Because I can. I like my independence and don’t want to have to ask permission from a partner to do what I want. I’ve had one marriage and two relationships all ended. I’m done and have no more time for drama or BS. I have time, freedom, $ to do what I want with who ever I choose. Have not dated in over two years.
One2note: What is your excuse for not being in a relationship... I think you all need to take a long hard look at yourselves & if the reason is that you're cursed , then I would gladly take to the cloth & sprinkle you with holy water if that's what it takes !!
I am in a relationship and was for the majority of my adult life.
I want to share my life with someone. Having a partner in crime with similar values and background and attitude helps. No one is perfect. Everyone is their own person with likes and dislikes and these have to be accepted. Having each others back and supporting each other is what makes all of this worthwhile for me.
I know for me that there are very few I can click with. I couldn't go from one guy to the next constantly. I would rather be on my own that doing that to me.
I think me being too clingy is a turned off for these men or atleast that's what the last two said. But me looking at it now; if they really want me they would have worked with me and not just blame it on me being too clingy... so I guess it's just not my time to find true love/I always end up liking the wrong guys. idk
NickiX2017: I think me being too clingy is a turned off for these men or atleast that's what the last two said. But me looking at it now; if they really want me they would have worked with me and not just blame it on me being too clingy... so I guess it's just not my time to find true love/I always end up liking the wrong guys. idk
It's not you, it's me... I'm just not that into you. There is a point where we must say this rather than blame him or her. And I think it's unmanly to not say what you want or don't want. Sometimes when a woman tears out your heart and you don't even flinch this can rekindle her interest it's like she inflicts suffering specifically to test your resolve, this doesn't happen with a man. The gender which makes its own mind up is not so influenced by how you react to those decisions. The decision is not there to test and upset you, it's final.
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