There is something very fragile about the word "vulnerable" and something very powerful at the same time... It's disarming and pure... I think there is a lot of beauty in it... I'm utterly flattered when people decide to show me their vulnerability...and happy when they handle mine with care...
I told someone something about my past long time ago and they used it against me.Lesson learned and I came to realize the someone with the best of intentions can hurt you too.I then realized that I was a slow learner.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
KremaP: There is something very fragile about the word "vulnerable" and something very powerful at the same time... It's disarming and pure... I think there is a lot of beauty in it... I'm utterly flattered when people decide to show me their vulnerability...and happy when they handle mine with care...
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: I told someone something about my past long time ago and they used it against me.Lesson learned and I came to realize the someone with the best of intentions can hurt you too.I then realized that I was a slow learner.
Someone said to me once:- If u believe people r good, they will only show their good side to u !
Needless to say, the part that is hidden, is much too dangerous to ignore !
Bogart_1960: we are all "vulnerable". and its nothing wrong with that as being vulnerable is the only way to allow us "to feel true pleasure of life that’s so real it scares us". . when we are are comfortable about ourselves, and know what we want, we can be "vulnerable" without insecurity, embarrassment, regret or apologies.
most people don't put much thought into their every action.. that´s the "vulnerability " . I
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i wonder if someone hurt us as much as we perceived sometimes we see relationships or potential ones as better that they are. And of course there are the ones that are horrid.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
marlindap: i wonder if someone hurt us as much as we perceived sometimes we see relationships or potential ones as better that they are. And of course there are the ones that are horrid.
How much do u hurt.
Some people r easy to forget other u will die still remembering.
marlindap: i wonder if someone hurt us as much as we perceived sometimes we see relationships or potential ones as better that they are. And of course there are the ones that are horrid.
ChesneyChrist: On the surface this is about vulnerability, in reality it's about power. The vulnerability is the exception which proves the rule. Only a tough man would admit to a quirky phobia like a fear of sock puppets. But remember men you're only allowed one vulnerability around women - a second vulnerability is no longer the exception which proves the rule - and the point is to show enough flank to appear relaxed. Guarded, defensive and insecure is he who shows no vulnerability, your alloted amount is 1 vulnerability. That's the balance.
Unless you find a soulmate or woman intelligent enough to transcend their own banality you will these mathematical rules again and again. 1 allotted vulnerability, saying 70% of the amoount shes does - women respond to these number rules with the predictability of a machine.
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Those with the most extrovert image r 90% the most vulnerable !
It tends to be ur introverts who r the most aware !
So many get hurt thru others negligence or intentions !
So many really nasty ones out there.
Hang on - Not all tho !