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Mar 6, 2018 7:56 PM CST To be together.
You stay in different country, different part of the world. Both of you love each other for long time, and wish to be together.
You have good business and good life in your country, your lover have the same, good job that everyone dream to have it. Its make both of you always busy. Should we left everything we had, then join with him/her. Different culture, different lifestyle, and of course.......out from your confort zone.
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Mar 6, 2018 8:00 PM CST To be together.
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
I live in the luckiest best weather country on the planet if I had a crystal ball that would guarantee me 100% happiness I would leave what I've known and loved all my life to be with him.

In saying the above I would be content to visit every couple of months and make sure to sizzle him in the bedroom so good he couldn't walk or get a willy movement till my next visit cartwheel

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Mar 6, 2018 8:15 PM CST To be together.
heavensmile: You stay in different country, different part of the world. Both of you love each other for long time, and wish to be together.
You have good business and good life in your country, your lover have the same, good job that everyone dream to have it. Its make both of you always busy. Should we left everything we had, then join with him/her. Different culture, different lifestyle, and of course.......out from your confort zone.
every thing seems OK at these points , the second stage is to meet and see if both are compatible having same chemistry , that's very important ,wine
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Mar 6, 2018 8:48 PM CST To be together.
ali110: every thing seems OK at these points , the second stage is to meet and see if both are compatible having same chemistry , that's very important ,


When they love each other for long, and want to be together. mean chemistry is there.
Only thing, do we have to out from our confort zone to question mark (?).
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Mar 6, 2018 8:51 PM CST To be together.
heavensmile: When they love each other for long, and want to be together. mean chemistry is there.
Only thing, do we have to out from our confort zone to question mark (?).
have you ever met ? If so , that's fine , if no , than there is a question mark for sure until you find compatibility wine
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Mar 6, 2018 8:57 PM CST To be together.
heavensmile: When they love each other for long, and want to be together. mean chemistry is there.
Only thing, do we have to out from our confort zone to question mark (?).
in a relationship , physical attraction from both sides is also very important , and that's the main. Part of compatibility wine
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Mar 6, 2018 9:04 PM CST To be together.
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
Mercedes_00: I live in the luckiest best weather country on the planet if I had a crystal ball that would guarantee me 100% happiness I would leave what I've known and loved all my life to be with him.

In saying the above I would be content to visit every couple of months and make sure to sizzle him in the bedroom so good he couldn't walk or get a willy movement till my next visit



I'm sorry, M, but I THINK the Tahitians would PROBABLY disagree with your premise that ANYWHERE in Australia is BETTER than Tahiti!

But I SUPPORT your concept that TRUE "Love" IS worth ANY price.

Now, as to your methodology, THAT is something that concerns (and SHOULD BE worked out between) only the participating parties. If it's fine with YOU (and WHOEVER), then it's NONE of ANYBODY ELSE'S business!

But I AM curious, about ONE thing! You like to go to the gym and work out, right? Repeated exercise improves the likelihood of your body accomplishing your mission, right? Alright. THAT conceded, your STATED "goal" would be to "sizzle him in the bedroom so good he couldn't walk or get willy movement until (your) next visit". Since it's coming on winter, there, and you've stated that you HATE the cold, it's going to be summer, here, soon, AND, since I'm retired and HAVe no SET schedule, you're welcome to ANY MONTH you like! Just let me know! And we can workout/practice ALL YOU LIKE! Wouldn't want you NOT to be able to accomplish your "mission"! smitten dancing yay peace hug kiss rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 6, 2018 9:19 PM CST To be together.
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
heavensmile: You stay in different country, different part of the world. Both of you love each other for long time, and wish to be together.
You have good business and good life in your country, your lover have the same, good job that everyone dream to have it. Its make both of you always busy. Should we left everything we had, then join with him/her. Different culture, different lifestyle, and of course.......out from your confort zone.


Trust yourself first before trusting anyone else.hmmm
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Mar 6, 2018 9:48 PM CST To be together.
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
heavensmile: When they love each other for long, and want to be together. mean chemistry is there.
Only thing, do we have to out from our confort zone to question mark (?).


Rainy, you seem (to ME) such an "UNspoiled: person, with a heart FULL of "Love:, as big as the galaxy, that I sorta HATE to say this to you.

You say "do we have to out from our comfort zone tp question mark (?)" (by which, which I'm "understanding" you to mean "the GREAT Unknown"). Need I point out that you're making a FAULTY ASSUMPTION, there? You APPARENTLY think of your "comfort zone" as some place or thing OUTSIDE yourself! Some PLACE you go TO, or FROM! Some THING you DO, or HAVE DONE, to YOU. Some SOURCE of "happiness", OUTSIDE yourself!

