What is our experience of Emotional intelligence ? (116)
DoubleFantasy: I see no problems with your write ups at all. Its easy enough to understand. Its just that I think we/others use a spell checker (on our browser - to "cheat")
Going back to the topic - I think its a vast subject and possibly (if at all it can be) can summed up by saying - there is no better mastery than self mastery...
Dont be afraid to be rough with me if I'm way off the mark
I don't use a spell checker Going back to the topic - I think its a vast subject and possibly (if at all it can be) can summed up by saying - there is no better mastery than self mastery...
Dont be afraid to be rough with me if I'm way off the mark
but it's a good idea. 
It is a vast subject and it can touch many things ....Thank you for your contribution. It's pleasure to have you around.Emotional Intelligence: Using the Laws of Attraction | D. Ivan Young | TEDxLSCTomball
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My emotions and intelligence fight each other. 
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Miwagi: My emotions and intelligence fight each other.
It's easier to express anger or silent treatment, than to say how you feel about something. Right ? 
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rainbowdream2017: Lookin was banned from my thread and that was exceptionally great emotional intelligence move.
Exercising to express my feelings stright forward does feels good.
Exercising to express my feelings stright forward does feels good.
Rainbow I quoted this a few moments go
rainbowdream2017: Lookin was banned from my thread and that was exceptionally great emotional intelligence move.
Exercising to express my feelings stright forward does feels good.
Exercising to express my feelings stright forward does feels good.
rainbow I read the interaction/or actually potshots between you and Lookin4missright then you posted this on how you had banned Lookin4missright from your thread. But yet when you read Let_Us 's sarcastic remark to me you found humor in his negative reply to me.You also told me in post #117 not to get upset about slight sarcasm.
What I found strange is that you posted a lengthy post in regards to being bullied and on how bullies are hurting etc etc.
I wrote to you telling you that I don't do fakeness either so on and so on.Then you wrote back to me saying that you read from top to bottom and giggling of the posted questions that Let_Us and the sarcastic remark that he made to me.You didn't post that you banned Let_Us.
How is what Lookin4missright posted to you any different then the sarcastic remark that Let_Us made to me?
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Crunia: Ha! What a subject you picked Rainbow....I like it.
I´ll be back to this thread tonight. Emotional Intelligence is the key to happiness...as simple as that.
The home of Resilience....
see you in a couple of hours
Welcome! I´ll be back to this thread tonight. Emotional Intelligence is the key to happiness...as simple as that.
The home of Resilience....
see you in a couple of hours
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Bearwoman: Rainbow I quoted this a few moments go
rainbow I read the interaction/or actually potshots between you and Lookin4missright then you posted this on how you had banned Lookin4missright from your thread. But yet when you read Let_Us 's sarcastic remark to me you found humor in his negative reply to me.You also told me in post #117 not to get upset about slight sarcasm.
What I found strange is that you posted a lengthy post in regards to being bullied and on how bullies are hurting etc etc.
I wrote to you telling you that I don't do fakeness either so on and so on.Then you wrote back to me saying that you read from top to bottom and giggling of the posted questions that Let_Us and the sarcastic remark that he made to me.You didn't post that you banned Let_Us.
How is what Lookin4missright posted to you any different then the sarcastic remark that Let_Us made to me?
rainbow I read the interaction/or actually potshots between you and Lookin4missright then you posted this on how you had banned Lookin4missright from your thread. But yet when you read Let_Us 's sarcastic remark to me you found humor in his negative reply to me.You also told me in post #117 not to get upset about slight sarcasm.
What I found strange is that you posted a lengthy post in regards to being bullied and on how bullies are hurting etc etc.
I wrote to you telling you that I don't do fakeness either so on and so on.Then you wrote back to me saying that you read from top to bottom and giggling of the posted questions that Let_Us and the sarcastic remark that he made to me.You didn't post that you banned Let_Us.
How is what Lookin4missright posted to you any different then the sarcastic remark that Let_Us made to me?
