The biggest turn off for a normal man (lee charming excluded). It seems like they have taken over the forums, thus discouraging the traditional woman from posting .
One2note: The biggest turn off for a normal man (lee charming excluded). It seems like they have taken over the forums, thus discouraging the traditional woman from posting .
One2note: The biggest turn off for a normal man (lee charming excluded). It seems like they have taken over the forums, thus discouraging the traditional woman from posting .
I’m sure they just sound more bunch than they really are. Women are under a lot of pressure to appear belt and braces and modern feminism is a capitalist plot to make us not care about the role of mothers and care workers, and give all consideration to the CEO. All of womanhood is conditioned to promote the minority of mannish women who are like Margaret Thatcher the brutal.
Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK2,330 posts
One2note: There are ways of communicating, without resorting to comments deliberately posted to emasculate men.
Now I would agree with you on this but from personal experience online I can tell you there is not much respect from some of the men. Often I have remained polite but firm with these guys. But there does come a point where you are continually disrespected that it changes that conversation.
So to answer your question. It depends on the man. There are a few men on here that I have a lot of respect for. I will always respect that and return it.
One2note: The biggest turn off for a normal man (lee charming excluded). It seems like they have taken over the forums, thus discouraging the traditional woman from posting .
I agree that it is always better to exclude LeeCharming, but, as far as women are concerned, I don't think I've noticed them being more assertive lately. Perhaps the answer is for men to be a bit more feminine. Men do tend to overdo the bravado and swaggering when they have an audience.
One2note: I made one comment & you immediately jumped in & attached me in an aggressive way!
I pulled you up straight away very lady like thank you very much because you were like a bloody child and I was the bloody babysitter..If you kick into a woman like that behind a screen I have every right to think maybe you are an abuser behind closed doors.
If you found me aggressive with me pulling you up then you need help because it's all in your head.
I did the right thing it helped put out the fire and now you can continue your meltdown because your pissed off not because of what I said as there was nothing with what I said at all..Your just pissed off because I wouldn't allow you to carry on like a child.
Rachie14: Now I would agree with you on this but from personal experience online I can tell you there is not much respect from some of the men. Often I have remained polite but firm with these guys. But there does come a point where you are continually disrespected that it changes that conversation.
So to answer your question. It depends on the man. There are a few men on here that I have a lot of respect for. I will always respect that and return it.
I find that if things get too heated, it's best left alone... It's what real men do!
Mercedes_00: I pulled you up straight away very lady like thank you very much because you were like a bloody child and I was the bloody babysitter..If you kick into a woman like that behind a screen I have every right to think maybe you are an abuser behind closed doors.
If you found me aggressive with me pulling you up then you need help because it's all in your head.
I did the right thing it helped put out the fire and now you can continue your meltdown because your pissed off not because of what I said as there was nothing with what I said at all..Your just pissed off because I wouldn't allow you to carry on like a child.
I'm not pissed off at all .. I commented on an observation...
Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK2,330 posts
One2note: I find that if things get too heated, it's best left alone... It's what real men do!
That would be your defination of a real man. Mine as a woman would be somewhat different.
You are asking if I value my feminity right? I am saying yes I do. But are you saying that when women are not passive aggressive and speak their mind they lose that?
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It seems like they have taken over the forums, thus discouraging the traditional woman from posting .