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Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Postsstudecar: So long as the Republicans have the attitude of , "It's our way , or no way", nothing will change. They used to be interested in settling problems by negotiating , now - no way. studecar
Are you playing word association? 
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Rachie14: Are you playing word association?
Some will never understand, what we're talking about. Mind u it's a regular occurrence in my life.------ This thread is Locked ------
jono7: while i agree that may be true for some men, i don't believe that is true for all men.
sometimes, both partners are willing to compromise, in service of the Us.
Send me a real one ?sometimes, both partners are willing to compromise, in service of the Us.
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Rachie14: That isn't what was meant. The emotional baggage you carry from your previous relationship is what is meant.
The defence, the control that it controls you still to the degree that any man who dare breathes in your direction puts you on edge.
You haven't dealt with it and that would be unreasonable to take forward. Because you are looking for a slighest reason to think they are all like your ex.
Snooks find a way love.
You are correct in your diagnosis and I told her the very same thing, but guess what? Because I am a virgo and her exe is a virgo...we are the same and so are all the other men in the universe? Yes she thinks everyone of us is badThe defence, the control that it controls you still to the degree that any man who dare breathes in your direction puts you on edge.
You haven't dealt with it and that would be unreasonable to take forward. Because you are looking for a slighest reason to think they are all like your ex.
Snooks find a way love.
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A relationship should never be about power...that shouldn't enter into the picture...it should be about two people walking side by side in a partnership and doing whatever it takes to overcome obstacles together and just loving each other along the way...its no longer me and you...its us and its love...trust...trustworthiness....commitment....compassion and understanding....
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LeeCharming: You are correct in your diagnosis and I told her the very same thing, but guess what? Because I am a virgo and her exe is a virgo...we are the same and so are all the other men in the universe? Yes she thinks everyone of us is bad
Leecharming sometimes it can take someone man or woman to get over a bad experience.------ This thread is Locked ------
Bearwoman: Leecharming sometimes it can take someone man or woman to get over a bad experience.
For people where the man is forgotten, u can get over it easily. But thru my kids I still have contact and hear everything of what's happening in his life, and they can say whatever they like, I do not stop them from being themselves.------ This thread is Locked ------
M4_Mischief: A relationship should never be about power...that shouldn't enter into the picture...it should be about two people walking side by side in a partnership and doing whatever it takes to overcome obstacles together and just loving each other along the way...its no longer me and you...its us and its love...trust...trustworthiness....commitment....compassion and understanding....
TRUE 
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LeeCharming: According to her she has been single for 20 years and she is still carrying all these bad feelings
How much longer should she wait, before she gets the counselling and therapy that she needs...to get on with her life into order, move forward, approach the future with positivity and optimism? another 20 years or will she continue to live as the victim for the rest of her life? She only hurts herself living in denial and it's very unhealthy of her to label all men as the same and lash out ever chance she gets
LeeCharming Maybe you yourself may need some counseling and therapy to get over whatever a woman or women did to you.How much longer should she wait, before she gets the counselling and therapy that she needs...to get on with her life into order, move forward, approach the future with positivity and optimism? another 20 years or will she continue to live as the victim for the rest of her life? She only hurts herself living in denial and it's very unhealthy of her to label all men as the same and lash out ever chance she gets
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Rachie14: Your behaviour and words tell a different story. He does affect you. That you know he's having a life and you are stuck love.
Ignore any attempts to manipulate you. Now that is power, that is taking back control and that is moving forward.
I don't know where u feel u got the right from to say the above to me. His life is his, I'm not really interested, except in how it affect my kids.Ignore any attempts to manipulate you. Now that is power, that is taking back control and that is moving forward.
Somewhere ur perception, made a massive u-turn.
Ur r not maybe seeing someone else'es life, as it's not mine.
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Rachie14: I haven't changed a thing I have said to you. Throughout this thread. I have even said some guys don't help with how you feel.
I have explained to you on more than once why men react in a way to you. I have seen you actually accuse one guy of being violent when what he was conveying was he knows what it's like to be abused by a woman. It doesn't just happen to women. It happens to men too.
I am not taking a pop Snook I am telling you what I think and observed. I also have explained to you how it changes a conversation when people just attack and defend. It isn't just the guys either. Instead of talking. But there are only so high people can climb with others walls.
It's very difficult to have an open conversation when it's hard to reach a person due to those walls. Trust me I know I had major walls at one point.
I can't make you feel differently. Only you can. I can't make you want more from life. But I can hope for you.
I studied psychology, and u think u know everything about everything.I have explained to you on more than once why men react in a way to you. I have seen you actually accuse one guy of being violent when what he was conveying was he knows what it's like to be abused by a woman. It doesn't just happen to women. It happens to men too.
I am not taking a pop Snook I am telling you what I think and observed. I also have explained to you how it changes a conversation when people just attack and defend. It isn't just the guys either. Instead of talking. But there are only so high people can climb with others walls.
It's very difficult to have an open conversation when it's hard to reach a person due to those walls. Trust me I know I had major walls at one point.