This argumentative example might be a good one to exercise Emotional intelligence for anyone who's looking inside and outside. Please read post 41 than compere with Let us post. Perhaps you don't see any difference in given attitude, where I see huge difference,as 41 post and other of his posts (before I banned him) is tottaly inappropriate - disrespectful - undermining my person, while Let us ask you question that might made you feel uneasy but he did it in a polite way (just as you ask me politely question too, that I might found as 'nitpicking my words' in a negative connotation - but what I choose to see is a Humour !) and now when you see something more to Let us post that touches you, you choose to see similarity, because it's about you ? I haven't notice that anyone here is so horrible loyal to me to involve myself fighting another person battle. Setting my personal boundaries, when to show sympathy, to be broad-mind enough to empathize or when to detach and distance myself, is my choice, just as you read nasty posts directed towards me and it didn't bother you to jump galloping on the horse as knight - errant or a great native Indian warrior .....to fight my battle.Lol
I don't expect from anyone to fight my battles, we all make our own choice, what we see as worth battle to fight for self or which battle is not worth, or if we going to choose challenges of dialogue enthusiastically, or to make a humour out of all, or if we're going to simple let go because some times the fight is all you get.
There's countless possibilities in any situation, choice is for each of us to chose which different experience in life is good for our personal development or not.
I think the most difficult battle and the struggles is with ourselves, to conqure ourself, the invisible awaken warrior who have the fire ...and as good it may be at times to be strong and fearless to fight for a good course for balancing justice and for moral principals, and another time it might be just fight of Sir Don Quixote of La Mancha who unsuccessfully attack & fights on a windmills, who imagines windmills are giants, and windmills are real !
Find him in Wikipedia, is a Spanish novel by Miguel Dr Cervantes Saavedra, it's a parody of the romances of Cevantes's time, he rides out like knight - errant, searching for the same principles and goals and engaging in similar battles ....
Hope my answer is clear.
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rainbowdream2017: This argumentative example might be a good one to exercise Emotional intelligence for anyone who's looking inside and outside.
Please read post 41 than compere with Let us post. Perhaps you don't see any difference in given attitude, where I see huge difference,as 41 post and other of his posts (before I banned him) is tottaly inappropriate - disrespectful - undermining my person, while Let us ask you question that might made you feel uneasy but he did it in a polite way (just as you ask me politely question too, that I might found as 'nitpicking my words' in a negative connotation - but what I choose to see is a Humour !) and now when you see something more to Let us post that touches you, you choose to see similarity, because it's about you ? I haven't notice that anyone here is so horrible loyal to me to involve myself fighting another person battle. Setting my personal boundaries, when to show sympathy, to be broad-mind enough to empathize or when to detach and distance myself, is my choice, just as you read nasty posts directed towards me and it didn't bother you to jump galloping on the horse as knight - errant or a great native Indian warrior .....to fight my battle.Lol
I don't expect from anyone to fight my battles, we all make our own choice, what we see as worth battle to fight for self or which battle is not worth, or if we going to choose challenges of dialogue enthusiastically, or to make a humour out of all, or if we're going to simple let go because some times the fight is all you get.
There's countless possibilities in any situation, choice is for each of us to chose which different experience in life is good for our personal development or not.
I think the most difficult battle and the struggles is with ourselves, to conqure ourself, the invisible awaken warrior who have the fire ...and as good it may be at times to be strong and fearless to fight for a good course for balancing justice and for moral principals, and another time it might be just fight of Sir Don Quixote of La Mancha who unsuccessfully attack & fights on a windmills, who imagines windmills are giants, and windmills are real !
Find him in Wikipedia, is a Spanish novel by Miguel De Cervantes Saavedra, it's a parody of the romances of Cevantes's time, he rides out like knight - errant, searching for the same principles and goals and engaging in similar battles ....
Hope my answer is clear.
Bearwomen I like to share with you quote I find deep in relation to your question, it's quote from Rene (don't remember his other name Please read post 41 than compere with Let us post. Perhaps you don't see any difference in given attitude, where I see huge difference,as 41 post and other of his posts (before I banned him) is tottaly inappropriate - disrespectful - undermining my person, while Let us ask you question that might made you feel uneasy but he did it in a polite way (just as you ask me politely question too, that I might found as 'nitpicking my words' in a negative connotation - but what I choose to see is a Humour !) and now when you see something more to Let us post that touches you, you choose to see similarity, because it's about you ? I haven't notice that anyone here is so horrible loyal to me to involve myself fighting another person battle. Setting my personal boundaries, when to show sympathy, to be broad-mind enough to empathize or when to detach and distance myself, is my choice, just as you read nasty posts directed towards me and it didn't bother you to jump galloping on the horse as knight - errant or a great native Indian warrior .....to fight my battle.Lol
I don't expect from anyone to fight my battles, we all make our own choice, what we see as worth battle to fight for self or which battle is not worth, or if we going to choose challenges of dialogue enthusiastically, or to make a humour out of all, or if we're going to simple let go because some times the fight is all you get.
