Low Self Esteem ( Archived) (26)

Feb 27, 2018 9:13 AM CST Low Self Esteem
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
Kaybee50: That's a nasty response.
You make it everyone's business when you post it on a public forum.
She evasion of my question pretty much answers it for me.
I am certain I know who this thread is talking about.
Since you can pick up his vibes, can you feel how deeply in pain he is feeling right now?
How horrified he must feel to read these things you've written about him?
I am hurting for him to be treated in such a matter.
He is not a lab specimen and you are not a psychologist.


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Feb 27, 2018 9:13 AM CST Low Self Esteem
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
Kaybee50: Like you I am blunt. Like you, I tell it like it is. Like you, I state the facts. I care very much about him and you have treated him poorly.


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Feb 27, 2018 9:17 AM CST Low Self Esteem
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Kaybee50: Like you I am blunt. Like you, I tell it like it is. Like you, I state the facts. I care very much about him and you have treated him poorly.


I see the vultures r gathering !!!
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Feb 27, 2018 10:30 AM CST Low Self Esteem
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Kaybee50: Stop playing the victim.
What you should be doing at this very moment is how to repair things with him.
He is the one that needs your attention right now.





I think that should have stayed private, there was no need to make everybody wonder who that person is, as we are not many on the forums it won't be a very hard guess... dunno
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Feb 27, 2018 10:41 AM CST Low Self Esteem
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Caring and cantankerous is the way forward. Helping people with low self-esteem doesn't involve being the most kindest-looking or positive you can be. I mean national compliment day was invented to encourage suicide amongst people with low self-esteem. It has to be sincere and it has to be natural. You have to imbibe the way they feel, not come on like Mr Motivator.


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Feb 27, 2018 10:51 AM CST Low Self Esteem
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Caring and cantankerous is the way forward. Helping people with low self-esteem doesn't involve being the most kindest-looking or positive you can be. I mean national compliment day was invented to encourage suicide amongst people with low self-esteem. It has to be sincere and it has to be natural. You have to imbibe the way they feel, not come on like Mr Motivator.


Part of everything you say has to treat them as badly as they treat themselves, to understand how they feel. I'm not saying everything you say has to be brutally honest, but it'll have to be quite honest.
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