Do you take it on board in a positive way to improve yourself, or do you take offence by it. I've had my fair share of it, sometimes in a negative way, but sometimes I take constructive criticism to better myself, although I don't think there's much room for improvement, as far as I'm concerned. But I'm open to offers !
One2note: Do you take it on board in a positive way to improve yourself, or do you take offence by it. I've had my fair share of it, sometimes in a negative way, but sometimes I take constructive criticism to better myself, although I don't think there's much room for improvement, as far as I'm concerned. But I'm open to offers !
I'm willing to take one for the team, if it means improving my self image!
There are very few people who are sufficiently objective and 'secure about self' to be able to offer a fair and constructive criticism.
IN THE MAIN if you pay attention to such 'faults' as they would point out and have you improve, you'll notice (quite by chance) that they are referring to their very own weaknesses !
But, every once in a while someone close to us who's wisdom we can appreicate will kindly (or otherwise) draw attention ... and though it might sting a little, if we focus on the content and not the sting, we might learn something useful that we can apply!
I don't ask people I mean I eat healthy I workout I can't help the way I look that's on my parents.
I'm able to choose friends but wasn't able to choose family genes.
I use to clam up when guys were trying to get to know me I took advice from a gal pal who said come on shine when I guy wants to get to know you as you shine with us.
So for the first time I took their advice was an open book with everything that didn't bloody work so have decided to go back to being a clam.
One other thing when I'm being honest in regard to criticising myself I'm not putting myself down nobody on this earth can criticise me more than I criticise myself.
I ooze confidence with anything I put my mind too have been complimented many times on the way I walk the way my I engage in a conversation face to face many many times.
But I have zero confidence in regard to guys trying to get to know them on another level I feel I'm not seductive enough I don't have that bling I feel that's what guy's want I probably have it in me if I knew him well enough but I would rather die than to embarrass myself.
I'm not putting myself down I'm just being very honest like I said I'm my biggest critic nobody can criticise me more than I already do.
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I've had my fair share of it, sometimes in a negative way, but sometimes I take constructive criticism to better myself, although I don't think there's much room for improvement, as far as I'm concerned.
But I'm open to offers !