How to get copy with impolite, offensive and humiliating messages (7)

Mar 4, 2018 6:00 PM CST How to get copy with impolite, offensive and humiliating messages
Malfidus
MalfidusMalfidusAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium6 Threads 98 Posts
A few weeks ago my friend told me he sent a polite inviting message to a woman (" Belleliever") and got following message (see below) as the first and last answer as his account was blocked already before he could reply. I wanted to help him with a reply using my account but it was impossible as I was blocked , preliminary too.......??? How could that happen??? It all seemed weired to me.
Btw. If she should have normal answered she would have been told that he is now working as a free lance consultant for companies that renovate en maintain buildings.

Her message :
"You're a Master Degree graduate? but your work is house repair?? come on, only stupid people will believe that. And you're too stupid if you think everybody is stupid. I think you're just a big liar! I hate a liar, they have mostly big mouths and their mouth stink!!"


How to copy with such impolite, offensive and humiliating messages and persons??
Could it proposed to Connecting Singles to prevent "blocking preliminary" in the future ?? F.i. by a "one time deblocking tool" the receiver can use to reply at least once? Or other measures: a kind of black list or exclusion or......??? or should we just let these sick and weired persons do what they do?
What would you suggest if ....?
Mar 5, 2018 3:01 PM CST How to get copy with impolite, offensive and humiliating messages
Malfidus: A few weeks ago my friend told me he sent a polite inviting message to a woman (" Belleliever") and got following message (see below) as the first and last answer as his account was blocked already before he could reply. I wanted to help him with a reply using my account but it was impossible as I was blocked , preliminary too.......??? How could that happen??? It all seemed weired to me.
Btw. If she should have normal answered she would have been told that he is now working as a free lance consultant for companies that renovate en maintain buildings.

Her message :
"You're a Master Degree graduate? but your work is house repair?? come on, only stupid people will believe that. And you're too stupid if you think everybody is stupid. I think you're just a big liar! I hate a liar, they have mostly big mouths and their mouth stink!!"


How to copy with such impolite, offensive and humiliating messages and persons??
Could it proposed to Connecting Singles to prevent "blocking preliminary" in the future ?? F.i. by a "one time deblocking tool" the receiver can use to reply at least once? Or other measures: a kind of black list or exclusion or......??? or should we just let these sick and weired persons do what they do?
What would you suggest if ....?


Why would you want to reply to somebody like that ?

Why explain yourself to somebody with that attitude?

Unless you want a lifetime of nagging.

Count your losses as blessings.


Oh, of course I meant your friend, not you.
Mar 6, 2018 8:42 AM CST How to get copy with impolite, offensive and humiliating messages
Malfidus: A few weeks ago my friend told me he sent a polite inviting message to a woman (" Belleliever") and got following message (see below) as the first and last answer as his account was blocked already before he could reply. I wanted to help him with a reply using my account but it was impossible as I was blocked , preliminary too.......??? How could that happen??? It all seemed weired to me.
Btw. If she should have normal answered she would have been told that he is now working as a free lance consultant for companies that renovate en maintain buildings.

Her message :
"You're a Master Degree graduate? but your work is house repair?? come on, only stupid people will believe that. And you're too stupid if you think everybody is stupid. I think you're just a big liar! I hate a liar, they have mostly big mouths and their mouth stink!!"


How to copy with such impolite, offensive and humiliating messages and persons??
Could it proposed to Connecting Singles to prevent "blocking preliminary" in the future ?? F.i. by a "one time deblocking tool" the receiver can use to reply at least once? Or other measures: a kind of black list or exclusion or......??? or should we just let these sick and weired persons do what they do?
What would you suggest if ....?

She does make some good points
Mar 6, 2018 1:20 PM CST How to get copy with impolite, offensive and humiliating messages
Malfidus
MalfidusMalfidusAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium6 Threads 98 Posts
Do I have to believe this is the way you treat people you don't know anything about?? First swearing them out and then blocking the accounts. Is it because because being a coward or being a superfrustrated person? If so I suggest you better choose another site!
Mar 7, 2018 4:00 AM CST How to get copy with impolite, offensive and humiliating messages
Malfidus: Do I have to believe this is the way you treat people you don't know anything about?? First swearing them out and then blocking the accounts. Is it because because being a coward or being a superfrustrated person? If so I suggest you better choose another site!

Who are you talking to?
Mar 17, 2018 4:52 PM CST How to get copy with impolite, offensive and humiliating messages
nsnbright
nsnbrightnsnbrightCork, Ireland1 Threads 19 Posts
just don't get upset,she's not worth,she's another stupid b*tch like few of them here,it happens to me too,probably she's been here for long time to play with others,that's how she's spendig time instead of doing something else,full of sh*t in their prof,like "honest,trust,loyalty,intelligent,true love etc,they are disrespectful,roll on bro,block her!
Feb 14, 2019 4:11 AM CST How to get copy with impolite, offensive and humiliating messages
Jefke59online today!
Jefke59online today!Jefke59Gent, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium36 Posts
When receiving an offensive or disrespectful first message, I block its author. This rarely occurs.

A humiliating reply to an opening message always is disproportionate, even if it were carelessly written or flawed. As the saying goes: 'only a mediocre person always is at his best'.

Most often, I would not reply or either ask "What exactly do you mean?" (in case an appealing profile description didn't rhyme with the style nor the content of the message.)

Using short phrases is a style. It does't entail flawed writing. So I would personally have shortened the title of this thread to: "How to cope with impolite, offensive or humiliating replies?"
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