Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself (31)
Tanzila: Many times we see people often start to blame others..
Well.. It is obviously normal to have own opinion and criticise or judge others as per your own perspective..
But..
What if you are blaming others for some of their actions exactly like what you have acted by yourself..
I mean you are blaming others for doing something which actually you have already done by yourself!!!
Is it because of just human nature is tend to point fingers on others to ignore and hide their own flaws!!
What do you all think!
Welcome to the Forums!Well.. It is obviously normal to have own opinion and criticise or judge others as per your own perspective..
But..
What if you are blaming others for some of their actions exactly like what you have acted by yourself..
I mean you are blaming others for doing something which actually you have already done by yourself!!!
Is it because of just human nature is tend to point fingers on others to ignore and hide their own flaws!!
What do you all think!
I’m used to people pointing their fingers at me because I’m fat, ugly and a big sinner in tone and substance.
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galrads: Welcome to the Forums!
I’m used to people pointing their fingers at me because I’m fat, ugly and a big sinner in tone and substance.
You´re such a modest guy GalradsI’m used to people pointing their fingers at me because I’m fat, ugly and a big sinner in tone and substance.
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I have never ever played the blame game nor pulled the blame card to justify my actions.
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Its called projection and usually done to take the heat off themselves....if someone can make it your fault...then they have nothing to take responsibility for or to change....its all on you.....
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Taking blame for your own actions in a very genuine very sincere manner gives you a feeling of peace hopefully for them too.. You don't dwell you get right back up look straight ahead tomorrow is a brand new day..
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It happens...often...
It's all down to lack of proper communication...
Presuming someone's intentions or thoughts is a damaging act.
Guessing isn't the way, or mirroring their behaviour...
Talk, nobody can read your mind, we all make mistakes and get carried away sometimes, it doesn't mean we did it on purpose...
It's all down to lack of proper communication...
Presuming someone's intentions or thoughts is a damaging act.
Guessing isn't the way, or mirroring their behaviour...
Talk, nobody can read your mind, we all make mistakes and get carried away sometimes, it doesn't mean we did it on purpose...
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Thank You all who has posted and will posted on my topics..
Being a newbie here I am really feeling comfortable now and hope will be able to continue a memorable journey with all of you..
Again Thank You All..
Being a newbie here I am really feeling comfortable now and hope will be able to continue a memorable journey with all of you..
Again Thank You All..
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Yes I think thats human nature, to have a bit of a double standard.
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Tanzila: Thank You all who has posted and will posted on my topics..
Being a newbie here I am really feeling comfortable now and hope will be able to continue a memorable journey with all of you..
Again Thank You All..
Tanzila Being that this is obviously a social site I'm sure that you will experience somethings to remember ans wish you had forgotten.Being a newbie here I am really feeling comfortable now and hope will be able to continue a memorable journey with all of you..
Again Thank You All..
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I like to play the race card and blame white people for everything
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I feel that Greek olives are slightly superior to Spanish olives, so I'm sorry to break the bad news to you.
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Bnaughty: You´re such a modest guy Galrads
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pat8lanips: I feel that Greek olives are slightly superior to Spanish olives, so I'm sorry to break the bad news to you.
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galrads: So? Bite me
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Bearwoman: Tanzila Being that this is obviously a social site I'm sure that you will experience somethings to remember ans wish you had forgotten.
Yaa.. I know! But life is just like that.. We can't expect everything will go smoothly always.. We have to accept honey and bitter gourd both!! I all ready have faced some such moments here and am ready to face them in future too!!
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Tanzila: Many times we see people often start to blame others..
Well.. It is obviously normal to have own opinion and criticise or judge others as per your own perspective..
But..
What if you are blaming others for some of their actions exactly like what you have acted by yourself..
I mean you are blaming others for doing something which actually you have already done by yourself!!!
Is it because of just human nature is tend to point fingers on others to ignore and hide their own flaws!!
What do you all think!
I don't give attention to them , what they think about me and what they do , isn't my business , I always do whatever i think is best for me , Well.. It is obviously normal to have own opinion and criticise or judge others as per your own perspective..
But..
What if you are blaming others for some of their actions exactly like what you have acted by yourself..
I mean you are blaming others for doing something which actually you have already done by yourself!!!
Is it because of just human nature is tend to point fingers on others to ignore and hide their own flaws!!
What do you all think!
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Tanzila: Yaa.. I know! But life is just like that.. We can't expect everything will go smoothly always.. We have to accept honey and bitter gourd both!!
I all ready have faced some such moments here and am ready to face them in future too!!
better to let them wasting their energy , there are lot of other things we can think of , just my thinking I all ready have faced some such moments here and am ready to face them in future too!!
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Tanzila: Yaa.. I know! But life is just like that.. We can't expect everything will go smoothly always.. We have to accept honey and bitter gourd both!!
I all ready have faced some such moments here and am ready to face them in future too!!
Well said Tanzila I all ready have faced some such moments here and am ready to face them in future too!!
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It's very easy to blame others & very difficult to accept our fault.
I think everybody is like that, myself also. It is because nobody is perfect.
insaan galtiyon ka putla hota hai. vah hamesa doosaron me kami dekhta rahta hai. We have to change this bad habit.
I think everybody is like that, myself also. It is because nobody is perfect.
insaan galtiyon ka putla hota hai. vah hamesa doosaron me kami dekhta rahta hai. We have to change this bad habit.
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Well.. It is obviously normal to have own opinion and criticise or judge others as per your own perspective..
But..
What if you are blaming others for some of their actions exactly like what you have acted by yourself..
I mean you are blaming others for doing something which actually you have already done by yourself!!!
Is it because of just human nature is tend to point fingers on others to ignore and hide their own flaws!!
What do you all think!