Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
ChesneyChrist: I wish you'd forget who you are for one moment, it wouldn't kill you to relax. You're not in Syria. And not every person is going to have something bad to say about you, there's no need to be suspicious of everyone you meet.
Cc. I have a healthy dose of paranoia which is essential for anyone's survival in life.
I had a very bad marriage to a British subject, barely lasting 7 years, and yes his family as well, in the process.
I don't want it repeated, so I have been single since 1992, and a very good mother and breadwinner for my kids and animals, as the ex just stole half of my money, possessions and cars, as we were married in community of property, more than he ever deserved, and never have given anything to either of us, and still not now that his back in the UK, earning a decent salary, at last, as SA people r valued because of our discipline throughout the world.
So, I believe I'm right in how I approach life in general, and men in particular.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: Sorry to hear that.
Both of my parents have been gone for some time so I can imagine on how you feel.
I'm the youngest of my eight older siblings and when I and another older brother are gone that will be the end of my immediate family.All that will left is my two sons,my nieces and nephews.Sad really.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: Late is why family had always been very important to me.I grew up in the late 40's early 50's to where my older siblings and myself had been raised where an emphasis had been placed on what was the most important in life.Such as family,friends and our health.And nature was pretty much our playground.
Ok, u can figure this out:- First in my life r by 2 boys (men) Then my 4 cats and 1 chow Then my work The animals in general and nature (people come after)
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