Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay. ( Archived) (84)

Feb 25, 2018 9:06 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
GregKeegan
GregKeeganGregKeeganMoliagul, Victoria Australia12 Threads 87 Posts
I have been around a few of these sites, for a whole now, and it always seems that the ladies all think that the guy should always be the one who does the traveling to meet for the first time or should pay for them to relocate if a connection goes that far. Why is that? I think that both parties should be willing to risk something in meeting and showing some sort of commitment to taking that step. Why shouldn't a lady be expected to pay equally as a guy when first connecting especially if there is a large distance between them.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 9:11 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
GregKeegan: I have been around a few of these sites, for a whole now, and it always seems that the ladies all think that the guy should always be the one who does the traveling to meet for the first time or should pay for them to relocate if a connection goes that far. Why is that? I think that both parties should be willing to risk something in meeting and showing some sort of commitment to taking that step. Why shouldn't a lady be expected to pay equally as a guy when first connecting especially if there is a large distance between them.


typing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 9:24 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
By the way, I am use to taking care of myself and never expected someone paying for my relocation or anything ...but I am a bit old fashion and think,gentlemen would offer or at least share concern if he has anything serious on his mind.
People should just get use to help and support each other in many ways if they really plan to be together as if everything becomes an issue, from a toothpick, it's better to give up stright away ...
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 9:24 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
GregKeegan: I have been around a few of these sites, for a whole now, and it always seems that the ladies all think that the guy should always be the one who does the traveling to meet for the first time or should pay for them to relocate if a connection goes that far. Why is that? I think that both parties should be willing to risk something in meeting and showing some sort of commitment to taking that step. Why shouldn't a lady be expected to pay equally as a guy when first connecting especially if there is a large distance between them.


I don't do the long-distance thing, if they are over two hours away from me, no way. dancing And I don't ever expect a guy to pay. cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 9:44 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
GregKeegan: I have been around a few of these sites, for a whole now, and it always seems that the ladies all think that the guy should always be the one who does the traveling to meet for the first time or should pay for them to relocate if a connection goes that far. Why is that? I think that both parties should be willing to risk something in meeting and showing some sort of commitment to taking that step. Why shouldn't a lady be expected to pay equally as a guy when first connecting especially if there is a large distance between them.



I don't expect any man to relocate here.

It's a bit much to ask really.

...even if he was nutty enough to travel here to meet up, I would pay for half of his travelling expenses.

It's only fair.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 9:49 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
BerrySmoothie: I don't expect any man to relocate here.

It's a bit much to ask really.

...even if he was nutty enough to travel here to meet up, I would pay for half of his travelling expenses.

It's only fair.
uh oh You are quiet generous !

I give him 'pinats' to share...as thank you for travelling a world for me...laugh and yet if i come to realisation that he is worth it, he might be lucky to get a world from me.laugh cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 9:58 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
rainbowdream2017: You are quiet generous !

I give him 'pinats' to share...as thank you for travelling a world for me... and yet if i come to realisation that he is worth it, he might be lucky to get a world from me.


If I wanted to meet him as much as he wanted to meet me Rainbow, I think it's only fair to contribute to his expenses.

I'm unable to travel myself, due to my commitments, right now...sigh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:08 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
I can afford to travel on a pedal bike however far that gets me.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:22 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
GregKeegan: I have been around a few of these sites, for a whole now, and it always seems that the ladies all think that the guy should always be the one who does the traveling to meet for the first time or should pay for them to relocate if a connection goes that far. Why is that? I think that both parties should be willing to risk something in meeting and showing some sort of commitment to taking that step. Why shouldn't a lady be expected to pay equally as a guy when first connecting especially if there is a large distance between them.


i’m thinkin’ that if two folks get to know each other and really want to meet in spite of the distance, it won’t be an issue.
i don’t think it has to be a gender issue.
as well, it’s easier for some folks to travel than others due to individual circumstances.

I don’t know about you, but as i age, I find meeting others’ expectations more and more unappealing..... laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:31 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
marlindap
marlindapmarlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
I definitely pay my own way, but he should live in a country i actually want to go to :)
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:32 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Track16: I can afford to travel on a pedal bike however far that gets me.
Trying to imagine you travelling on a pedal bike true ocean....rolling on the floor laughing cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:32 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
ladyoftoday
ladyoftodayladyoftodayUnknown, California USA28 Posts
Sure would be a dream come true to find that one who will travel to me and fall in love and take me with him.off to that wander land of dream world!??
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:32 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
ladyoftoday
ladyoftodayladyoftodayUnknown, California USA28 Posts
Sure would be a dream come true to find that one who will travel to me and fall in love and take me with him.off to that wander land of dream world!??
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:33 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
ladyoftoday
ladyoftodayladyoftodayUnknown, California USA28 Posts
Sure would be a dream come true to find that one who will travel to me and fall in love and take me with him.off to that wander land of dream world!??
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:33 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
ladyoftoday
ladyoftodayladyoftodayUnknown, California USA28 Posts
Sure would be a dream come true to find that one who will travel to me and fall in love and take me with him.off to that wander land of dream world!??
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:33 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
ladyoftoday
ladyoftodayladyoftodayUnknown, California USA28 Posts
Sure would be a dream come true to find that one who will travel to me and fall in love and take me with him.off to that wander land of dream world!??
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:33 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
ladyoftoday
ladyoftodayladyoftodayUnknown, California USA28 Posts
Sure would be a dream come true to find that one who will travel to me and fall in love and take me with him.off to that wander land of dream world!??
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:39 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
rainbowdream2017: Trying to imagine you travelling on a pedal bike true ocean....


Put some floats and a sail on it, way to go grin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:47 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
YO!! If you are still out there Smoothiebum ????

Thanks so much for you concern xoxoxoxoxoxo

Ok carry on x (you spunk) kiss
------ This thread is Archived ------
Feb 25, 2018 10:50 PM CST Why do women always expect the guy to travel to them and or pay.
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Lookin4missright: YO!! If you are still out there Smoothiebum ????

Thanks so much for you concern xoxoxoxoxoxo

Ok carry on x (you spunk)


Hey you....hug

Good to see you.

I hope all is well with you.

Is It?

kiss
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

3,552 Views
83 Comments
by GregKeegan (12 Threads)
Created: Feb 2018
Last Viewed: 12 hrs ago
Last Commented: Mar 2018

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here