I love you, but...... ( Archived) (28)

Apr 6, 2018 10:22 PM CST I love you, but......
I love you very much, but I know you're not alone. I will always pray for your happiness, because if you happy, I will be very happy. Let me love you on my way, because I just want to see you happy.
Please keep in mind, whenever you need support or feel unsuccessful with your relationship, I will always be there for you.

So sweet and deep message.......
Is he really love you
Obsessed about you
or
Cant move on?

Should we happy?
or feel sad / bad about him?

confused
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Apr 6, 2018 10:26 PM CST I love you, but......
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
He's into you he's not obsessed with you there's a huge difference and sometimes there are situations where you have to cut ties so he can move on and heal.
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Apr 6, 2018 10:35 PM CST I love you, but......
Mercedes_00: He's into you he's not obsessed with you there's a huge difference and sometimes there are situations where you have to cut ties so he can move on and heal.


Yes, he is very nice. He deserve sincere love n happiness.
Cut ties? confused
how to help him?
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Apr 6, 2018 10:39 PM CST I love you, but......
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
heavensmile: Yes, he is very nice. He deserve sincere love n happiness.
Cut ties?
how to help him?


Whilst he's into you there is no way you can help him as all your doing is giving him hope.

Some guys/woman can accept just being friends then there are some you have to cut ties
with that's the kindest thing you can do for his sake.
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Apr 6, 2018 11:14 PM CST I love you, but......
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Mercedes_00: Whilst he's into you there is no way you can help him as all your doing is giving him hope.

Some guys/woman can accept just being friends then there are some you have to cut ties
with that's the kindest thing you can do for his sake.
thumbs up Sad but very true ...Some people can not let go of hope that one day they might get their chance if something happen.... and it's painful to watch them waisting their life on hope ...
"Be cruel to be kind" to cut ties is mercifully noble act.
crying
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Apr 7, 2018 12:24 AM CST I love you, but......
rainbowdream2017: Sad but very true ...Some people can not let go of hope that one day they might get their chance if something happen.... and it's painful to watch them waisting their life on hope ...
"Be cruel to be kind" to cut ties is mercifully noble act.


We are in dilema what to do, give attention just like we give hope. Not respond.....he not worth to get it.
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Apr 7, 2018 2:23 AM CST I love you, but......
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
I'm not sure who is in a relationship with whom, or what the nature of the relationships are from this message you cite Heavensmile.

However, each one of us can only live our own lives. We can only allow others the space to pursue their own lives, we cannot live their lives for them.

This message appears to be half allowing space and half interfering with someone else's chosen path. It's perhaps not quite as selfless as it's trying to appear.

It is difficult to respond to. It is perhaps emotionally manipulative, leaving someone feeling guilty if they pursue their own path. Maybe no response would be for the best, at least for the time being.
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Apr 7, 2018 2:25 AM CST I love you, but......
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
I'm not sure who is in a relationship with whom, or what the nature of the relationships are from this message you cite Heavensmile.

However, each one of us can only live our own lives. We can only allow others the space to pursue their own lives, we cannot live their lives for them.

This message appears to be half allowing space and half interfering with someone else's chosen path. It's perhaps not quite as selfless as it's trying to appear.

It is difficult to respond to. It is perhaps emotionally manipulative, leaving someone feeling guilty if they pursue their own path. Maybe no response would be for the best, at least for the time being.

Maybe allow some time for everyone to find their own paths.
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Apr 7, 2018 3:06 AM CST I love you, but......
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
I get the impression your enjoying the attention you claim to not want I mean you don't have to be Einstein to figure it all out.
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Apr 7, 2018 3:09 AM CST I love you, but......
heavensmile: I love you very much, but I know you're not alone. I will always pray for your happiness, because if you happy, I will be very happy. Let me love you on my way, because I just want to see you happy.
Please keep in mind, whenever you need support or feel unsuccessful with your relationship, I will always be there for you.

So sweet and deep message.......
Is he really love you
Obsessed about you
or
Cant move on?

Should we happy?
or feel sad / bad about him?
Nice Poem smile , Thank you for sharing wine grin

Well , let him love someone else , and you find an other guy , Story End , there isn't shortage of Good guys in the world , cheers bouquet
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Apr 7, 2018 3:18 AM CST I love you, but......
jac_the_gripper: I'm not sure who is in a relationship with whom, or what the nature of the relationships are from this message you cite Heavensmile.