There's countless possibilities in any situation, choice is for each of us to chose which different experience in life is good for our personal development or not.
I think the most difficult battle and the struggles is with ourselves, to conqure ourself, the invisible awaken warrior who have the fire ...and as good it may be at times to be strong and fearless to fight for a good course for balancing justice and for moral principals, and another time it might be just fight of Sir Don Quixote of La Mancha who unsuccessfully attack & fights on a windmills, who imagines windmills are giants, and windmills are real !
Find him in Wikipedia, is a Spanish novel by Miguel De Cervantes Saavedra, it's a parody of the romances of Cevantes's time, he rides out like knight - errant, searching for the same principles and goals and engaging in similar battles ....
Hope my answer is clear.
) I think he is a French writer:" You only fight well for causes you yourself have shaped, with which you identify- and burn."
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rainbowdream2017: This argumentative example might be a good one to exercise Emotional intelligence for anyone who's looking inside and outside.
Please read post 41 than compere with Let us post. Perhaps you don't see any difference in given attitude, where I see huge difference,as 41 post and other of his posts (before I banned him) is tottaly inappropriate - disrespectful - undermining my person, while Let us ask you question that might made you feel uneasy but he did it in a polite way (just as you ask me politely question too, that I might found as 'nitpicking my words' in a negative connotation - but what I choose to see is a Humour !) and now when you see something more to Let us post that touches you, you choose to see similarity, because it's about you ? I haven't notice that anyone here is so horrible loyal to me to involve myself fighting another person battle. Setting my personal boundaries, when to show sympathy, to be broad-mind enough to empathize or when to detach and distance myself, is my choice, just as you read nasty posts directed towards me and it didn't bother you to jump galloping on the horse as knight - errant or a great native Indian warrior .....to fight my battle.Lol
I don't expect from anyone to fight my battles, we all make our own choice, what we see as worth battle to fight for self or which battle is not worth, or if we going to choose challenges of dialogue enthusiastically, or to make a humour out of all, or if we're going to simple let go because some times the fight is all you get.
There's countless possibilities in any situation, choice is for each of us to chose which different experience in life is good for our personal development or not.
I think the most difficult battle and the struggles is with ourselves, to conqure ourself, the invisible awaken warrior who have the fire ...and as good it may be at times to be strong and fearless to fight for a good course for balancing justice and for moral principals, and another time it might be just fight of Sir Don Quixote of La Mancha who unsuccessfully attack & fights on a windmills, who imagines windmills are giants, and windmills are real !
Find him in Wikipedia, is a Spanish novel by Miguel Dr Cervantes Saavedra, it's a parody of the romances of Cevantes's time, he rides out like knight - errant, searching for the same principles and goals and engaging in similar battles ....
Hope my answer is clear.
Please read post 41 than compere with Let us post. Perhaps you don't see any difference in given attitude, where I see huge difference,as 41 post and other of his posts (before I banned him) is tottaly inappropriate - disrespectful - undermining my person, while Let us ask you question that might made you feel uneasy but he did it in a polite way (just as you ask me politely question too, that I might found as 'nitpicking my words' in a negative connotation - but what I choose to see is a Humour !) and now when you see something more to Let us post that touches you, you choose to see similarity, because it's about you ? I haven't notice that anyone here is so horrible loyal to me to involve myself fighting another person battle. Setting my personal boundaries, when to show sympathy, to be broad-mind enough to empathize or when to detach and distance myself, is my choice, just as you read nasty posts directed towards me and it didn't bother you to jump galloping on the horse as knight - errant or a great native Indian warrior .....to fight my battle.Lol
I don't expect from anyone to fight my battles, we all make our own choice, what we see as worth battle to fight for self or which battle is not worth, or if we going to choose challenges of dialogue enthusiastically, or to make a humour out of all, or if we're going to simple let go because some times the fight is all you get.
There's countless possibilities in any situation, choice is for each of us to chose which different experience in life is good for our personal development or not.
