daearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand1,542 posts
Darkness71: Do you use sarcasm? Tell a joke? Get personal? Flirt?
I just say " Hi how are you going. My names ........... and I'm interested to learn more about you. Like what sort of music or activities are you into ? " and then wait to see if they reply. If I'm not interested I normally reply with a thanks but I'm not interested. I think it's curtious too.
Darkness71: Do you use sarcasm? Tell a joke? Get personal? Flirt?
People make their own assumptions before a word is said. If there is no initial attraction, then you won't get a reply, unless it's a polite, "no but thanks anyway " Just a simple "hi how are you" could start the ball rolling!
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