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Mar 7, 2018 1:16 AM CST To be together.
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Let and Merc sitting in a boat ....
Orrrr Maaaan ... how come i always miss out .......... ;( ffs!
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Mar 7, 2018 1:19 AM CST To be together.
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Lookin4missright: Let and Merc sitting in a boat ....
Orrrr Maaaan ... how come i always miss out .......... ;( ffs!


Let is so not poking my boat rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 7, 2018 1:19 AM CST To be together.
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Let_Us: And YES, M! When you FIND the guy, You 'WORK" HIM, 'til he breaks! You're EXACTLY right!


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Mar 7, 2018 1:33 AM CST To be together.
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Yeh right
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Mar 7, 2018 2:11 AM CST To be together.
DoubleFantasy: Generally, if in doubt, dont do it

A lot of this, your Daddy should have told you

confused
you know my daddy?
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Mar 7, 2018 2:12 AM CST To be together.
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Lookin4missright: Yeh right


Don't go getting snarky with me
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Mar 7, 2018 2:14 AM CST To be together.
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
heavensmile: you know my daddy?


I didnt say I did. Did he give any such advice to you?
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Mar 7, 2018 3:38 AM CST To be together.
DoubleFantasy: I didnt say I did. Did he give any such advice to you?

My daddy said, that my heart is fragile in EU or US
heart wings
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Mar 7, 2018 3:44 AM CST To be together.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Heaven, this is exactly why I do not engage in long distance relationships.

At least one of the couple must be willing and able to move permanently for it to work. And even then there is no guarantee.

As I am not in that position, and am not willing to do so either as I love living here, I cannot expect the other to give up their life either.

So, either be willing to give up your life as you know it, or give up LDRs.
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Mar 7, 2018 4:13 AM CST To be together.
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
heavensmile: My daddy said, that my heart is fragile in EU or US

What will not kill you, will make you stronger. Tell your dad I said that to you. laugh

People like to go over to where you are, on Holiday...can you not seduce them, while they are over there ?teddybear
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Mar 7, 2018 5:25 AM CST To be together.
mollybaby: Heaven, this is exactly why I do not engage in long distance relationships.

At least one of the couple must be willing and able to move permanently for it to work. And even then there is no guarantee.

As I am not in that position, and am not willing to do so either as I love living here, I cannot expect the other to give up their life either.

So, either be willing to give up your life as you know it, or give up LDRs.


another choice to not make ourself headache thumbs up
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Mar 7, 2018 5:34 AM CST To be together.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
heavensmile: another choice to not make ourself headache


Or at least a deliberate heartache, where you embark on something that is doomed to failure.

We have to be realistic as well as romantic bouquet
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Mar 7, 2018 5:41 AM CST To be together.
Krinka
KrinkaKrinkaAtlanta, Georgia USA1 Threads 231 Posts
heavensmile: Different culture, different lifestyle, and of course.......out from your confort zone.


I don't know any more...

Being alone in a foreign country with just one man to rely on - the man you don't even know that well...

sigh
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Mar 7, 2018 5:55 AM CST To be together.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Krinka: I don't know any more...

Being alone in a foreign country with just one man to rely on - the man you don't even know that well...


Some people want that adventure I guess

Some people aren't that happy living where they are, they are happy to relocate and take the chance.

it all depends on the two people involved

Having said that, they really would need to meet in advance. I know somebody who left their job; their home, and moved themselves, their pets, their mother (yes, their mother) and all their belongings to be with someone they had never met in real life.

It worked out....

disastrously!
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Mar 7, 2018 5:56 AM CST To be together.
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
DoubleFantasy: What will not kill you, will make you stronger. Tell your dad I said that to you.

People like to go over to where you are, on Holiday...can you not seduce them, while they are over there ?


And of course keep handy your local embassy's contact details whilst abroad and make sure you have health insurance cover.
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Mar 7, 2018 7:46 AM CST To be together.
SweetnFunnyChic
SweetnFunnyChicSweetnFunnyChicSharjah, United Arab Emirates10 Threads 5 Polls 374 Posts
heavensmile: You stay in different country, different part of the world. Both of you love each other for long time, and wish to be together.
You have good business and good life in your country, your lover have the same, good job that everyone dream to have it. Its make both of you always busy. Should we left everything we had, then join with him/her. Different culture, different lifestyle, and of course.......out from your confort zone.


I wouldn't leave to another country unless its very serious.....like engaged stage....I'm not quitting a stable job, leaving family and friends and a relaxed lifestyle for a relationship which can end anytime. The friends that had long distance relationships only moved after they were engaged or got married to the guy. I guess its up to the individual person. Long distance is damn hard.
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Mar 7, 2018 8:03 AM CST To be together.
SweetnFunnyChic
SweetnFunnyChicSweetnFunnyChicSharjah, United Arab Emirates10 Threads 5 Polls 374 Posts
mollybaby: Some people want that adventure I guess

Some people aren't that happy living where they are, they are happy to relocate and take the chance.

it all depends on the two people involved

Having said that, they really would need to meet in advance. I know somebody who left their job; their home, and moved themselves, their pets, their mother (yes, their mother) and all their belongings to be with someone they had never met in real life.

It worked out....

disastrously!


Meeting a few times is very important..... having said that....a friend met a guy online, knew him for a few months, had never seen him other than in pics, he proposed, she went to his country they got married shortly after. Now they're still married all these years later and have a kid :) I feel sorry for that person you mentioned who left everything for a guy she never even met....that's crazy....sometimes love makes a person do stupid things....
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Mar 7, 2018 8:07 AM CST To be together.
SweetnFunnyChic: Meeting a few times is very important..... having said that....a friend met a guy online, knew him for a few months, had never seen him other than in pics, he proposed, she went to his country they got married shortly after. Now they're still married all these years later and have a kid :) I feel sorry for that person you mentioned who left everything for a guy she never even met....that's crazy....sometimes love makes a person do stupid things....
good post thumbs up

How is weather in UAE?
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Mar 7, 2018 9:15 AM CST To be together.
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
mollybaby: Some people want that adventure I guess

Some people aren't that happy living where they are, they are happy to relocate and take the chance.

it all depends on the two people involved

Having said that, they really would need to meet in advance. I know somebody who left their job; their home, and moved themselves, their pets, their mother (yes, their mother) and all their belongings to be with someone they had never met in real life.

It worked out....

disastrously!


Seeing a light at the end of the tunnel and then jumping through it - is too drastic and there within is a problem and its began due to an underlying problem for this notion to manifest.
Hanging around, having online friends, then friends in person, tours, holidays, partying, having fun...comes well, well, well before anything else. bouquet
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Mar 7, 2018 6:12 PM CST To be together.
marlindap
marlindapmarlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
go ahead and do, just don't sell your house.
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