcting.
Compassion and not contention, respect and not ridicule, consel and not criticism, flexibility and not rigidity, pragmaticism and not doctrinaire .....and not condemnation.
I kindly suggest, try self-correction, it's the best kick in the pants that must come from your own foot and you'll see how you learn faster.

It was only a friendly tease, rainbow, but I'll take on board what you say, or at least the bits I could understand. hug
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Feb 18, 2018 8:33 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Harbal: It was only a friendly tease, rainbow, but I'll take on board what you say, or at least the bits I could understand.
It was only a friendly respond with the bits of friendly humor.wine
peace
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Feb 18, 2018 8:36 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
pedro27: Do you think you're better of alone...?


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Depends Pedro, in 24 hours if I can have my aloneness for about 6 hours excluding sleep, I am fine. But no as a rule, I love to be with whom I enjoy myself with.hug
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Feb 18, 2018 8:46 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
pedro27: Do you think you're better of alone...?


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nope... i love having a crowd in my bedroom
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Feb 18, 2018 8:58 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
rainbowdream2017: It was only a friendly respond with the bits of friendly humor.

That's good, rainbow. wine
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Feb 18, 2018 8:39 PM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
Friskyone: Of course. All that sounds wonderful but unfortunately, I've never found that kind of man.


It was good to see my close friend did everything possible for hos wife who was diagnosed with Cancer and died a couple of years ago. They have two young children. Them types are around and they come in to their own when circumstances call for it.

Another close friend went back to his ex (purely in a platonic way) to care for her...and I have never seen anything like it...

I suspect its got to do with their upbringing where they are just passing on what they know...the values coming from a good family, which themselves are carrying forward, and instead of me, me, me knows about "the circle of life" being part and parcel of that.

You need to kiss more frogs to find your prince! laugh
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Feb 18, 2018 8:46 PM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
DoubleFantasy: It was good to see my close friend did everything possible for hos wife who was diagnosed with Cancer and died a couple of years ago. They have two young children. Them types are around and they come in to their own when circumstances call for it.

Another close friend went back to his ex (purely in a platonic way) to care for her...and I have never seen anything like it...

I suspect its got to do with their upbringing where they are just passing on what they know...the values coming from a good family, which themselves are carrying forward, and instead of me, me, me knows about "the circle of life" being part and parcel of that.

You need to kiss more frogs to find your prince!


Ive kissed enough frogs...im ready for prince charming now, thank you. mumbling

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Feb 18, 2018 9:37 PM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
Deedee123x: I should be but i aint...lol...welcome to the life of an insomniac.

So where here did you visit? South or North or just plain ole Dublin.

Night clubs bring me out in a rash.
Ill take my chance with bumping into him in Tesco..or the Market.

Ill take the carriage ride and fancy schmancy shoes though!! A girl can never have too many shoes...


I was working on a project with a clinic based at

Do you have singles nights at supermarkets over there ?
I hate it when I'm at the checkout and everyone including the check out girl knows I'm single from looking in my shopping basket/trolley doh

Anyway here are some red ruby slippers...

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just click your heels three times and say "theres no place like home" and you will end up in prince charmings lap...if you can do it before the wicked witch of the north takes them off you...

Signed
The Tin Man
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Feb 18, 2018 11:29 PM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Chambellaonline today!
Chambellaonline today!ChambellaCanberra (ACT) & Batemans Bay, New South Wales Australia526 Posts
dunno Maybe? I have thought about that I will never again have a romantic relationship?
moping
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Feb 19, 2018 10:11 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
loifoneg78
loifoneg78loifoneg78Antwerp, Antwerpen Belgium96 Posts
Hey, this is a tricky question, right ??laugh cheers
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Feb 19, 2018 10:15 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
pedro27: Do you think you're better of alone...?


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I used to think so, but have come across someone really nice.
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Feb 19, 2018 8:03 PM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Sometime its better to be alone, so nobody can hurt you
heart wings
Flying like free bird
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Feb 20, 2018 5:20 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
pedro27: Do you think you're better of alone...?


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Dance tune of the 90shead banger
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Feb 21, 2018 6:36 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
I enjoy my own company I think it's sad that people feel
lonely because they don't have a partner.
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Feb 21, 2018 7:32 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
pedro27: Do you think you're better of alone...?


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no , not better being alone , I want to have a beautiful companion wine
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Feb 21, 2018 7:47 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Miwagi
MiwagiMiwagiFlyover, Kentucky USA47 Threads 2 Polls 1,753 Posts
Just get yourself a volleyball, it is a lot cheaper.rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 21, 2018 7:48 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Cwizzy65
Cwizzy65Cwizzy65Langley, British Columbia Canada2 Threads 28 Posts
pedro27: Do you think you're better of alone...?


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Absolutely as long as I have lots of friends to hang out with when I want to be with people :)dancing banana
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Feb 21, 2018 8:01 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Cwizzy65: Absolutely as long as I have lots of friends to hang out with when I want to be with people :)
Wizzy love smitten laugh wine
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Feb 21, 2018 8:16 AM CST Do you think you're better of alone...?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Mercedes_00: I enjoy my own company I think it's sad that people feel
lonely because they don't have a partner.


I agree, if you cant enjoy ur own company first you will never learn to be happy in others company.

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