Is flirting seen as a negative quality?? ( Archived) (223)

Mar 16, 2018 11:55 AM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
What are your thoughts on this.

I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.

What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.
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Mar 16, 2018 11:57 AM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Deedee123x: What are your thoughts on this.

I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.

What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.


Flirt away to your hearths content,
don't see why not ,, no law against it yay innocent teddybear
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Mar 16, 2018 11:59 AM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Deedee123x: What are your thoughts on this.

I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.

What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.






To be honest I don't think flirting is a quality at all...
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Mar 16, 2018 11:59 AM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
Deedee123x: What are your thoughts on this.

I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.

What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.


I see no problem with flirting. In my opinion, it's fun and harmless.

heart wings
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Mar 16, 2018 12:00 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
annaroach: Flirt away to your hearths content,
don't see why not ,, no law against it


Thats what i think.
I do think it can maybe go too far at times maybe but i genuinely dont see what the problem is really
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Mar 16, 2018 12:01 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
KremaP: To be honest I don't think flirting is a quality at all...


What do you view it as so, Kremap?
Is it not the same aa being charming...being polite...being funny etc....its just an extension of all those three i think
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Mar 16, 2018 12:01 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
KremaP: To be honest I don't think flirting is a quality at all...




Flirting online isn't much different to flirting face to face...you never know what the other one has in mind actually...no matter what they say...
It's tricky...
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Mar 16, 2018 12:01 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
In real time I've witnessed people flirt and have seen it totally backfire on them.
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Mar 16, 2018 12:02 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Deedee123x: What are your thoughts on this.

I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.

What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.


I don't see how flirting can be negative if the flirter is single and free, even not looking........... playball
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Mar 16, 2018 12:03 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
freebird10
freebird10freebird10Ottawa, Ontario Canada4 Threads 147 Posts
It depends on the situation that how the person take it with whom you are flirting ..
if that person does not have any problem then may be it will not be an issue :)
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Mar 16, 2018 12:03 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Friskyone: I see no problem with flirting. In my opinion, it's fun and harmless.


Yes i agree, Frisky.
It may get out of hand at times and take over threads, of which ive been guilty.
But i do not see it as a negative.
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Mar 16, 2018 12:05 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
KremaP: Flirting online isn't much different to flirting face to face...you never know what the other one has in mind actually...no matter what they say...
It's tricky...


Well yes i agree with that....when its online your not quite too sure how the other is viewing it...but i guess if you have got to know the person somewhat ( however well we can know each other here ) i cant see it any other way that a bit of harmless fun.
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Mar 16, 2018 12:06 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Bearwoman: In real time I've witnessed people flirt and have seen it totally backfire on them.


I rarely flirt in real life actually...but ya ive seen it backfire too and when i see it happen to others, im the one who goes red..for them.blushing
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Mar 16, 2018 12:07 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
galrads: I don't see how flirting can be negative if the flirter is single and free, even not looking...........


I agree..both consenting adults who know where each stands....= no issue.

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Mar 16, 2018 12:09 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Deedee123x: What do you view it as so, Kremap?
Is it not the same aa being charming...being polite...being funny etc....its just an extension of all those three i think





The word quality on it's own is expected to be associated with a positive meaning...
I don't see flirting with many people as a positive act, but only when one is seeking the attention of someone they are interested in......
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Mar 16, 2018 12:09 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x: What are your thoughts on this.

I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.

What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.
I think flirting for a single person is not bad , that's how we find the good person and love wine
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Mar 16, 2018 12:09 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
freebird10: It depends on the situation that how the person take it with whom you are flirting ..
if that person does not have any problem then may be it will not be an issue :)


Hi Free.

Yes once its not harming the emotions of the other and both are in agreement that its simply flirting ..its not an issue...probably uncomfortable for some to view maybe but harmless non the less
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Mar 16, 2018 12:11 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
These days I think a fair number of UK women would feel offended by a man flirting with them and call the police if he did….In the UK a man could be put in prison for approaching a woman and talking to her, so attempting to flirt could mean a life sentence in prison and the chances are he would get more prison time, than a female mass murdererblues
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Mar 16, 2018 12:11 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
Krinka
KrinkaKrinkaAtlanta, Georgia USA1 Threads 231 Posts
Deedee123x: What are your thoughts on this.

I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.

What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.


It gives an impression of not being serious, especially if done excessively with lots of people and when it "crosses the line".

If one is looking for a serious relationship - flirting openly online is not the best way to go. I think it actually reduces the chances to find someone serious. On the other hand, it increases the chances to find someone for a casual relationship.

The more "flirty" someone is, the more attention that person will attract, but it will be not the type of attention one wants if they are interested in serious relationships.

There are many ways to joke and have fun online, without being flirtatious. smile
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Mar 16, 2018 12:14 PM CST Is flirting seen as a negative quality??
freebird10
freebird10freebird10Ottawa, Ontario Canada4 Threads 147 Posts
Deedee123x: Hi Free.

Yes once its not harming the emotions of the other and both are in agreement that its simply flirting ..its not an issue...probably uncomfortable for some to view maybe but harmless non the less


hey dee :)
yes being uncomfortable from a thing or that thing is harmless .. both are different .. you are right :)
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