I think the most difficult battle and the struggles is with ourselves, to conqure ourself, the invisible awaken warrior who have the fire ...and as good it may be at times to be strong and fearless to fight for a good course for balancing justice and for moral principals, and another time it might be just fight of Sir Don Quixote of La Mancha who unsuccessfully attack & fights on a windmills, who imagines windmills are giants, and windmills are real !
Find him in Wikipedia, is a Spanish novel by Miguel Dr Cervantes Saavedra, it's a parody of the romances of Cevantes's time, he rides out like knight - errant, searching for the same principles and goals and engaging in similar battles ....
Hope my answer is clear.
Rainbow this is what Let_Us posted to me before he posted his questions to me(Are we supposed to clap, now?) which is scarcastic. I never provoked him.I haven't said as much as Boo to Let_Us in some days now.
The questions he asked I just totally ignored. All I said for him to do is Go jump in a lake.You and Lookin4missright went a round and round in several posts.you had been laughing the whole time.
Why I would step in and rescue you from Lookin4missright when both of you were throwing nasties at one another? Why the need to announce about banning Lookin4missright?
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rainbowdream2017: Bearwomen I like to share with you quote I find deep in relation to your question, it's quote from Rene (don't remember his other name ) I think he is a French writer:
" You only fight well for causes you yourself have shaped, with which you identify- and burn."
" You only fight well for causes you yourself have shaped, with which you identify- and burn."
Shouldn't you point this at yourself instead of at me?
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rainbowdream2017: Bearwomen I like to share with you quote I find deep in relation to your question, it's quote from Rene (don't remember his other name ) I think he is a French writer:
" You only fight well for causes you yourself have shaped, with which you identify- and burn."
" You only fight well for causes you yourself have shaped, with which you identify- and burn."
Rainbow I wasn't arguing with anyone in your thread you were.
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heavensmile: when we can't control what's happening, try to control the way we respond to what's happenig.
Is that one of Emotional Intelligence?
First,Is that one of Emotional Intelligence?
I like to express my admiration for your confidence to include yourself in discussion, as you said yourself in another post, how you feel limitation in expressivness, and I think, you're doing great in exercising a different language, and another language is not just a language but much, much more, which opens every door to perceive a different world, a different vision of life, another way of think about things and includes specific culture that broadening perspective, which is a gift
in being bilingual. 
I am happy to see that many people shows genuine encouragment and appreciation that you speak forign language and if you ever come accross to people who try to redicul your expressions in any way, ignore them and don't ever let anyone to demage your confidence in self and I think, that's where Emotional detachment helps to stringten our Emotional Intelligence.
In regard to your question, I am not the expert, we're all in process of learning, and I hope you find some answers in presented videos and dialogy with others.
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Bearwoman: Shouldn't you point this at yourself instead of at me?
Yes, I can point at myself, indeed. Actually, anyone can see self - inside this beautiful quote! Why do you choose to see only negativity ? It's meant to be inspirational and not for fighting /arguing purpose but if you choose to see only negative..... you're missing the point.
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Bearwoman: Rainbow this is what Let_Us posted to me before he posted his questions to me(Are we supposed to clap, now?) which is scarcastic. I never provoked him.I haven't said as much as Boo to Let_Us in some days now.
The questions he asked I just totally ignored. All I said for him to do is Go jump in a lake.You and Lookin4missright went a round and round in several posts.you had been laughing the whole time.
Why I would step in and rescue you from Lookin4missright when both of you were throwing nasties at one another? Why the need to announce about banning Lookin4missright?
I don't want to go in circle that leads nowhere. I didn't ask you to fight my battle and you shouldn't have that expectations from me to resque you eather.The questions he asked I just totally ignored. All I said for him to do is Go jump in a lake.You and Lookin4missright went a round and round in several posts.you had been laughing the whole time.
Why I would step in and rescue you from Lookin4missright when both of you were throwing nasties at one another? Why the need to announce about banning Lookin4missright?
The need to announce about banning 'xy' is to let him know, that his bad behaviour, throwing insoulting tantrum will not be tolerated and because I can predict his pattern of misbehaviour in continuing making new post as parody to my post !
