What age range are you more attracted to? (26)
One2note: Personally, my preference is for women around about my age, give or take a few years, but it seems I only attract the younger version & it's beginning to bug me, as it doesn't bold well for a long & meaningful relationship.
Does anyone else have this problem?
Does anyone else have this problem?
This is a blessing, not a problem
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Bnaughty: This is a blessing, not a problem
Umm...yeah...I seem to have the same problem..or blessing.
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Bnaughty: This is a blessing, not a problem
Are all women in their late 40s, early 50s messed up, or so you think it's only the scraps left for us?
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An age that is able to keep up with me.
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Mercedes_00: An age that is able to keep up me.
....i.m here marm......
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At least 20 years older than me
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PPC18: At least 6o years older than me
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truheart1941: ....i.m here marm......
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................@Mercedes............
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One2note: Personally, my preference is for women around about my age, give or take a few years, but it seems I only attract the younger version & it's beginning to bug me, as it doesn't bold well for a long & meaningful relationship.
Does anyone else have this problem?
Does anyone else have this problem?
Well, I don't see that as a problem. True that age is just numbers, but for some people like me also prefer to meet someone around my age or even older :)
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The age (number) is not so much of an issue as the respective maturity level of partners (IMO) and their willingness to create, and 'live the relationship'
My brother in law and sister in law have a 23 years age difference (he's the older of the two) they met and dated when she was 20, had a longish engagement during which they lived together and have been married now for 37 years.
That's certainly stronger, longer and more durable than seem to be the norm nowadays where, it sometimes seems' people are just 'looking for a relationship' as 'relationship were a 'thing' ie an item that could be acquired.
In actuality a 'relationship' is a dynamic living creation between two people who have strong positive feelings toward one another and a decent level of self esteem that enables them to know the other is sincere and so to experience the mutuality.
Without a decent level of self esteem in each there's only ever going to be difficulties
He has low self esteem she tries to build him up and he can't accept her sincerity ( and vice versa )
She has low self esteem and he grows tired of (either) feeling that he's not taken seriously when he offers her a sincere compliment, or he grows tired of her negativity ... let's face it squarely, people with low esteem do tend to be negative, pessimist, destructive thinkers ... y'know how they tend to suck the life out of you even when they have the fake happy jolly face on, they're always needling someone, trying to suck them into their dramas and so on and then they wonder why they're so lonely ...
(and again, vice-versa on the genders)
My brother in law and sister in law have a 23 years age difference (he's the older of the two) they met and dated when she was 20, had a longish engagement during which they lived together and have been married now for 37 years.
That's certainly stronger, longer and more durable than seem to be the norm nowadays where, it sometimes seems' people are just 'looking for a relationship' as 'relationship were a 'thing' ie an item that could be acquired.
In actuality a 'relationship' is a dynamic living creation between two people who have strong positive feelings toward one another and a decent level of self esteem that enables them to know the other is sincere and so to experience the mutuality.
Without a decent level of self esteem in each there's only ever going to be difficulties
He has low self esteem she tries to build him up and he can't accept her sincerity ( and vice versa )
She has low self esteem and he grows tired of (either) feeling that he's not taken seriously when he offers her a sincere compliment, or he grows tired of her negativity ... let's face it squarely, people with low esteem do tend to be negative, pessimist, destructive thinkers ... y'know how they tend to suck the life out of you even when they have the fake happy jolly face on, they're always needling someone, trying to suck them into their dramas and so on and then they wonder why they're so lonely ...
(and again, vice-versa on the genders)
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I see (from your new headline pic) that the steroid treatment appears to have worked!
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Say, mid 30's to early 50's maybe. Its hard to say really.
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One2note: Personally, my preference is for women around about my age, give or take a few years, but it seems I only attract the younger version & it's beginning to bug me, as it doesn't bold well for a long & meaningful relationship.
Does anyone else have this problem?
Does anyone else have this problem?
I like men my age. Not younger and certainly not older, jeezus gawd I am already older than dirt so there you go!
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One2note: Personally, my preference is for women around about my age, give or take a few years, but it seems I only attract the younger version & it's beginning to bug me, as it doesn't bold well for a long & meaningful relationship.
Does anyone else have this problem?
I read anymore than 7 yrs difference is too much. For me, 4 yrs difference is the limit. Does anyone else have this problem?
I would probably call a cop on myself
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I feel so silly liking the pretty ones when I was younger - its a "red herring" for sure.
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CossackCat: I read anymore than 7 yrs difference is too much. For me, 4 yrs difference is the limit.
I would probably call a cop on myself
I would probably call a cop on myself
There's a " formula " that comes up from time to time 'Half the age of the older partner plus 7'
You're 58 so ...
(58 / 2) +7 = 36 lower age
102 = upper age limit ( 102 / 2) + 7 = 58
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I'm attracted to personally not interested in what they look like at all.
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Mercedes_00: I'm attracted to personally not interested in what they look like at all.
yes .. it is more important that what is inside not what is outside :)
A good heart is a charm always .. :)
i am attracted to older women than me :)
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Does anyone else have this problem?