Education on Consent ( Archived) (61)

Jul 1, 2018 5:32 PM CST Education on Consent
Your assumptions about my life experiences???
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Jul 1, 2018 5:34 PM CST Education on Consent
Everyone has a different view on what is appropriate, it is more of a personal matter , I admit i do not have much experience in these matters as i have only talked to 2 people for any length of time. I can understand you might not be happy if your first email is of that content

It is the difference of views which need education.....If you read back on the reaction of some people here.....they attack by name calling.....Is it appropriate.....?
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Jul 1, 2018 5:37 PM CST Education on Consent
jimgi
jimgijimgiroscommon, Roscommon Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 977 Posts
JaneA: Can you back up your evidence about my life experiences?
Now I'm calling you a drama queen.
I didn't at any point here offer any evidence or knowledge of your life experiences, therefore have no reason to back it up.

I said what I said, I'll stand behind it.
Not getting any further involved in this magic roundabout, so I'll wish you well & hope you weren't too badly traumatized by it all.
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Jul 1, 2018 5:38 PM CST Education on Consent
Just to clarify.
I didn't call you a drama queen.
I advised you not to become one.


and again I ask you to back up with evidence your assumption that I have not been 'genuinely abused'
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Jul 1, 2018 5:39 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
Whats inappropriate and how do you put it under one umbrella when people see things differently....most importantly how does anyone know whats inappropriate to you before they send you a pm?......dunno
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Jul 1, 2018 5:41 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief: Whats inappropriate and how do you put it under one umbrella when people see things differently....most importantly how does anyone know whats inappropriate to you before they send you a pm?......
and hence my question re the need for education. Who gets 'off ' on these messages and how do I benefit from being the recipient of one?
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Jul 1, 2018 5:44 PM CST Education on Consent
Now I'm calling you a drama queen.
I didn't at any point here offer any evidence or knowledge of your life experiences, therefore have no reason to back it up.

I said what I said, I'll stand behind it.
Not getting any further involved in this magic roundabout, so I'll wish you well & hope you weren't too badly traumatized by it all.


I have been called names on this thread. I dont take it personally. I dont take the inappropriate mails personally. I block those people. However, like the 'me too' people I am questioning the need for education.

Obviously I am hitting a nerve with name callers who seem to take my discussion personally....
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Jul 1, 2018 5:45 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
I would assume nobody unless you choose to respond.....a one way pm is hardly something to get off on and nobody would benefit from that scenario...anything other than that well you would be a contributor....dunno
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Jul 1, 2018 5:47 PM CST Education on Consent
'stop likening your self to women who were genuinely abused'................who said I wasnt sir?

Back up your assumption or run away from the discussion....Its all the one to me......Im glad I posed the question....after all that is all it is!!!!
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Jul 1, 2018 5:50 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief: I would assume nobody unless you choose to respond.....a one way pm is hardly something to get off on and nobody would benefit from that scenario...anything other than that well you would be a contributor....
some men do......Why would they send them??? What would be the point....Its like 'inappropriate touch'....I could respond or run away or report them.....what gives them the right? and am I a contributor then.....Little acorns grow into big trees...
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Jul 1, 2018 5:57 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
By responding and contributing you are giving them what they want....that's how they get off....now if it remains one sided they have nothing to get off on....stop concentrating on the whys about them...you cant change that....the solution lies with not giving them what they want...that you're in control of....wine
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Jul 1, 2018 5:58 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
also an acorn cant grow without water.....stop watering it.....wine
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Jul 1, 2018 5:59 PM CST Education on Consent
marlindaponline today!
marlindaponline today!marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada575 Posts
I wonder if this ever happens to men ? I hope this posting works for you because you have the right to say how you feel, and that you get the emails you are hoping for.
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Jul 1, 2018 6:01 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief: By responding and contributing you are giving them what they want....that's how they get off....now if it remains one sided they have nothing to get off on....stop concentrating on the whys about them...you cant change that....the solution lies with not giving them what they want...that you're in control of....
The 'me too movement' spoke out against inappropriate behaviour despite their fears. I m not asking why people do it....Im asking is it appropriate and is there a need for education.....It is a discussion....I dont need advice on how to deal with them.....
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Jul 1, 2018 6:06 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
That was my contribution to the discussion...it just so happens it can apply to more than one situation....something can only grow bigger if you continue to give it energy......wine
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Jul 1, 2018 6:09 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief: That was my contribution to the discussion...it just so happens it can apply to more than one situation....something can only grow bigger if you continue to give it energy......
Exactly......so education might just happenbanana
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Jul 1, 2018 6:12 PM CST Education on Consent
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
It might...anything is possible.....wave
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Jul 1, 2018 11:50 PM CST Education on Consent
Kaylana04
Kaylana04Kaylana04Kekava, Riga Latvia16 Threads 635 Posts
Bearwoman: Kaylana,I don't know who called who what anymore.
Hey Bear!
Yeah, it is confusing!! frustrated
bouquet
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Jul 10, 2018 4:37 PM CST Education on Consent
Rachie14: I have experienced some nasty things as well. But I have also experienced kindness, friendship and some really good laughs.

My thoughts are this, people are fully aware it happens. Yes it's upsetting, yes it is offensive. But the reality is you are thinking that the people who do upset you look at it the same way as you do. They simply don't. It is about consent, it's about actually consideration. That being beyond yourself and most people don't consider beyond themselves or feel driven to make an impression.

To say they need an education is your perception. Especially in today's society in reality a lot of men are very conscious of their actions for the consquences are huge for them. In fact a lot of men have stopped dating because of it.

Just my view...
Just look at the new laws in Australia re consent.....We are behind the times.....Im just too far ahead...
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Jul 10, 2018 4:47 PM CST Education on Consent
PS....this forum is not to educate but to discuss the subject to see if it is necessary...
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