However, each one of us can only live our own lives. We can only allow others the space to pursue their own lives, we cannot live their lives for them.

This message appears to be half allowing space and half interfering with someone else's chosen path. It's perhaps not quite as selfless as it's trying to appear.

It is difficult to respond to. It is perhaps emotionally manipulative, leaving someone feeling guilty if they pursue their own path. Maybe no response would be for the best, at least for the time being.
Smile Likes him and he likes someone else ,Smile Knows that , thats the stiory , Now Advice her ..grin laugh

Hi Jacwave
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Apr 7, 2018 4:20 AM CST I love you, but......
ali110: Smile Likes him and he likes someone else ,Smile Knows that , thats the stiory , Now Advice her ..

Hi Jac


Not at all like that Ali. Its just like there is someone love you soo much, but you tell her that you have gf. Then she send you that message.
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Apr 7, 2018 6:36 AM CST I love you, but......
ali110: Smile Likes him and he likes someone else ,Smile Knows that , thats the stiory , Now Advice her ..

Hi Jac

What do you mean ali? who I like? what story? I not understand what do you mean.
Please read the tread then comment.
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Apr 7, 2018 6:41 AM CST I love you, but......
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
heavensmile: Yes, he is very nice. He deserve sincere love n happiness.
Cut ties?
how to help him?


Give him space.
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Apr 7, 2018 11:39 PM CST I love you, but......
Rachie14: Give him space.

true...hope time reward him with happines in other way
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Apr 8, 2018 12:45 AM CST I love you, but......
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
ali110: Nice Poem smile , Thank you for sharing

Well , let him love someone else , and you find an other guy , Story End , there isn't shortage of Good guys in the world ,
thumbs up No there isn't shortage of good guy's....but what we see or don't see - makes big difference. laugh
wine
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Apr 8, 2018 12:50 AM CST I love you, but......
heavensmile: I love you very much, but I know you're not alone. I will always pray for your happiness, because if you happy, I will be very happy. Let me love you on my way, because I just want to see you happy.
Please keep in mind, whenever you need support or feel unsuccessful with your relationship, I will always be there for you.

So sweet and deep message.......
Is he really love you
Obsessed about you
or
Cant move on?

Should we happy?
or feel sad / bad about him?


For both of your sake, you probably should gently cut ties with him. He is not likely going to settle for just a friendship and this may end up being a distraction to you that you don't need. As long as you talk to him, he will always have that hope which will keep him going.
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Apr 8, 2018 4:01 PM CST I love you, but......
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Is that the same guy you have written about before? The one that is in a relationship with another girl?

Is this how you would like to be treated from your boyfriend? Is this the type of guy you would want to share you life with?

It doesn't sound sweet to me but then I don't encourage any messages from my ex. There is a reason why someone is an ex and I cut all ties and block all contact. Especially if someone else is involved.
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Apr 8, 2018 5:50 PM CST I love you, but......
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
heavensmile: I love you very much, but I know you're not alone. I will always pray for your happiness, because if you happy, I will be very happy. Let me love you on my way, because I just want to see you happy.
Please keep in mind, whenever you need support or feel unsuccessful with your relationship, I will always be there for you.

So sweet and deep message.......
Is he really love you
Obsessed about you
or
Cant move on?

Should we happy?
or feel sad / bad about him?


You seem like a really sweet and kind girl , Heavensmile...you shouldnt waste your time on anything less than perfect for you.

This guy youve posted threads about a few times and while i stook up for him before i think he just wants his cake and eat it.

The more u cling on the more it will eat away at you and be harder to move on.

Sorry if thats harsh....but you can only look out for your own heart and protect it.

hug
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Apr 8, 2018 6:10 PM CST I love you, but......
Saorstat
SaorstatSaorstatLongford, Ireland4 Threads 328 Posts
heavensmile: I love you very much, but I know you're not alone. I will always pray for your happiness, because if you happy, I will be very happy. Let me love you on my way, because I just want to see you happy.
Please keep in mind, whenever you need support or feel unsuccessful with your relationship, I will always be there for you.

So sweet and deep message.......
Is he really love you
Obsessed about you
or
Cant move on?

Should we happy?
or feel sad / bad about him?


Oh dear...
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