Is flirting seen as a negative quality?? (223)
One time I got pulled over by the police, a male and a female officer. She was pretty cute and I didnt want them to notice my tyres were bald, I did some power flirting that day. The guy was so not impressed, and my efforts did not go un noticed. Didnt get to smash it but I told all my mates how I nearly did. She probably told all the other officers much the same story I imagine.
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One2note: And I am eternally grateful for it
Likewise
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DoubleFantasy: Consciously forcing one self to hold in someone characteristics is not a good thing in my opinion - it just leads to an volcanic eruption to occur at sometime or another
Its true...you dont want to see my volcanic eruption of flirting....it wouldnt be pretty
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rainbowdream2017: Flirting online surely doesn't brake no ones virginity as computer barrier makes it safe.....olthough it might be a waist of time but if makes one laugh and enjoy self, who cares.Single person is free.
I am still a proud virgin, even if I don't take much notice if I flirt with a few comrades.
I am still a proud virgin, even if I don't take much notice if I flirt with a few comrades.
Howdy Cowgirl
Please stop it, your hurting my ribs
The best way to describe a cowboy/girl Is mud, blood, guts, and glory....
And as such I think its time we circle the wagons and smoke out these wild coyotes...
We will hit them and hit then hard
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Deedee123x: What are your thoughts on this.
I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.
What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.
I thought this was a dating site.
Is flirting not a part of that.
What makes flirting a no go area for some.?
Why is it seen as a negative.
Nothing in excess. It's pretty cold when a woman flirts 24/7 for drinks or attention knowing nobody would like her otherwise. It's bad when women coast through life as a cockteasing one-trick pony.
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Deedee123x: Exactly Rainbow.....its meant to be fun...
I dont think some people even realise that they flirt themselves at times with others....
Its all about perception and how we all view it too...some many feel one flirts and they themselves dont feel they have.
I dont think some people even realise that they flirt themselves at times with others....
Its all about perception and how we all view it too...some many feel one flirts and they themselves dont feel they have.
I am guilty on that...however its not intentionally done to hurt someone else - it never has been, is, and it never will be
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ChesneyChrist: Nothing in excess. It's pretty cold when a woman flirts 24/7 for drinks or attention knowing nobody would like her otherwise. It's bad when women coast through life as a cockteasing one-trick pony.
I agree, Chesney...its grating when some has only flirting in their arsenal and not much else...its as you said ..cold.
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DoubleFantasy: I am guilty on that...however its not intentionally done to hurt someone else - it never has been, is, and it never will be
Same here, DF.
I dont set out to hurt anyone....its all playful banter....and unless i have specifically said to you 'i want to take it further' ...then i feel thats all it should be taken as...is playful banter....but realise now some are more sensitive to it than others.
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Deedee123x: Flirting when your are single and entitled to do so is not a bad thing.
One would assume people reign it in when in a relationship and show respect to their partner.
Im not half aa flirty in real life as i am here...so no i dont think we r all 100% the same as our online realities.
I agree that some can take it to mean an intent and thats where the problems arise and people need to thread cautiously.
But for me once in a relationship im so not the type to flirt with others...i keep it for him.
One would assume people reign it in when in a relationship and show respect to their partner.
Im not half aa flirty in real life as i am here...so no i dont think we r all 100% the same as our online realities.
I agree that some can take it to mean an intent and thats where the problems arise and people need to thread cautiously.
But for me once in a relationship im so not the type to flirt with others...i keep it for him.
We often hear that people are not what they are in their "real life"...and it kind of amuses me because it's them who are online, not an animated personality, it's part of their character they are probably uncomfortable for some reason to show otherwise...
Don't take it as a personal attack Dee, you've been quite flirty to the point of getting uncomfortable for the others and honestly not in a very entertaining way...
People see flirting in a different way, yes, no need to try and justify they are wrong when you don't like what they say...
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Deedee123x: Same here, DF.
I dont set out to hurt anyone....its all playful banter....and unless i have specifically said to you 'i want to take it further' ...then i feel thats all it should be taken as...is playful banter....but realise now some are more sensitive to it than others.
I dont set out to hurt anyone....its all playful banter....and unless i have specifically said to you 'i want to take it further' ...then i feel thats all it should be taken as...is playful banter....but realise now some are more sensitive to it than others.