I HATE breaking the news to you, but YOU create YOUR "comfort zone"! It's NOT "something" OUTSIDE yourself! It's NOT a "something" at ALL! It's an "attitude" you carry around WITH you! It's WHEREVER YOU are! YOU create it! It's INSIDE you! NOT outside you! You can BE just as "comfortable" in the Amazon jungles, as you can be, at your grandmother's house! Certainly, OUTSIDE things CAN affect your "comfort" STATUS! Somebody sticks a gun in your face, you're NOT going to BE as comfortable, as you would be, laying in front of a nice fire, sipping a little wine, with your lover! But THAT is the STATUS of your comfort! NOT your "comfort zone"! That place - INSIDE YOU - from which your comfort/serenity derive! So you CAN'T "leave" your "comfort zone". You carry it around WITH you, like a second skin, WHEREVER you go! And IF you "love" someone, it WON'T matter where YOU are, THEy are, or the two of you are, together, are! The "LOVE" will BE your "comfort zone".

It seems (to ME) that your "worry" is NOT ONLY "pointless", but WITHOUT "foundation"! DON'T let "anxiety" get in the way of LOVE, girl! NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING, should BE a "blockade" to love. I'm NOT saying that ALL "love" will ALWAYS turn out the way we wish/hope it will! What I AM saying, is that IF you don't TAKE that chance, the odds are that THAT "LOVE" you want/seek will (MOST PROBABLY) ALWAYS elude you! And you'll NEVER BE as fully "comfortable", as when you're participating, DEEPLY, FULLY IMMERSED, in "love". hug bouquet teddybear
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Mar 6, 2018 9:51 PM CST To be together.
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
Let_Us: Heavenly, you seem (to ME) such an "UNspoiled: person, with a heart FULL of "Love:, as big as the galaxy, that I sorta HATE to say this to you.

You say "do we have to out from our comfort zone tp question mark (?)" (by which, which I'm "understanding" you to mean "the GREAT Unknown"). Need I point out that you're making a FAULTY ASSUMPTION, there? You APPARENTLY think of your "comfort zone" as some place or thing OUTSIDE yourself! Some PLACE you go TO, or FROM! Some THING you DO, or HAVE DONE, to YOU. Some SOURCE of "happiness", OUTSIDE yourself!

I HATE breaking the news to you, but YOU create YOUR "comfort zone"! It's NOT "something" OUTSIDE yourself! It's NOT a "something" at ALL! It's an "attitude" you carry around WITH you! It's WHEREVER YOU are! YOU create it! It's INSIDE you! NOT outside you! You can BE just as "comfortable" in the Amazon jungles, as you can be, at your grandmother's house! Certainly, OUTSIDE things CAN affect your "comfort" STATUS! Somebody sticks a gun in your face, you're NOT going to BE as comfortable, as you would be, laying in front of a nice fire, sipping a little wine, with your lover! But THAT is the STATUS of your comfort! NOT your "comfort zone"! That place - INSIDE YOU - from which your comfort/serenity derive! So you CAN'T "leave" your "comfort zone". You carry it around WITH you, like a second skin, WHEREVER you go! And IF you "love" someone, it WON'T matter where YOU are, THEy are, or the two of you are, together, are! The "LOVE" will BE your "comfort zone".

It seems (to ME) that your "worry" is NOT ONLY "pointless", but WITHOUT "foundation"! DON'T let "anxiety" get in the way of LOVE, girl! NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING, should BE a "blockade" to love. I'm NOT saying that ALL "love" will ALWAYS turn out the way we wish/hope it will! What I AM saying, is that IF you don't TAKE that chance, the odds are that THAT "LOVE" you want/seek will (MOST PROBABLY) ALWAYS elude you! And you'll NEVER BE as fully "comfortable", as when you're participating, DEEPLY, FULLY IMMERSED, in "love".
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Mar 6, 2018 10:11 PM CST To be together.
Trust yourself first before trusting anyone else.[/quote

You are right, thats most important cheers
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Mar 6, 2018 10:20 PM CST To be together.
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
heavensmile: Trust yourself first before trusting anyone else.[/quote

You are right, thats most important


Generally, if in doubt, dont do it

A lot of this, your Daddy should have told you laugh
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Mar 6, 2018 10:30 PM CST To be together.
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Have you got kids?????
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Mar 6, 2018 11:00 PM CST To be together.
Let_Us: Rainy, you seem (to ME) such an "UNspoiled: person, with a heart FULL of "Love:, as big as the galaxy, that I sorta HATE to say this to you.

You say "do we have to out from our comfort zone tp question mark (?)" (by which, which I'm "understanding" you to mean "the GREAT Unknown"). Need I point out that you're making a FAULTY ASSUMPTION, there? You APPARENTLY think of your "comfort zone" as some place or thing OUTSIDE yourself! Some PLACE you go TO, or FROM! Some THING you DO, or HAVE DONE, to YOU. Some SOURCE of "happiness", OUTSIDE yourself!

