Vulnerable (23)

Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:00 AM CST Vulnerable
Not one person is not !

Those with the most extrovert image r 90% the most vulnerable !

It tends to be ur introverts who r the most aware !

So many get hurt thru others negligence or intentions !

So many really nasty ones out there.

Hang on - Not all tho !

lips
Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:11 AM CST Vulnerable
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria5,283 Posts
There is something very fragile about the word "vulnerable" and something very powerful at the same time...
It's disarming and pure...
I think there is a lot of beauty in it...
I'm utterly flattered when people decide to show me their vulnerability...and happy when they handle mine with care...
Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:29 AM CST Vulnerable
If you are naive are you likely to be more vulnerable too?dunno
Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:40 AM CST Vulnerable
I told someone something about my past long time ago and they used it against me.Lesson learned and I came to realize the someone with the best of intentions can hurt you too.I then realized that I was a slow learner.
Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:45 AM CST Vulnerable
KremaP: There is something very fragile about the word "vulnerable" and something very powerful at the same time...
It's disarming and pure...
I think there is a lot of beauty in it...
I'm utterly flattered when people decide to show me their vulnerability...and happy when they handle mine with care...


U have a way with words !
Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:46 AM CST Vulnerable
Miwagi: If you are naive are you likely to be more vulnerable too?


Naive people, believe in the good of others, and r still not surprised when they r not !
Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:50 AM CST Vulnerable
Bearwoman: I told someone something about my past long time ago and they used it against me.Lesson learned and I came to realize the someone with the best of intentions can hurt you too.I then realized that I was a slow learner.


Someone said to me once:-
If u believe people r good, they will only show their good side to u !

Needless to say, the part that is hidden, is much too dangerous to ignore !

So approach everyone with care !
Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:52 AM CST Vulnerable
Snookums33: Someone said to me once:-
If u believe people r good, they will only show their good side to u !

Needless to say, the part that is hidden, is much too dangerous to ignore !

So approach everyone with care !


Snookums I learned to never take people at face ever again.Lesson learned.
Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:58 AM CST Vulnerable
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Portugal and Mandelieu, Provence-Alpes-Cote dAzur France43 Threads 1 Polls 7,411 Posts
Snookums33: Not one person is not !

Those with the most extrovert image r 90% the most vulnerable !

It tends to be ur introverts who r the most aware !

So many get hurt thru others negligence or intentions !

So many really nasty ones out there.

Hang on - Not all tho !


we are all "vulnerable". and its nothing wrong with that as being vulnerable is the only way to allow us "to feel true pleasure of life that’s so real it scares us". . when we are are comfortable about ourselves, and know what we want, we can be "vulnerable" without insecurity, embarrassment, regret or apologies.

most people don't put much thought into their every action.. that´s the "vulnerability " . I
Mon Feb 26, 2018 10:58 AM CST Vulnerable
Bearwoman: Snookums I learned to never take people at face ever again.Lesson learned.


Come one, I also learned my lesson, but I still take most people at face value or sensing value, and yes I still make mistakes, but that is what life is all about.

Can u say how many can be trusted out of the people u give a chance to prove themselves to ?
Mon Feb 26, 2018 11:12 AM CST Vulnerable
Snookums33: Come one, I also learned my lesson, but I still take most people at face value or sensing value, and yes I still make mistakes, but that is what life is all about.

Can u say how many can be trusted out of the people u give a chance to prove themselves to ?



Not many.
Mon Feb 26, 2018 11:21 AM CST Vulnerable
Bearwoman: Not many.


Unfortunately u r very correct !!!
Mon Feb 26, 2018 11:48 AM CST Vulnerable
Bogart_1960: we are all "vulnerable". and its nothing wrong with that as being vulnerable is the only way to allow us "to feel true pleasure of life that’s so real it scares us". . when we are are comfortable about ourselves, and know what we want, we can be "vulnerable" without insecurity, embarrassment, regret or apologies.

most people don't put much thought into their every action.. that´s the "vulnerability " . I


heart wings heart wings heart wings
lips
Mon Feb 26, 2018 11:52 AM CST Vulnerable
Dd. I'm mad at him at present, as he writes nasty notes on my threads.
Mon Feb 26, 2018 12:37 PM CST Vulnerable
marlindaponline today!
marlindaponline today!marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada215 Posts
i wonder if someone hurt us as much as we perceived sometimes we see relationships or potential ones as better that they are. And of course there are the ones that are horrid.
Mon Feb 26, 2018 12:48 PM CST Vulnerable
marlindap: i wonder if someone hurt us as much as we perceived sometimes we see relationships or potential ones as better that they are. And of course there are the ones that are horrid.


How much do u hurt.

Some people r easy to forget other u will die still remembering.
Tue Feb 27, 2018 5:30 AM CST Vulnerable
zacron
zacronzacronsydney, New South Wales Australia9 Threads 105 Posts
Miwagi: If you are naive are you likely to be more vulnerable too?


From personal experience I would say yes, its ones vulnerability where one sustains the deepest cuts/wounds, that take the longest time to heal.
Tue Feb 27, 2018 5:55 AM CST Vulnerable
Snookums33: Dd. I'm mad at him at present, as he writes nasty notes on my threads.


I cant comment on Bogart, not that i would want to, as i havnt seen what he has written.

But i will say Snookums, that u get alot of abuse thrown at you, u shake it off and continue to be u

Thats inspiring to me.
wine
Tue Feb 27, 2018 5:56 AM CST Vulnerable
marlindap: i wonder if someone hurt us as much as we perceived sometimes we see relationships or potential ones as better that they are. And of course there are the ones that are horrid.


thumbs up

Love ur photo Marlindap teddybear
Tue Feb 27, 2018 6:08 AM CST Vulnerable
ChesneyChristonline now!
ChesneyChristonline now!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK2,731 Posts
Snookums33: Not one person is not !

Those with the most extrovert image r 90% the most vulnerable !

It tends to be ur introverts who r the most aware !

So many get hurt thru others negligence or intentions !

So many really nasty ones out there.

Hang on - Not all tho !


On the surface this is about vulnerability, in reality it's about power. The vulnerability is the exception which proves the rule. Only a tough man would admit to a quirky phobia like a fear of sock puppets. But remember men you're only allowed one vulnerability around women - a second vulnerability is no longer the exception which proves the rule - and the point is to show enough flank to appear relaxed. Guarded, defensive and insecure is he who shows no vulnerability, your alloted amount is 1 vulnerability. That's the balance.
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