When marriages begin to fail.... ( Archived) (27)

Mar 1, 2018 2:15 PM CST When marriages begin to fail....
SquishiesGrandma: You is angry. You has issues. I know a Jesus who can love all of that outta ya.



I've never been married; but I used to live near military bases..

And, I've seen so many women marry soldiers and sailors for the money; and cheat on their husband's the whole time they were gone...

As far as Jesus is concerned, he never got married either; and The Bible says, we're better Christians, if we don't get married.


1 Corinthians 7:32-33 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
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Mar 1, 2018 2:17 PM CST When marriages begin to fail....
mykingdomforanam: I've never been married; but I used to live near military bases..

And, I've seen so many women marry soldiers and sailors for the money; and cheat on their husband's the whole time they were gone...

As far as Jesus is concerned, he never got married either; and The Bible says, we're better Christians, if we don't get married.


1 Corinthians 7:32-33 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.




Ask anybody in any branch of the American military...

"Who is Josie?"
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Mar 1, 2018 2:21 PM CST When marriages begin to fail....
I meant to write... Ask them who "Jody" is?
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Mar 1, 2018 4:48 PM CST When marriages begin to fail....
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Vierkaesehoch: lots to say here. But perhaps the most important is the kids' welfare. In the best of circumstances, counseling can preserve the union, but when not, it will often enable loving coparenting in the context of resolved anger during and after separation. Sadly, more typical is the excessive drama, with denial, and even violent acting out. Even when not this, many parernts try to hide things until right up to when the moving truck pulls up outside. AS IF, almost no children have a clue, and suffer, sometimes life long. Aa-V.


A break-up is rarely amicable and easy. I don't have kids so I don't have to have any contact with my ex which is something I'm happy about.

The welfare of the child should be the priority of the parents, no matter how hard it is between the 2 of them.
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Mar 1, 2018 9:28 PM CST When marriages begin to fail....
woodenjc
woodenjcwoodenjcHouston, Texas USA2 Threads 308 Posts
Vierkaesehoch: lots to say here. But perhaps the most important is the kids' welfare. In the best of circumstances, counseling can preserve the union, but when not, it will often enable loving coparenting in the context of resolved anger during and after separation. Sadly, more typical is the excessive drama, with denial, and even violent acting out. Even when not this, many parernts try to hide things until right up to when the moving truck pulls up outside. AS IF, almost no children have a clue, and suffer, sometimes life long. Aa-V.


it is a very tough issue, but there will be the best solution for each specific case.
I think the kids will feel their parent's true love for them if you really care about them and take care of them sufficiently after the disvorce.
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Mar 1, 2018 11:22 PM CST When marriages begin to fail....
donmartinez53
donmartinez53donmartinez53HOUSTON, Texas USA10 Posts
if the divorce in their mind, it is because there is no more love. Sure, it is good to think about the kids, especially if the kids are at an early age. In most cases, the kids are the ones who will suffer the consequences of the separation. The second choice will be staying together until the kids grow up enough to take the notice of the separation. In this case, the couple will not share physical contact at all, so they will fill up that need with someone else. This action will trigger a stressful situation in the couple ready to go separately in different ways.

It is not an easy way to fix it from any perspective.
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Mar 2, 2018 12:42 AM CST When marriages begin to fail....
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Connecting Singles

Us singles learn from your mistakes

Or it would be called

Connecting Busted marriages dunno
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