Dying of Loneliness (69)
KatamaranOrange, California USA2 Threads 85 PostsDying of loneliness. LOL !
I am lonely for almost 16 years and I am not dead yet. Instead I feel free like the wind in the field and I am happy. No pain.
I am lonely for almost 16 years and I am not dead yet. Instead I feel free like the wind in the field and I am happy. No pain.
Packersbabe1: She probably found somebody now, this thread is old
I repeat
CanadianWoman4U: I am seriously going to die of loneliness.
I can identify with you. I too, am lonely. A good place to meet friends is at the recreational center. You can join others in walking, playing board games and dancing, etc. You can also find a church in your area. It's a good place to meet friends. They usually have pot luck lunch. There are lots of places to meet friends, you just have to look for them. Good luck.
been there and still doing it , I know it sucks but what can you do other than just deal with it , but best of luck to you in the future 
Well, I think the owner of this thread may not need it anymore but the other one can use it to share their feeling. Sometime, I feel lonely even having my friends around and I worry about my future too. Reading book, watching TV, going out can make me busy and stop thinking but when the night come, I feel empty again. Anyway, I am trying to get familiar with this feeling and hope it will better soon.
If your path demands you to walk through hell, walk as if you own the place
It's a cliché but...….. If you don't like spending time with yourself, why would anyone else??
Don't shoot the messanger. I've been technically single for 10 years, I had been living with a man for 5 years before that but I would still categorize myself as single then too.
I decided to use the time after I took my kids and left to start doing things I wanted to do. I dealt with depression - there are meds for that, anxiety - again meds for that, low esteem, low self worth and loneliness I figured I could just wallow in the mess that was my life or do something about it.
I did things I wanted to do, I congratulated myself on the little things. I brought myself up with each and every little thing I succeeded in and let no one shoot me down. I gave up worrying about the opinions of others - they don't pay my bills and therefore have no say in what I do. I forced myself to do what I thought I could never do - eat in a restaurant by myself and kept doing it until I didn't feel self conscience about it. I learned to accept a compliment and learned how to give one.
I'm self sufficient and can take care of my home. I do outside work and if I really can't do something, I pay someone to do it. The small stuff is no longer worth my sweat nor are the egotistical, narcissistic men that I had been known to let into my life.
So when I am alone, am I lonely??? Nope, I'm enjoying me time and loving it.
Don't shoot the messanger. I've been technically single for 10 years, I had been living with a man for 5 years before that but I would still categorize myself as single then too.
I decided to use the time after I took my kids and left to start doing things I wanted to do. I dealt with depression - there are meds for that, anxiety - again meds for that, low esteem, low self worth and loneliness I figured I could just wallow in the mess that was my life or do something about it.
I did things I wanted to do, I congratulated myself on the little things. I brought myself up with each and every little thing I succeeded in and let no one shoot me down. I gave up worrying about the opinions of others - they don't pay my bills and therefore have no say in what I do. I forced myself to do what I thought I could never do - eat in a restaurant by myself and kept doing it until I didn't feel self conscience about it. I learned to accept a compliment and learned how to give one.
I'm self sufficient and can take care of my home. I do outside work and if I really can't do something, I pay someone to do it. The small stuff is no longer worth my sweat nor are the egotistical, narcissistic men that I had been known to let into my life.
So when I am alone, am I lonely??? Nope, I'm enjoying me time and loving it.
CanadianWoman4U: I am seriously going to die of loneliness.
Well, can y'all do it quietly ? And why is the account 'closed' when you go off line ?
Sniffs ... is that scampi or scammer I smell ?
The fear is real 
LaFonda: "she probable found someone by now the thread is old."
Or she died from loneliness.
Best answer Or she died from loneliness.
Loneliness is a killer !!! I have suffered from Survivor's guilt for many years. The loneliness is a big part of it. You HAVE TO find things that will occupy yer mind !!! I meself fer instance I do crosswords, sudoku & other such games. Play games where you can chat.
Regards
Regards
An old thread I know and no sign of the Op it seems, but I hope you're ok Canadian woman and managed to find someone or something that helps..
It's sad to think that the more populated the planet becomes the more divided, isolated and seperated we are becoming from each other as people. Chronic loneliness and feelings of being isolated and cut off from others seems to be becoming a major issue for young and old alike...I read a really disturbing report about this subject amongst the eldery and some of the stories told were so so sad...when all they needed was someone to show they cared about them, to talk to and be with..not a lot to ask really, sad it's in such short supply for far far too many....This is the price we pay for becoming such an individualistic society..
So you're not alone Canadian woman, indeed far from it..
It's sad to think that the more populated the planet becomes the more divided, isolated and seperated we are becoming from each other as people. Chronic loneliness and feelings of being isolated and cut off from others seems to be becoming a major issue for young and old alike...I read a really disturbing report about this subject amongst the eldery and some of the stories told were so so sad...when all they needed was someone to show they cared about them, to talk to and be with..not a lot to ask really, sad it's in such short supply for far far too many....This is the price we pay for becoming such an individualistic society..
So you're not alone Canadian woman, indeed far from it..
Grampus: Loneliness is a killer !!! I have suffered from Survivor's guilt for many years. The loneliness is a big part of it. You HAVE TO find things that will occupy yer mind !!! I meself fer instance I do crosswords, sudoku & other such games. Play games where you can chat.
Regards
Volunteering is a good way as well, it takes you out of your own world, takes the focus of oneself too and puts it on someone else and their needs...always a good thing in my opinion (and experience)..Regards
LaFonda: "she probable found someone by now the thread is old."
Or she died from loneliness.
Could be, it can go either wayOr she died from loneliness.
I'm in the same boat.
Hello there beautiful lady I'd like to chat with you and keep you company ??
Hello there beautiful lady I'd like to chat with you and keep you company ??
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