I HATE breaking the news to you, but YOU create YOUR "comfort zone"! It's NOT "something" OUTSIDE yourself! It's NOT a "something" at ALL! It's an "attitude" you carry around WITH you! It's WHEREVER YOU are! YOU create it! It's INSIDE you! NOT outside you! You can BE just as "comfortable" in the Amazon jungles, as you can be, at your grandmother's house! Certainly, OUTSIDE things CAN affect your "comfort" STATUS! Somebody sticks a gun in your face, you're NOT going to BE as comfortable, as you would be, laying in front of a nice fire, sipping a little wine, with your lover! But THAT is the STATUS of your comfort! NOT your "comfort zone"! That place - INSIDE YOU - from which your comfort/serenity derive! So you CAN'T "leave" your "comfort zone". You carry it around WITH you, like a second skin, WHEREVER you go! And IF you "love" someone, it WON'T matter where YOU are, THEy are, or the two of you are, together, are! The "LOVE" will BE your "comfort zone".

It seems (to ME) that your "worry" is NOT ONLY "pointless", but WITHOUT "foundation"! DON'T let "anxiety" get in the way of LOVE, girl! NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING, should BE a "blockade" to love. I'm NOT saying that ALL "love" will ALWAYS turn out the way we wish/hope it will! What I AM saying, is that IF you don't TAKE that chance, the odds are that THAT "LOVE" you want/seek will (MOST PROBABLY) ALWAYS elude you! And you'll NEVER BE as fully "comfortable", as when you're participating, DEEPLY, FULLY IMMERSED, in "love".


great explanation from the expert thumbs up
Thank you wine
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Mar 6, 2018 11:03 PM CST To be together.
heavensmile: You stay in different country, different part of the world. Both of you love each other for long time, and wish to be together.
You have good business and good life in your country, your lover have the same, good job that everyone dream to have it. Its make both of you always busy. Should we left everything we had, then join with him/her. Different culture, different lifestyle, and of course.......out from your confort zone.


I would love to be able to be in that kind of position.
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Mar 6, 2018 11:17 PM CST To be together.
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Let_Us: I'm sorry, M, but I THINK the Tahitians would PROBABLY disagree with your premise that ANYWHERE in Australia is BETTER than Tahiti!

But I SUPPORT your concept that TRUE "Love" IS worth ANY price.

Now, as to your methodology, THAT is something that concerns (and SHOULD BE worked out between) only the participating parties. If it's fine with YOU (and WHOEVER), then it's NONE of ANYBODY ELSE'S business!

But I AM curious, about ONE thing! You like to go to the gym and work out, right? Repeated exercise improves the likelihood of your body accomplishing your mission, right? Alright. THAT conceded, your STATED "goal" would be to "sizzle him in the bedroom so good he couldn't walk or get willy movement until (your) next visit". Since it's coming on winter, there, and you've stated that you HATE the cold, it's going to be summer, here, soon, AND, since I'm retired and HAVe no SET schedule, you're welcome to ANY MONTH you like! Just let me know! And we can workout/practice ALL YOU LIKE! Wouldn't want you NOT to be able to accomplish your "mission"!


When I said sizzle him in the bedroom so he can't walk ect it was just me saying so he has no need to stray laugh
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Mar 6, 2018 11:32 PM CST To be together.
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Mercedes_00: When I said sizzle him in the bedroom so he can't walk ect it was just me saying so he has no need to stray



BS!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 6, 2018 11:48 PM CST To be together.
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Lookin4missright: BS!!


Well isn't a woman suppose to work it till it breaks so he can't stray? laugh
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Mar 7, 2018 1:05 AM CST To be together.
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
Mercedes_00: When I said sizzle him in the bedroom so he can't walk ect it was just me saying so he has no need to stray


I UNDERSTOOD THAT, M! I was just "intrigued" by the way you EXPRESSED it! I LIKE interesting and/or unusual ways of expressing one's thoughts! (I'm a writer [among OTHER things], and writers NOTICE/APPRECIATE a WELL TURNED phrase!) And I thought I'd just have some fun and entertain everybody (at YOUR expense! SHOULDN'T do that! But I THINK you're INDEPENDENT, ENOUGH, to handle it!) But, I'm sorta "curious" about your "phrasing", here, too! So "he has no need to stray"? Or "he has no ABILITY to stray"? Interesting "choice", that phrasing! You'll just have to forgive me, M! I'm ENTIRELY tp "precocious", for an adult! hug cheers lips teddybear
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Mar 7, 2018 1:09 AM CST To be together.
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
Mercedes_00: Well isn't a woman suppose to work it till it breaks so he can't stray?



And YES, M! When you FIND the guy, You 'WORK" HIM, 'til he breaks! You're EXACTLY right! cheering smitten hug heart wings teddybear
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