I know his nature for years, being serial provoker and no matter how many times I've choose to be forgiving and give him another chance, it seems like just giving numerous chances to a scorpion, to bite you with toxic poison again and again. We all make mistakes and have flaws..... but some people never learn and continue with minimization, veiled humour and patronization, seeking out flexible target and hoping that their bad behaviour in never addressed ! I don't ever feel guilty about removing poison person. Emotional intelligence requires healthy boundaries for self and in relation to others.
I might not be the expert example / model how I choose to respond,but is my choice to set my personal boundaries with self and others and you choose for yourself.
I admire people who wisely learned to only say "Thank you for giving your view point " to any aggressive attack as in that way, conflict is not aggravated to waist energy and time on arguments, especially when is done intentionally insoulting with rudness of an ugly soul. We can't change someone who doesn't see an issue in his/ her BS talk in devaluing another person but if comment is made with some pleasent sensitivity and constructive criticism to make another learn, I accept that.
I don't wish to discass the same thing further....
Thank you for your contribution.
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rainbowdream2017: I don't want to go in circle that leads nowhere. I didn't ask you to fight my battle and you shouldn't have that expectations from me to resque you eather.
The need to announce about banning 'xy' is to let him know, that his bad behaviour, throwing insoulting tantrum will not be tolerated and because I can predict his pattern of misbehaviour in continuing making new post as parody to my post !
I know his nature for years, being serial provoker and no matter how many times I've choose to be forgiving and give him another chance, it seems like just giving numerous chances to a scorpion, to bite you with toxic poison again and again. We all make mistakes and have flaws..... but some people never learn and continue with minimization, veiled humour and patronization, seeking out flexible target and hoping that their bad behaviour in never addressed ! I don't ever feel guilty about removing poison person. Emotional intelligence requires healthy boundaries for self and in relation to others.
I might not be the expert example / model how I choose to respond,but is my choice to set my personal boundaries with self and others and you choose for yourself.
I admire people who wisely learned to only say "Thank you for giving your view point " to any aggressive attack as in that way, conflict is not aggravated to waist energy and time on arguments, especially when is done intentionally insoulting with rudness of an ugly soul. We can't change someone who doesn't see an issue in his/ her BS talk in devaluing another person but if comment is made with some pleasent sensitivity and constructive criticism to make another learn, I accept that.
I don't wish to discass the same thing further....
Thank you for your contribution.
The need to announce about banning 'xy' is to let him know, that his bad behaviour, throwing insoulting tantrum will not be tolerated and because I can predict his pattern of misbehaviour in continuing making new post as parody to my post !
I know his nature for years, being serial provoker and no matter how many times I've choose to be forgiving and give him another chance, it seems like just giving numerous chances to a scorpion, to bite you with toxic poison again and again. We all make mistakes and have flaws..... but some people never learn and continue with minimization, veiled humour and patronization, seeking out flexible target and hoping that their bad behaviour in never addressed ! I don't ever feel guilty about removing poison person. Emotional intelligence requires healthy boundaries for self and in relation to others.
I might not be the expert example / model how I choose to respond,but is my choice to set my personal boundaries with self and others and you choose for yourself.
I admire people who wisely learned to only say "Thank you for giving your view point " to any aggressive attack as in that way, conflict is not aggravated to waist energy and time on arguments, especially when is done intentionally insoulting with rudness of an ugly soul. We can't change someone who doesn't see an issue in his/ her BS talk in devaluing another person but if comment is made with some pleasent sensitivity and constructive criticism to make another learn, I accept that.
I don't wish to discass the same thing further....
Thank you for your contribution.
Rainbow go back and re-read post #124 where you mention while asking why I didn't come in like and Indian warrior to defend you. But in another post you turned right around and contradicted yourself by saying that you didn't expect me to defend you against Lookin4missright.
This is beginning to give me a huge headache and I'm done and moving on.I will not be looking out for anymore comments back to me.Have happy life.
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Bearwoman: Rainbow go back and re-read post #124 where you mention while asking why I didn't come in like and Indian warrior to defend you. But in another post you turned right around and contradicted yourself by saying that you didn't expect me to defend you against Lookin4missright.
This is beginning to give me a huge headache and I'm done and moving on.I will not be looking out for anymore comments back to me.Have happy life.
Thank you for sharing.This is beginning to give me a huge headache and I'm done and moving on.I will not be looking out for anymore comments back to me.Have happy life.
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Is that one of Emotional Intelligence?