Alpha Male / Female ( Archived) (119)

Apr 7, 2018 8:38 PM CST Alpha Male / Female
Lookin4missright: I don't wanna woo i wanna woot


Oh, dear gawd! Are you taking love advice from Lesscharmflakes??????? I've lost all respect for you! Oh wait a minute....you lost my respect last night...when you wouldn't let me IN!!! snowed in
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Apr 7, 2018 11:38 PM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
rainbowdream2017: In my humble view, I think most of the time than not, "Alpha female or Alpha male" on CS refers to those who think they are in charge and they are in needs of close allies and many fresh new members to be on their side, they are creative superficial heros who think that the world must revolve around them. Actually deep down this characters are very scared of competition that they desperately want to beat down to stay on self- imaginary top position, and this level of insecurity and vulnerability is most probably bigger than we think, which actually doesn't make them Alpha female or Alpha males !
The Alpha is most often over standard deviation.

I remember when I just joined CS forum, I declared war on Alpha cliques, so I don't know if I am on the opposite end of " deviation" Since than I discovered many of this people are likable in their own way and maybe there's some fault in me too ...
but for a few particularly malicious type, I never change my mind.
It's good to find our own enterntainment and ignore the rest.
Good subject.


Talking of ignore, I ignore about 98%
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Apr 8, 2018 12:08 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
rainbowdream2017: We don't have to always necessery agree 100% on everything but I like you to know that I admire how you stand up for yourself.


Rainbow, I really have a very solid backbone, that only bends for my kids and animals.

I have very high values and standards, which most others don't even consider.

Yes, I stand up for myself because I have no-one to lean on, but myself.
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Apr 8, 2018 12:59 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
My medical issues makes being an alpha practically impossible.
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Apr 8, 2018 1:09 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
rainbowdream2017: I also have no one to lean on, and that makes us strong women !
When we get in maturity of age,thought still " young"
a very high values and standards could lead to being very comfortable with a single life, too picky ...and as much is great to be with a very high values and standards, I think, realising that not any of us is perfect, may give us balance of humbled nature that is all about "give & take " in relation to self and others human imperfections.


My point is:-
We r who and what we r from genes, upbringing, culture and wealth. It forms us into strong or weak people that care or don't, that's violent or peacefull, who r us.
U get to make ur choices in life, some good others bad. The balance we carry as baggage with us always.
Do u want peace or violence and heart break.
I made my choice about thirty years ago:-
No more violence, period, even if I'm alone for the rest of my life.
A single mother with no support !
I don't want sympathy or empathy, learn from my mistakes, and don't repeat them !
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Apr 8, 2018 1:36 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Lupinum
LupinumLupinumCavan, Ireland6 Posts
crazyblondeone: I don't even know what they are. So I guess I am not one, or have I seen one, are they like leprechauns? Only certain people can see them?


Without being political.

Donald Trump likes to think he's one.. in fact he could well have been at one stage in his lift time... now he is living off his ego and demanding respect.

Barack Obama is one.

Opera Winfrey is one

Like all alphas in the animal kingdom, when the loose their respect and power, (not that power is a good word) ... they bare their teeth, they fight and try to force people to continue to follow them... see example No1
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Apr 8, 2018 1:39 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Oh, they exist all right.

I'm no alpha female....nor aspire to be.

I'm a loner by nature.

Travel my own path.... yakka yakka.

....but I'm attracted to alpha males.

Go figure....


Phil I think his name is, on the blogs from NZ.
Do u consider him an alpha male ?
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Apr 8, 2018 1:43 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Lupinum: Without being political.

Donald Trump likes to think he's one.. in fact he could well have been at one stage in his lift time... now he is living off his ego and demanding respect.

Barack Obama is one.

Opera Winfrey is one

Like all alphas in the animal kingdom, when the loose their respect and power, (not that power is a good word) ... they bare their teeth, they fight and try to force people to continue to follow them... see example No1


Well I disagree.
Only Trump is one. He stands firm, while the others follow the road of least resistance.
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Apr 8, 2018 1:53 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
noeleena
noeleenanoeleenawaimate, Canterbury New Zealand2 Threads 251 Posts
Hi,

There is another way of looking at a woman

Try this .

She is strong = body wise,, can work hard out and pace any man.
she can be tough ,= don't mess with me I,ll take you down.
she has to look after her kids, = give birth and feed them own milk.and all the other details that go with that .all body strength
she finds the strength to be a lover ,= can she pace the man and keep up with him.
or is she in control.
she has the strength of mind and body . = having to cope with all the details of home food children and her mate. who runs the ship you,ll know by now .

Who is going to be there for her ...WHEN...she not allways crys out for help many time she will carry on till she drops, is the guy there for her =.....we have our surport in other women .

What man = alpha man will step in and carry her when she needs it most or is the alpha man to ashamed to be seen bending so low to pick her up.

Alpha man where are you in real life stop playing your little game and get real.or should that be grow up.

