Some say that love is not a feeling you feel.... ( Archived) (112)

Jul 3, 2018 1:29 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
rizlared: Love is an emotion, whether we have control over it is debatable, as for a choice, seems unlikely unless most people make bad choices.
Some seem to, least they would show emotion..
Others just dive in regardless it seems!
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Jul 3, 2018 1:31 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
Mercedes_00: Love is constipation
laugh
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Jul 3, 2018 1:38 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
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ChesneyChrist: You get the chance to veto, the choice to not act on your feelings. The heart wants it wants although you don’t have to listen to it. Impulse control.

And I would say longer term relationships require impulse control and two partners need to complement one another in a more practical way. It’s to handle life’s mundanity, to commit to one partner forever will involve a lot of boredom and boredom tolerance is the secret ingredient in death do us part. Boredom will destroy impulsive people in whatever they do.
wow That is very powerful ChesneyC!
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Jul 3, 2018 1:39 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
Love....
I feel it, taste it, breathe it, dream it, think it.
I set no boundaries, no pre-conceived ideas about how it should be or where it should go, no expectations, no pre-planning, no need to define what it was.
It has grown naturally,organically, and every day is simply better than the last.
I awake every morning with a smile and go to sleep every night with Him on my brain.
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Jul 3, 2018 1:45 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
pKrema: Love is a pure feeling...
The decisions, the commitment, the boring everyday life, the compromise...tall this is a "relationship"...
But love is love, it is part of the mixture and when it's gone, it's gone and you have all the rest to pretend you are still having a relationship...
Thank you pKrena,
that is a great definition of love!
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Jul 3, 2018 1:47 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
aries1234: Love is a physical and mental illness
I suspect you are right blues laugh
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Jul 3, 2018 1:48 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
Bogart_1960: Some people are able to transcend the biology we are, and find the meaning of "love, and "life"". Most of us, dont, for whatever reasons, but we do have CS, and/or few other CS´s to talk about it.

Most of us throw words at it but never pin it down. Love is not about having a point, and love is not about fear. Love is reducing the sense of loneliness, and there is more to love than just mating. Love is vulnerability and an attachment that brings comfort to ourselves and provides security at same time.
That is so deep Bogart. teddybear
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Jul 3, 2018 1:51 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
Kaybee50: Love....
I feel it, taste it, breathe it, dream it, think it.
I set no boundaries, no pre-conceived ideas about how it should be or where it should go, no expectations, no pre-planning, no need to define what it was.
It has grown naturally,organically, and every day is simply better than the last.
I awake every morning with a smile and go to sleep every night with Him on my brain.
Kaybee, I think that could only come from someone
that’s falling in love.
teddybear
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Jul 3, 2018 2:03 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa: Kaybee, I think that could only come from someone
that’s falling in love.
It's a relationship born of respect, listening, hearing, jumping in spite of fears, setting aside "me" for the "We", and thanking the Universe for conspiring to bring Him back into my life.
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Jul 3, 2018 2:08 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
Kaybee50: It's a relationship born of respect, listening, hearing, jumping in spite of fears, setting aside "me" for the "We", and thanking the Universe for conspiring to bring Him back into my life.
Heartwarming! You go girl and love “him” with ALL your heart!
heart wings heart wings heart wings
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Jul 3, 2018 2:18 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
Sorry in advance I said What i felt may above user will fight will me with her gang as soon as she read it...
Your thread might gonna hijacked..laugh ( be patient)
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Jul 3, 2018 2:29 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
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Jul 3, 2018 2:34 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
laugh laugh
Now that is love!
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Jul 3, 2018 2:40 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
guysimple: MsContessa
Sorry in advance I said What i felt may above user will fight will me with her gang as soon as she read it...
Your thread might gonna hijacked.. ( be patient)
In all fairness, I think that Mercedes is one of the most honest posters on here. She calls it as it is! I was quiet surprised at how you addressed her in the previous post as I have not seen you post anything like that before, about anyone!
This is a LOVE thread. Life is short, bury the hatchet...
handshake
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Jul 3, 2018 3:22 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
MsContessa: You old romantic BW..
Love at first sight, good for you!
I don't know if I'd consider as being love at first sight but once he smiled at me and treated me like a lady should've been treated I fell head over heels in love with him.He had me hooked.He proposed to me on our very first date at a diner.At the time we had been busy eating apple pie and hot chocolate cause it was during the wintertime back then.
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Jul 3, 2018 4:15 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
Bearwoman: I don't know if I'd consider as being love at first sight but once he smiled at me and treated me like a lady should've been treated I fell head over heels in love with him.He had me hooked.He proposed to me on our very first date at a diner.At the time we had been busy eating apple pie and hot chocolate cause it was during the wintertime back then.
Proposed on first date? He was smitten.
Thanks for sharing
teddybear
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Jul 3, 2018 4:22 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Some say love..it is a hunger ..an endless aching need.

I say love..it is a flower..and you its only seed.smitten
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Jul 3, 2018 5:10 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa: ...... but it is a decision you make and then requires time and true commitment to grow.
Based on past or present experience, would you agree?
yes agree laugh
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Jul 3, 2018 5:12 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
MsContessa: You have a right to your beliefs and opinions but
we can never judge anyone until we walk a mile in their shoes.
love doesn't belong to religion or race it happens itself wine

And we takeoff rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 3, 2018 7:39 PM CST Some say that love is not a feeling you feel....
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
Mercedes_00: Based on past experience..I'm a bloody idiot.
thumbs up WELCOME to MY house, M! rolling on the floor laughing hug cheers grin
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