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May 7, 2018 7:32 AM CST Am I ok?
Cwizzy65
Cwizzy65Cwizzy65Langley, British Columbia Canada2 Threads 28 Posts
Here I am three years into being on my own and still loving it. I have met many guys but yet I am still not ready to get into another relationship. I am worried that maybe there is something wrong with me? Or was it that my past relationships have finally taken a toll on me and I have decided to be ME :) Thoughts?
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May 7, 2018 7:39 AM CST Am I ok?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Cwizzy65: Here I am three years into being on my own and still loving it. I have met many guys but yet I am still not ready to get into another relationship. I am worried that maybe there is something wrong with me? Or was it that my past relationships have finally taken a toll on me and I have decided to be ME :) Thoughts?
My last relationship ended twelve years ago.
Some of us have had much more me time and is staying that way. It's not bothering me either. I make friends.
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May 7, 2018 7:43 AM CST Am I ok?
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Cwizzy65: Here I am three years into being on my own and still loving it. I have met many guys but yet I am still not ready to get into another relationship. I am worried that maybe there is something wrong with me? Or was it that my past relationships have finally taken a toll on me and I have decided to be ME :) Thoughts?
Maybe your past relationship effected you. dunno
Did you ever seek canceling ?

Perhaps the right person didn't come yet ? dunno
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May 7, 2018 7:47 AM CST Am I ok?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Cwizzy65: Here I am three years into being on my own and still loving it. I have met many guys but yet I am still not ready to get into another relationship. I am worried that maybe there is something wrong with me? Or was it that my past relationships have finally taken a toll on me and I have decided to be ME :) Thoughts?
Interesting, when did you stop being ‘me’ in your relationships?
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May 7, 2018 7:56 AM CST Am I ok?
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
galrads: Interesting, when did you stop being ‘me’ in your relationships?
Maybe when "I" replace "we" ? laugh
Have you always preserved " I" as bastilion in your relationship ? laugh
wine
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May 7, 2018 8:33 AM CST Am I ok?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Cwizzy65: Here I am three years into being on my own and still loving it. I have met many guys but yet I am still not ready to get into another relationship. I am worried that maybe there is something wrong with me? Or was it that my past relationships have finally taken a toll on me and I have decided to be ME :) Thoughts?
Why wasn't you "me" in your relationships?
Did you try to be something else to fit into someone's expectations?
I've always wondered why people blame the "relationship" , make it sound like they haven't participated in it at all...

dunno
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May 7, 2018 8:44 AM CST Am I ok?
pKrema: Why wasn't you "me" in your relationships?
Did you try to be something else to fit into someone's expectations?
I've always wondered why people blame the "relationship" , make it sound like they haven't participated in it at all...
hi K....fancy a chest rub.....laugh laugh dunno innocent
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May 7, 2018 8:49 AM CST Am I ok?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
truheart1941: hi K....fancy a chest rub.....
I don't have fleas, but thank you grin
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May 7, 2018 11:51 AM CST Am I ok?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Nothing wrong....your just at a place where many people fail to reach and thats happiness with themselves.

Enjoy it and feel no guilt or judgement....there are plenty here who will do that for you and to you!! thumbs up
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May 7, 2018 12:00 PM CST Am I ok?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Deedee123x: Nothing wrong....your just at a place where many people fail to reach and thats happiness with themselves.

Enjoy it and feel no guilt or judgement....there are plenty here who will do that for you and to you!!
Awww D-r Dee,
don't you realise that we are just trying to see the whole picture...?!
Giving advises blindly is even more harmful than poor judgment...
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May 7, 2018 12:04 PM CST Am I ok?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
pKrema: Awww D-r Dee,
don't you realise that we are just trying to see the whole picture...?!
Giving advises blindly is even more harmful than poor judgment...
Have u taken what i answered Cwissy personally kremp?
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May 7, 2018 12:05 PM CST Am I ok?
Darkness71
Darkness71Darkness71Mijas costa, Andalusia Spain1 Threads 11 Posts
Cwizzy65: Here I am three years into being on my own and still loving it. I have met many guys but yet I am still not ready to get into another relationship. I am worried that maybe there is something wrong with me? Or was it that my past relationships have finally taken a toll on me and I have decided to be ME :) Thoughts?
Maybe we get used to being on our own and enjoy it?
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May 7, 2018 12:27 PM CST Am I ok?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Deedee123x: Have u taken what i answered Cwissy personally kremp?
No, I haven't, but your "warnings" to newcomers are hilarious...
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May 7, 2018 12:30 PM CST Am I ok?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
pKrema: No, I haven't, but your "warnings" to newcomers are hilarious...
Cwissy isnt a newcomer.
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May 7, 2018 12:40 PM CST Am I ok?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Deedee123x: Cwissy isnt a newcomer.
Telling a 66 year old woman what to expect from people on an international forum(if she isn't a newcomer) and talking to her like an adolescent is hilarious...
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May 7, 2018 12:43 PM CST Am I ok?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Deedee123x: Cwissy isnt a newcomer.
Actually, don't mind me Dee...it doesn't really matter what we say on here...
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May 7, 2018 12:47 PM CST Am I ok?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
pKrema: Actually, don't mind me Dee...it doesn't really matter what we say on here...
I never do mind you Kremp ...its ok dear comfort
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May 7, 2018 12:47 PM CST Am I ok?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
pKrema: Telling a 66 year old woman what to expect from people on an international forum(if she isn't a newcomer) and talking to her like an adolescent is hilarious...
Nah, giving friendly advice is all.
handshake
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May 7, 2018 12:48 PM CST Am I ok?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Deedee123x: I never do mind you Kremp ...its ok dear
No emoticons Dee, not the bloody emoticons... laugh
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May 7, 2018 12:49 PM CST Am I ok?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
pKrema: No emoticons Dee, not the bloody emoticons...
Aint they great though...where would we be without them grin
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