LeeCharming: You are always welcome to join me on my threads and speak your mind...no one will pick on you...free thinkers are welcome to join me...why you like me to write a thread subject for you? I don't mind and if it is something you really want to talk about, then I will write about it...let me know
Bearwoman: Le_Us t I'm the same way where most people usually know exactly where they stand with me.I've never had a problem telling people what train to take and what track to catch it on.I'm straightforward and very blunt.
I have NO PROBLEM with people disagreeing with me! At least I can deal with them! It's the ones who you CAN'T tell where they stand, or what they meant/want, that "I" have trouble with! I DON'T EXPECT everybody/anybody to agree with me, but I DO like having an idea where you stand, so I can know what I CAN depend on you for! It's the ones that you that DON'T HAVE an opinion of their own that are useless and irritate me.
rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
Maiana: The last time I was here Lookin told me that everyone on CS thought that I was foolish for always speaking my mind and saying what I really thought.
It made me think a lot...
Was I really foolish? Should I have pretended? Should I have told what (someone, but who? ) expected me to say. And why? In order to be more liked (again, by whom? )? In order to feel more like I belong to CS (but I felt that already being myself ) or some CS group, if there is such a thing at all (but I don't like belonging to groups, I'm a very individualistic person )?
Still, it made me think...
Maybe I should have put an effort to make some nice virtual persona. But why? What would I get from that? Ego boost? But, for me - virtual ego boost means nothing any more - for a long time! It is not real. It's all an illusion... Even when I join discussions, I merely talk, express my opinion, read what other people think... I don't care if people agree or disagree. I don't want to win an argument, since there's nothing to win. We are all different people who live in different personal worlds...
Don't listen to fool who might be drinking or smoking ... You can't value everyone's opinion as the fact. You are fine.
The narcissist waits for the borderline to order. However, the borderline is not sure what to have. Thus, the borderline, influenced by the narcissist, decides to order whatever the narcissist is having and offers to pay for the narcissist's drinks. The narcissist then orders one of every drink in the bar on the borderline's tab. Not to be outdone, the sociopath leaves the bar with the borderline once the borderline is sufficiently drunk; sleeps with the borderline at the borderline's place; and leaves before the borderline awakens the next morning. Of course, upon rising to greet the new day, the borderline finds all personal and household valuables, including cash, credit cards, car, priceless, inherited, paintings, are gone. Feeling really terrible now (and very hung over), the borderline calls the narcissist's phone number for help - from a scrap of paper in the, now empty, billfold. However, upon hearing the borderline's story, with nothing left to offer the narcissist by way of money, a spontaneous good time, or even a free car ride around town, the narcissist makes a lame excuse to hang up the phone as quickly as possible...while also telling the borderline to lose the narcissist's phone number "pronto." "Ciao, Baby!"
I think this site challenged people to create their versions. So I can not take credit.There were several more.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Draegoneer: I think that most do speak their mind. The question is more of what have they read for themselves on things that matter vs. more of what they've heard that may not matter much at all?
Either way. Online may not be very hospitable in many cases, but it's still good that people speak.
People talk about how important communication is in a relationship. Why should a forum or any such environment be any different?
The more important factor here, is that if some one is sleeping on the couch instead of in the bedroom, it's more likely to be a choice or accident.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
ChesneyChrist: If I was to speak my mind about your mind this would only bring me down. Sometimes the truth is too painful to look at, it’s like the sun.
Well I'm sure that u would love to know what I think of u, as much as I could care less what u have to say about me.....
ashlander: The narcissist waits for the borderline to order. However, the borderline is not sure what to have. Thus, the borderline, influenced by the narcissist, decides to order whatever the narcissist is having and offers to pay for the narcissist's drinks. The narcissist then orders one of every drink in the bar on the borderline's tab. Not to be outdone, the sociopath leaves the bar with the borderline once the borderline is sufficiently drunk; sleeps with the borderline at the borderline's place; and leaves before the borderline awakens the next morning. Of course, upon rising to greet the new day, the borderline finds all personal and household valuables, including cash, credit cards, car, priceless, inherited, paintings, are gone. Feeling really terrible now (and very hung over), the borderline calls the narcissist's phone number for help - from a scrap of paper in the, now empty, billfold. However, upon hearing the borderline's story, with nothing left to offer the narcissist by way of money, a spontaneous good time, or even a free car ride around town, the narcissist makes a lame excuse to hang up the phone as quickly as possible...while also telling the borderline to lose the narcissist's phone number "pronto." "Ciao, Baby!"
I think this site challenged people to create their versions. So I can not take credit.There were several more.
they freakin at the freakers ball/dr.hook song plz hit me n ill hit u,lol.
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Pandering - AGAIN, are we, Lee?