I can't make you feel differently. Only you can. I can't make you want more from life. But I can hope for you.
U have no right to speak to me like this, I don't know where u feel u get the right from, more like an invasion of privacy, with ideas construed out of thin air.
U know what I have written here, sometimes, as a joke, and interpret it per I don't know what. Do Not compare my life to urs, or anyone else'es. I am different personality wise to u, very different. U r just ur general nosy person, sticking their nose into others business and thinking they know all the answers, which u obviously don't.
U had a chance to explain urself, which u haven't. So keep ur nose out of my business, which u know nothing of ? Thanx !
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Rachie14: I haven't changed a thing I have said to you. Throughout this thread. I have even said some guys don't help with how you feel.
I have explained to you on more than once why men react in a way to you. I have seen you actually accuse one guy of being violent when what he was conveying was he knows what it's like to be abused by a woman. It doesn't just happen to women. It happens to men too.
I am not taking a pop Snook I am telling you what I think and observed. I also have explained to you how it changes a conversation when people just attack and defend. It isn't just the guys either. Instead of talking. But there are only so high people can climb with others walls.
It's very difficult to have an open conversation when it's hard to reach a person due to those walls. Trust me I know I had major walls at one point.
I can't make you feel differently. Only you can. I can't make you want more from life. But I can hope for you.
Oh that's really touching heartI have explained to you on more than once why men react in a way to you. I have seen you actually accuse one guy of being violent when what he was conveying was he knows what it's like to be abused by a woman. It doesn't just happen to women. It happens to men too.
I am not taking a pop Snook I am telling you what I think and observed. I also have explained to you how it changes a conversation when people just attack and defend. It isn't just the guys either. Instead of talking. But there are only so high people can climb with others walls.
It's very difficult to have an open conversation when it's hard to reach a person due to those walls. Trust me I know I had major walls at one point.
I can't make you feel differently. Only you can. I can't make you want more from life. But I can hope for you.
A sensitive lady like you deserve to be a wife
But!
understanding people's feelings not easy now, but I would like to say the Hurt from her ex is not that easy and someone like her need real sopportive people around her you were talking about manipulative ex man who had children with her
Someone like her is emotionally abused enough
And the thing could causing a lot of changes in her Psychological nervous strength
She just can't erase this from her mind that easy way we might think
But absolutely she needs to be free from the past
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Rachie14: Then I suggest you read through this thread. Because since yesterday. Since Lee joined in this thread you had a very different perception.
You are responding from a defensive emotional view point.
If it was just me that believed what I have said. I would accept it. But it isn't.
There are people on this thread that have tried to talk to you and tried to help you understand. I was one of those people. No more Snook.
Like I said, I cannot make you do anything. Including misreading people and their intent.
If you look back at her posting history, then you will see the number of threads she has, brought her personal drama into and made it all about her...self pity, denial and misandry are not selling points on a dating site and she does seem to have some massive issues with how she looks at men, so any man who has read her posts would be running for the hills and never looking back...she is a ticking time bomb and she will end up destroying herself with her negative lifestyle and constant self pityYou are responding from a defensive emotional view point.
If it was just me that believed what I have said. I would accept it. But it isn't.
There are people on this thread that have tried to talk to you and tried to help you understand. I was one of those people. No more Snook.
Like I said, I cannot make you do anything. Including misreading people and their intent.
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LeeCharming: If you look back at her posting history, then you will see the number of threads she has, brought her personal drama into and made it all about her...self pity, denial and misandry are not selling points on a dating site and she does seem to have some massive issues with how she looks at men, so any man who has read her posts would be running for the hills and never looking back...she is a ticking time bomb and she will end up destroying herself with her negative lifestyle and constant self pity
I was waiting for u !!!Poor thing !
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LeeCharming: If you look back at her posting history, then you will see the number of threads she has, brought her personal drama into and made it all about her...self pity, denial and misandry are not selling points on a dating site and she does seem to have some massive issues with how she looks at men, so any man who has read her posts would be running for the hills and never looking back...she is a ticking time bomb and she will end up destroying herself with her negative lifestyle and constant self pity
I am not going to look back Lee. I have addressed what I feel and think from what I have seen. I have nothing more to say to be fair. However, I appreciate the reply.
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Rachie14: I am not going to look back Lee. I have addressed what I feel and think from what I have seen.
I have nothing more to say to be fair. However, I appreciate the reply.
I nominate:-I have nothing more to say to be fair. However, I appreciate the reply.
Lee and Richie
Couple of the day. May u be happy ever after !!!
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Rachie14: I am not going to look back Lee. I have addressed what I feel and think from what I have seen.
I have nothing more to say to be fair. However, I appreciate the reply.
It was very kind of you to try to help another, see the error of their ways, but some refuse to be reached and nothing can be done to help themI have nothing more to say to be fair. However, I appreciate the reply.
You seem to have a very good heart and a fair perception of the world
Welcome to CS and hope you stay for a long time
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