Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself (25)

May 16, 2018 4:03 PM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Many times we see people often start to blame others..
Well.. It is obviously normal to have own opinion and criticise or judge others as per your own perspective..
But..
What if you are blaming others for some of their actions exactly like what you have acted by yourself..
I mean you are blaming others for doing something which actually you have already done by yourself!!!
Is it because of just human nature is tend to point fingers on others to ignore and hide their own flaws!!
What do you all think!
May 16, 2018 4:09 PM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Tanzila: Many times we see people often start to blame others..
Well.. It is obviously normal to have own opinion and criticise or judge others as per your own perspective..
But..
What if you are blaming others for some of their actions exactly like what you have acted by yourself..
I mean you are blaming others for doing something which actually you have already done by yourself!!!
Is it because of just human nature is tend to point fingers on others to ignore and hide their own flaws!!
What do you all think!
Welcome to the Forums!

I’m used to people pointing their fingers at me because I’m fat, ugly and a big sinner in tone and substance.

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May 16, 2018 4:29 PM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
galrads: Welcome to the Forums!

I’m used to people pointing their fingers at me because I’m fat, ugly and a big sinner in tone and substance.
You´re such a modest guy Galrads
May 16, 2018 6:35 PM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
I have never ever played the blame game nor pulled the blame card to justify my actions.
Thu May 17, 2018 12:05 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Its called projection and usually done to take the heat off themselves....if someone can make it your fault...then they have nothing to take responsibility for or to change....its all on you.....beer
Thu May 17, 2018 12:39 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Taking blame for your own actions in a very genuine very sincere manner gives you a feeling of peace hopefully for them too.. You don't dwell you get right back up look straight ahead tomorrow is a brand new day..
Thu May 17, 2018 1:17 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
It happens...often...
It's all down to lack of proper communication...
Presuming someone's intentions or thoughts is a damaging act.
Guessing isn't the way, or mirroring their behaviour...
Talk, nobody can read your mind, we all make mistakes and get carried away sometimes, it doesn't mean we did it on purpose...
Thu May 17, 2018 6:49 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Thank You all who has posted and will posted on my topics..
Being a newbie here I am really feeling comfortable now and hope will be able to continue a memorable journey with all of you..
Again Thank You All.. teddybear
Thu May 17, 2018 7:09 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Yes I think thats human nature, to have a bit of a double standard.
Thu May 17, 2018 7:16 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Tanzila: Thank You all who has posted and will posted on my topics..
Being a newbie here I am really feeling comfortable now and hope will be able to continue a memorable journey with all of you..
Again Thank You All..
Tanzila Being that this is obviously a social site I'm sure that you will experience somethings to remember ans wish you had forgotten.giggle
Thu May 17, 2018 7:50 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
I like to play the race card and blame white people for everything
Thu May 17, 2018 8:07 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
I feel that Greek olives are slightly superior to Spanish olives, so I'm sorry to break the bad news to you.
Thu May 17, 2018 8:18 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Bnaughty: You´re such a modest guy Galrads
So? Bite me
Thu May 17, 2018 8:30 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
pat8lanips: I feel that Greek olives are slightly superior to Spanish olives, so I'm sorry to break the bad news to you.
What about Aussie olives, any good?
Thu May 17, 2018 8:31 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
galrads: So? Bite me
Is there another option?
Thu May 17, 2018 9:02 AM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Aussie olives? I think the soil here is too fertile mostly. I think they grow is South Australia where nothing else grows. But SA is one of those places where you're likely to be raped and murdered, and probably not in that order.
Thu May 17, 2018 1:12 PM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
pat8lanips: Aussie olives? I think the soil here is too fertile mostly. I think they grow is South Australia where nothing else grows. But SA is one of those places where you're likely to be raped and murdered, and probably not in that order.
Sounds like a great holiday destination
Thu May 17, 2018 1:16 PM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Bearwoman: Tanzila Being that this is obviously a social site I'm sure that you will experience somethings to remember ans wish you had forgotten.
Yaa.. I know! But life is just like that.. We can't expect everything will go smoothly always.. We have to accept honey and bitter gourd both!!
I all ready have faced some such moments here and am ready to face them in future too!! thumbs up
Thu May 17, 2018 1:30 PM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Tanzila: Many times we see people often start to blame others..
Well.. It is obviously normal to have own opinion and criticise or judge others as per your own perspective..
But..
What if you are blaming others for some of their actions exactly like what you have acted by yourself..
I mean you are blaming others for doing something which actually you have already done by yourself!!!
Is it because of just human nature is tend to point fingers on others to ignore and hide their own flaws!!
What do you all think!
I don't give attention to them , what they think about me and what they do , isn't my business , I always do whatever i think is best for me , wine
Thu May 17, 2018 1:32 PM CST Blaming others for acting exactly same as yourself
Tanzila: Yaa.. I know! But life is just like that.. We can't expect everything will go smoothly always.. We have to accept honey and bitter gourd both!!
I all ready have faced some such moments here and am ready to face them in future too!!
better to let them wasting their energy , there are lot of other things we can think of , just my thinking wine
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