Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites (9)

May 23, 2018 4:02 AM CST Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites
francophile50
francophile50francophile50St Gaudens, Occitanie France1 Threads 1 Posts
I am a member of a "pay" dating site in France. I've had a few successful meet ups but nothing that has flourished. The odd behaviour - I get visits every day from a variety of women. If I'm attracted by a profile, I often message if the distance element makes a meet practical. Often, there is no reply. It turns out that quite a lot of participants aren't paying which prevents them replying. My question is why use the dating site to visit if there is no chance of any sort of outcome? Some of these women have visited my profile at least a dozen times. The oddest response was from a serial visitor who had eventually paid up. I had sent her a message a couple of months earlier with no response. In the interim she had visited my profile several times and I sent her another message. She replied despite her many visits that my profile didn't match what she was looking for!
May 24, 2018 7:28 AM CST Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites
Poitin
PoitinPoitinClare, Ireland14 Posts
Hi I personally wouldn't pay to avail of an online dating site cos given the fact that u ve no guarantee of receiving anything in return for ur payment, i.e. guaranteed dates set up, it could be a waste of money. Contrast that with professional offline dating agencies who spend time n effort searching for compatible people for u to meet n setting up actual dates I think u get what u pay for with them.
As for odd behaviour, my experience of men practically stalking my profile( which is not in constant change) here on c.s. without getting in touch, all of which is free; is a regular occurrence n one I find both odd n puzzling. Sometimes I can't help wondering is it to monitor when I m online on this site which I find quite stalkish behaviour! purple heart
May 28, 2018 1:14 AM CST Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
There is plenty of odd behaviour on dating sites. This includes pushy manipulative people. To people who use empathy as a form of conversation, to being abusive.

Such attractive qualities to seek in a partner professor
Jun 5, 2018 1:44 PM CST Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Rachie14: There is plenty of odd behaviour on dating sites. This includes pushy manipulative people. To people who use empathy as a form of conversation, to being abusive.

Such attractive qualities to seek in a partner
So will you go out with me then?
Jun 6, 2018 10:51 AM CST Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites
Demeter123
Demeter123Demeter123Sundsvall, Vasternorrland Sweden149 Posts
Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites?

How about those not posting a picture on their profile?: grin yay
Jun 6, 2018 2:25 PM CST Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Demeter123: Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites?

How about those not posting a picture on their profile?:
And sadly for you I still get more attention
Jun 8, 2018 4:41 AM CST Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
Bnaughty: So will you go out with me then?
Ask in about 20 years, I should be ready for that kind of.... commitment.
Jun 8, 2018 3:40 PM CST Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Rachie14: Ask in about 20 years, I should be ready for that kind of.... commitment.
I´m not waiting that longsigh
Jun 8, 2018 5:20 PM CST Odd Behaviour on Dating Sites
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
I´m not waiting that long[/quote

I like to take things at a slow pace. If you're a good boy I'll let you hold my hand in 12 months.heart wings
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