...noeleena...
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Apr 8, 2018 1:53 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
LincolnsCousin
LincolnsCousinLincolnsCousinBenton, Illinois USA1 Threads 1 Polls 1 Posts
A friend and I tried to create an online magazine called Alpha Magazine. I have an idea of how to post women clothed and in a way opposite to Playboy so the reader so of begins to "know" the girls which cause a measure of care as a person.

The desired result was intelligent and beautiful women meeting their rich men before the men are old and ready to die. For instance if the guy is in medical school with a good grade point average he has potential. It is similar for an engineering student who could need the income of a woman who is intelligent too. Sometimes there are employment gaps in engineering and in my case after showing a resume full of secret (or bonded for banks) work just for a boring temporary job converting law books into a real estate course, the employer said "You've been out of work a year! You could have been in jail". I had not bothered to get references for always making friends and moving on gets old.

Anyway, the magazine failed because not one girl joined for free. Alpha Airheads.
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Apr 8, 2018 2:07 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
noeleena: Hi,

There is another way of looking at a woman

Try this .

She is strong = body wise,, can work hard out and pace any man.
she can be tough ,= don't mess with me I,ll take you down.
she has to look after her kids, = give birth and feed them own milk.and all the other details that go with that .all body strength
she finds the strength to be a lover ,= can she pace the man and keep up with him.
or is she in control.
she has the strength of mind and body . = having to cope with all the details of home food children and her mate. who runs the ship you,ll know by now .

Who is going to be there for her ...WHEN...she not allways crys out for help many time she will carry on till she drops, is the guy there for her =.....we have our surport in other women .

What man = alpha man will step in and carry her when she needs it most or is the alpha man to ashamed to be seen bending so low to pick her up.

Alpha man where are you in real life stop playing your little game and get real.or should that be grow up.

...noeleena...


Hi there.
Haven't seen u in a very long time.
I totally agree with u.
U must come on my threads more often ?
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Apr 8, 2018 2:17 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
people who are alpha....see the world as their oyster, using people to benifit their own needs.....and wants. after gaining what they want.....throw you away....like a used plastic bottle.....jmo.......scum.
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Apr 8, 2018 2:42 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
truheart1941: people who are alpha....see the world as their oyster, using people to benifit their own needs.....and wants. after gaining what they want.....throw you away....like a used plastic bottle.....jmo.......scum.


Tru. These people r unfeeling, uncaring, self inflating, etc ....... I can't even call them people, and they're called alpha.
I'll be Omega, and much better than any of them.
The world is going down the tubes !
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Apr 8, 2018 3:40 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
BerrySmoothie: I have no idea Snooks.

I believe he has recently morphed into a Croation with poor English skills....

The less said, the better, me thinks...
laugh The Alpha and Omega of my argument is question of justice, nothing else, while people who like to use malicious personal attacks are just stupid bullies.
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Apr 8, 2018 3:44 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
rainbowdream2017: The Alpha and Omega of my argument is question of justice, nothing else, while people who like to use malicious personal attacks are just stupid bullies.


Bullies r needed in this world for us to reach above our capabilities, and do the undo-able.

Don't u do much better, when u r making a point ?
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Apr 8, 2018 3:53 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
rainbowdream2017: Bullies personal attacks suppose to be motivational and inspirational ?
I like your optimism.


I'm not saying it always works, but
If something bad happens, like a Bullie, like this Phil, really downs u
U just turn it around.
Then the problem is his not urs !
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Apr 8, 2018 4:30 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
rainbowdream2017: At my line of work the key philosophy is " Don't take anything personal " than modifying behaviour with positive reinforcement...which is also helpful to use in private life with people who matters to us.
I presume online bullies who's coming with personal attacks should not be treated as " normal people" and there's nothing for us to modify what's already too fare demaged, as well we need to know our limitations that we are not qualifyed Psychiatrist to deal with other people issues , nor payed for that so I just accept stupid idiots as they are and moving on...


Rainbow, if everyone was not different from the next, the world would be very boring indeed.
I do know some psychology, which helps. I also sense other people's feelings, which is also very usefull (like vibes). It's nothing to be afraid of.

Life is one big puzzle. Some pieces fit in more than one place, and can then be moved.

I had a date last night with an ex work guy, but I cancelled a week ago, and he said if I change my mind I can call his till 5pm yesterday. I did not call. It was the opera and a meal. This guy actually tells u the price of the stuff he buys u, very gross indeed. Then I guess u must bow to him and thank him profusely, and heavens knows what else. Safer not going.
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Apr 8, 2018 5:06 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Tell me about ur work, it sounds very interesting ?

I'm just a computer programmer.
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Apr 8, 2018 5:42 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
rainbowdream2017: Proffesional in dealing with rainbow of disabilities, including mental, with behaviour issues ... Regardless that this makes me laugh, considering that previously we spoken of bullies I am serious.


I did some Radiography right after school, at a training hospital. I wanted to study Microbiology, but only got to it about 15 years ago, by which time, the interest had faded drastically. I wanted to splice genes, and do cloning. Did some Psychology & Philosophy.

Then also some non-medical stuff.
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Apr 8, 2018 6:02 AM CST Alpha Male / Female
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
bigjb62: You nailed it.
cheers I agree.
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