How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way? ( Archived) (38)

Feb 18, 2018 6:39 AM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Bearwoman: Oh my and here I thought you were perfect.
so did ithumbs up
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Feb 18, 2018 6:55 AM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
MayaGilic: I guess this is the long shot try for most of us, maybe like a wishing star or justifying our efforts... I am disappointed in people and in men, obviously. :) I really prefer to spend time with my dog and my cat and my dad, these days... Books, music, movies, art, crafting... Anything is safer than going out and meeting people, opening up and fail! But in the safety of my room, I wish and wish. How about you?


Well, online or should I say here, means never to meet. So, i prefer meeting people in an open place anywhere. Again, people who are miserable in life can jump behind the computer and write like uni profs only to get you to keep them company behind the curtain. I never spend more than 5 minutes here.
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Feb 18, 2018 7:01 AM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
GregKeegan
GregKeeganGregKeeganMoliagul, Victoria Australia12 Threads 87 Posts
I'm not good at meeting people when I am out because I have never been able to read body language with people I don't or only just know. It is a part of the autism spectrum and it has always been a killer for me when out in unfamiliar places. The last time I met interesting people while out was only because after being at the venue for 5 hours and having only spoken to the bouncer and explaining o him that I needed to meet some new people, he introduced me to a couple who became friends. It is not unusual for me to go out and not speak to anyone else all night just because I don't know how to make the approach or make the usual small talk that others seem to find so easy. It is one of the reasons I enjoy fist starting to build a repore with people online before I meet them in person, so that that initial communication barrier has been breached and we already have some common ground in what we speak about. :)
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Feb 18, 2018 7:26 AM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
SweetnFunnyChic
SweetnFunnyChicSweetnFunnyChicSharjah, United Arab Emirates10 Threads 5 Polls 374 Posts
I go to events, concerts, etc. I just met a guy at one when I wasn't looking and am dating him now.
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Feb 18, 2018 4:05 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
R_U_the_1_4_me
R_U_the_1_4_meR_U_the_1_4_meBuffalo, New York USA181 Posts
You mean we're actually supposed to meet people off these sites? Could have fooled me, thought we were here only for the forums!
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Feb 21, 2018 1:51 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
I tend to prefer mail order now with a 30 day return policy. You just never know these daysscold

laugh
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Feb 21, 2018 1:54 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
uptall: I tend to prefer mail order now with a 30 day return policy. You just never know these days


I would refuse to go back snooty
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Feb 21, 2018 2:02 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: I would refuse to go back



Ya not outta the box yet and ya already causing troublelaugh
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Feb 21, 2018 2:05 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
uptall: Ya not outta the box yet and ya already causing trouble


You wouldn't have it any other way grin
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Feb 21, 2018 2:08 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mollybaby: You wouldn't have it any other way


You know very well I like it every waylaugh
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Feb 21, 2018 5:03 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,370 Posts
So far over the years, I don't meet people from online. I work, spend time with family, read, and a mix of different activities or out time.

I take part in activities and have no second thoughts being out in public. More realistic options are there if I ever decide it may be time to stop being single.

This weekend coming, I'm attending comedy night at a local event. Small event but there will be lots of people and some, I may even know.
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Feb 21, 2018 5:14 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
Miwagi
MiwagiMiwagiFlyover, Kentucky USA47 Threads 2 Polls 1,753 Posts
MayaGilic: I guess this is the long shot try for most of us, maybe like a wishing star or justifying our efforts... I am disappointed in people and in men, obviously. :) I really prefer to spend time with my dog and my cat and my dad, these days... Books, music, movies, art, crafting... Anything is safer than going out and meeting people, opening up and fail! But in the safety of my room, I wish and wish. How about you?

Church or the pub, doesn't matter either one is better than CS.
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Feb 21, 2018 5:18 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Miwagi: Church or the pub, doesn't matter either one is better than CS.


I meet plenty on here
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Feb 21, 2018 5:31 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
Miwagi
MiwagiMiwagiFlyover, Kentucky USA47 Threads 2 Polls 1,753 Posts
mollybaby: I meet plenty on here

Well okay. I had a comment, but I think I better keep it to myself.wink
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Feb 21, 2018 5:39 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Miwagi: Well okay. I had a comment, but I think I better keep it to myself.


Say it away

I don't have to answer.

I'll be in bed in 2 mins either way laugh
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Feb 21, 2018 5:55 PM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
Miwagi
MiwagiMiwagiFlyover, Kentucky USA47 Threads 2 Polls 1,753 Posts
mollybaby: Say it away

I don't have to answer.

I'll be in bed in 2 mins either way

I'll just say good night then.sleep
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Feb 22, 2018 3:05 AM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,428 Posts
I write a message on my body I then squeeze myself into a bottle.
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Feb 22, 2018 3:14 AM CST How do you choose to meet people? Other than this way?
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
From my catalogue, it´s called "Hot Fluff"
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