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To say "can you show me the injury" implies that you don't think emotional state has any bearing on psychological well being. And to say "we need to take responsibility for our reactions " implies a level of self control over a part of ourselves where consciousness doesn't always have much influence.
I agree, it probably is within most people's power to exert some control over how sensitive they allow themselves to be in the face of insult or criticism, but, in extremes, it's not always possible to hang onto the control and telling someone who feels deeply hurt that they have no justification for feeling offended doesn't seem very helpful to me.
I would also challenge your apparent assumption that revenge isn't therapeutic.
Always thought revenge was a waste of energy, getting even feels worthwhile though