I would say the apposite of flirting is - Dull - there for there is a lot of room for a bit/some
Those deprived from receiving such expression - may get way too flattered - to the point of "being away with the fairies" if you get what i mean
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KremaP: We often hear that people are not what they are in their "real life"...and it kind of amuses me because it's them who are online, not an animated personality, it's part of their character they are probably uncomfortable for some reason to show otherwise...
Don't take it as a personal attack Dee, you've been quite flirty to the point of getting uncomfortable for the others and honestly not in a very entertaining way...
People see flirting in a different way, yes, no need to try and justify they are wrong when you don't like what they say...
Don't take it as a personal attack Dee, you've been quite flirty to the point of getting uncomfortable for the others and honestly not in a very entertaining way...
People see flirting in a different way, yes, no need to try and justify they are wrong when you don't like what they say...
I do feel online can be a more heightened version of the person in real life...i do flirt but not as much as i would here....be that right or wrong.
No i dont see what you wrote as a personal attack but maybe you could provide me with an example of a time where i have made you feel uncomfortable through my flirting...and do you feel it was all initiated and continued by me or was i simply forcing the other to do it....im not saying this in a smart way but rather a way of learning about my interactions here and how they r viewed.
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DoubleFantasy: I would say the apposite of flirting is - Dull - there for there is a lot of room for a bit/some
Those deprived from receiving such expression - may get way too flattered - to the point of "being away with the fairies" if you get what i mean
Those deprived from receiving such expression - may get way too flattered - to the point of "being away with the fairies" if you get what i mean
Totally get you actually haha
......that wink isnt suggestive nor flirtatious ok lol.------ This thread is Archived ------
KremaP: We often hear that people are not what they are in their "real life"...and it kind of amuses me because it's them who are online, not an animated personality, it's part of their character they are probably uncomfortable for some reason to show otherwise...
Don't take it as a personal attack Dee, you've been quite flirty to the point of getting uncomfortable for the others and honestly not in a very entertaining way...
People see flirting in a different way, yes, no need to try and justify they are wrong when you don't like what they say...
Don't take it as a personal attack Dee, you've been quite flirty to the point of getting uncomfortable for the others and honestly not in a very entertaining way...
People see flirting in a different way, yes, no need to try and justify they are wrong when you don't like what they say...
I havnt said anyone was wrong to say flirting is not nice, no more than you have said its wrong to flirt....
Maybe your picking me up wrong.
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Deedee123x: Its true...you dont want to see my volcanic eruption of flirting....it wouldnt be pretty
No string attached - its just the way I like it
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DoubleFantasy: No string attached - its just the way I like it
Me too
Im resisting the urge to flirt with you now....
Ill get back to it another day ....
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If your involved with someone already, flirting around is not appropriate. If your single, its completely up to you to do as you want to do when you want to do it and where you want to do it.
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Track16: If your involved with someone already, flirting around is not appropriate. If your single, its completely up to you to do as you want to do when you want to do it and where you want to do it.
I agree, D.
Its not right when your attached...single??.
Have at it...but would say that to be careful who you flirt with as alot it appears dont view it the way we do....not a judgment ..just obviously, from the answers on this thread, a reality.
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Track16: If your involved with someone already, flirting around is not appropriate. If your single, its completely up to you to do as you want to do when you want to do it and where you want to do it.
That's right, single means you have no obligation, responsibility or special attachment to anyone in particular to justify yourself to ...it's complitely up to individual personal choice ! 
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Deedee123x: I agree, D.
Its not right when your attached...single??.
Have at it...but would say that to be careful who you flirt with as alot it appears dont view it the way we do....not a judgment ..just obviously, from the answers on this thread, a reality.
Its not right when your attached...single??.
Have at it...but would say that to be careful who you flirt with as alot it appears dont view it the way we do....not a judgment ..just obviously, from the answers on this thread, a reality.
I wouldn't flirt around with just anyone, hell no. If you were to come along and sit on my knee on the other hand, we could flirt about the first thing that pops up
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Consciously forcing one self to hold in someone characteristics is not a good thing in my opinion - it just leads to an volcanic eruption to occur at sometime or another